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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I need to get past this shock!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to ...

I cant move on, and she's gone back to her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) - why do i still feel bad ? my ex dumped me for the second time about 8 months ago to go back to her ex. in a way i blame myself . i fell for her again very qiuckley, she never really let go of me , texting me , stringing me along , i was in...

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, tel...

Is this girl pregnant with my boyfriend's baby? I cant even ask him because he's locked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ...

My ex is pregnant. How do I find out if its mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - What should I do? Went out with girl 4.5 years, she cheated, we got back together, she dumped me we got back together. End of last year was dumped again, I'm thinking cheating again .. Swears not no one else.. She wants no contact, I'm still being ...

What are the chances of my ex falling in love with me again and us getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I'm still in love with my exboyfriend. He sayes he loves me and cares for me, but not in love with me any more. We still talk from time to time and have an occasional drink every now and then. What are the chances of him falling in love with me ...

Is this a game to keep me and three kids on a string, instead of us both moving on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Is this part of his emotional games? My ex and i have been broke up for 4 mts now. When we were in a retionship our sexlife was non exsistent, we would go months without any intimacy and when we did it was never intimate. We had a good xmas and new ...

He texts his ex while we are kissing and cuddling! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - my boyfriend has been texting his ex-girlfriend lately while we're kissing, or cuddling and it's starting to bug me. we had a fight about it and he said that i could read thier conversations, but i didn't because i thought i was over reacting. h...

Why does my ex continue to try and hurt me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Why does he continue to try and hurt me? My ex and I split up several months ago he have children. It was I who ended it as he had not been a good partner. In the relationship there was no trust, there had been lies, he is an abusive man physical...

There was never any intimacy when we were dating, but now she's changed her mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 March 2012 (M) - Hi everyone! So, in my final year at school about 5 years ago, I'd never dated anyone, dating never really interested me at the time. Then I met the most beautiful girl. She asked me out. She was REALLY shy, almost to the point of awkwardness, but...

New committed guy in the pic but I am missing an ex who is obviously bad for me... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I’m sorry that this is of essay length but I’m really very unhappy and need advice desperately. I was involved in a very intense and passionate but turbulent relationship with a man whom I could never quite understand. He had three long relat...

My boyfriend keeps sexy pictures of his ex girlfriends!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Should I be worried if my boyfriend keeps "sexy" pictures of his past ex girlfriends? When I say sexy, I mean breast and all... Here's a little background info. I'm not so blessed with boobs but he reassured me that he likes me just the way I a...

What is the meaning behind my ex sending me a text "good luck with your life"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - My ex just sent me a message saying "good luck with your life".We broke up two months ago, why is he contacting me?.When we broke up another time before that, he got intouch after a couple of months then too and he sent a message saying he hoped my ...

My ex enjoys spending time with me but no longer loves me. Do I give up on getting him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, So I was with this guy for 2 years, until we broke up at the end of last year. We promised before we got together that we would still be best friends, and we are, we have such a laugh. He is perfectly aware that I still like him and ...

Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...

I can't let it go that my b/f had sex with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Should I split up with my boyfriend? To give you a bit of background knowledge, I started seeing my boyfriend after a drunken works night out and it very quickly turned into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. At the time I was living with my b...

We broke up, I had sex with another guy, ex found out and then I had sex with him! Where do I stand with my ex now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, this is gonna be pretty long-winded, buuut hopefully, somebody will be able to help me. thanks in advance to anyone who is willing to give it a shot. ") for the past year, i've been on-again/off-again with this guy...

I need insight as to my feelings about my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Hey, I'm 21 and will be turning 22 this year, so I know I'm young yet. However, I never dated until I met my high school sweetheart. WE did everything together and had all the same friends, all the same morals, and beliefs. Our only problem was ...

Instead of investing in us and our family b/f buys a flat! What's wrong with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - What is going on inhis head? Myex and Ibroke up several months back, we have 2 kids so we have to be civiland havecontact. to cut a long story short, I waited a long time for him to commit to me and our kids, when I thought is finally got the chan...

She's dating my ex best friend but is she over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I am 16 years old and bi. My ex best friend was dating this girl, and this girl decided to break up with her to date me. We dated for three weeks and then she decided that she wanted to go back to my ex best friend. This caused a bunch of drama, ...

My ex said he'd fall in love with me again but then cut all contact

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Why would he do that? I'm so hurt:(? I got back with my ex after a year split. He said he didn't want a relationship. A year later I was still sad and missed him everyday. Here got in contact again and got back together. He told me things...

I've gotten back with my ex, my parents don't know and they hate her. Do I tell them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - I recently recieved an e-mail from my ex girlfriend saying she loves me and wants to get back together, we hadnt seen each other in two years and she has a four month old girl. I went to see her at the weekend and lied to my parents telling them ...

Wife's friend is dating her ex, and I overheard them talking about his penis. I'm not happy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - Should I be pissed off or not. My wife's friend is really hitting on a guy who used to date my wife. I overheard them talking, and my wife said that this guy was a really nice guy. Will take her out to nice places, and buy her stuff. Then she said ...

He is looking for his ex and pictures of other girls online....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together since may 2010. We have had a very happy relationship, no one has ever come between us, we have never argued or had a "break". We have been totally content and in love since day 1. But ...

I miss my ex terribly, should I try and get in touch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - My ex and i have been broken up for two months. We were together about a year he is the one that broke it off just saying things weren't going to work and he didn't want to try anymore. I miss him terribly should i try to make contact? Even though ...

Could my new male friend help me on my road to recovery from my past with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Well I just got out of a relationship.. and for months he would send me mixed messages, I love you, or you're too attached and need to let go. It was getting crazy. I was his sexual partner for awhile but unlike him my emotions ran deep and it was ...

She is going through a really tough time and is hardly speaking to me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - We have been dating for a year and a half. She stopped talking to me. For 7 days nothing. I wrote a five Page letter saying how I feel about her and ect. I texted her to check these fake mailboxes where I put it. The next day I get this text say...

Why is my ex from 10 years ago sending me porn links?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Hmmm, I need some help to understand why my ex bf has started sending me emails with links to porn videos?? We were together when we were 17-20, like nearly 10 years ago! I split up with him because I felt we'd grown apart. Haven't seen each ...

He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...

My ex is like my security blanket. Should I move on or try again with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - I am devastated because I can't make the final decision to let go and move forward from my ex. We were together for 5 years and I broke up with him last year. We didn't cut ties and still kept talking and seeing each other. However there was no ...

I'm feeling a mess, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Dumped almost a year ago , I never got a reasonable answer,(short term relationship), happily single for years before that. I didn't want lots of questions from family/friends in case it didn't work out (guess I was right there...)so said we were ...

Will he cheat with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Here I go: I meet him at work(we worked in different dep) We started talking and doing activities together. Sex came in the picture, everything was fine, we started going for lunch at work, seeing eachother after work for movies, drives out of t...

Is a good/bad idea to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - Hi again, I just would like to ask the pros and cons of having an ex girlfriend as a "friend", like hang out, do stuff with them, I was wondrin if its a safe move to get her back or will i be risking frustration if ever i see her dating another g...

I'm pregnant and he cheated on me. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. Last week my boyfriend went clubbing with his friends and brother while i stayed home alone. I am 6 months pregnant with our first---twins. While he went clubbing he started dancing with this girl ...

I want my revenge!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - I am going crazy because of his sexual past. I think its because it happened while we were broken up. I feel as though, if he hadn't messed up the way he did, none of it would have happened. We wouldn't have broken up and it wouldnt have happened. ...

I was tired of being his mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of nine months, I was tired of being his mother. I did everything for that kid, and he appreciated none of it. I wasn't happy at all in the relationship. I was belittled and treated wrongly. I paid ...

Tattoos and Relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

24 March 2012 (M) - Beware The L-I-N-K Of (L)ove and (INK) By Frank Kermit, Relationships While at a coffee shop a few weeks ago, I met a tattoo artist. He had his son’s name tattooed on his hand, and being the ever-inquisitive one, I asked him about his profession...

Has my ex had a strange change of heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

24 March 2012 (M) - Hello. My name's Brian. I have a very confusing situation. It has been 3 years, since I have been romantically rejected by my first girlfriend. She offered to be my friend. However, I found that she wasn't very trustworthy, after knowing that a m...

Boyfriend said he doesn't feel guilty about cheating or lying to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - My bf of 2 years told me he cheated on me with his ex in October. He told me right after it happened and asked me to pleas forgive him please lets try to make this work. I called her and she tells me jhow this is the only time she crossed the line ...

One of the girls my boyfriend used to sleep with is OBSESSED with him and it's causing problems in our relationship! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year weve only started fighting the last couple of months, and its always over the same thing...or the same person i should say. basically when i first started talking to him before we were da...

35 years late he insinuates himself into facebook conversations with emotional references to the past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - my first boyfriend went away to college said we should date and sleep with others while he was away said we should start doing this before he left he did not take me to his prom I found out later that he even slept with my best friend he came back ...

I need help breaking up with my clingy boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4662 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now. Thing is I feel like I should break up with him because he gets clingy at times and he's already said I love you to me because I had told him that by accident. We were texting and we would ...

I wanted to extend an olive branch but was confronted with the truth instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - What are the chances of a relationship ever working out for the long term if the person is an alcoholic and after breaking off a long term relationship continues to become seriously involved with one woman after another. My ex left me after 7 ...

I don't know who to stay with, ex or current boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - hi i was in love with one boy for four years . i have a physical relation ship with him .but he changed (smoking and drinking).suddenly i met an another person and i fell in love with him but still i used to miss my ex boy frnd like anything...

My wife is matron of honor, and the best man is her ex!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have a question about weddings and what to do. My wife has this very good friend. After me, I guess you could say she was her 2nd best friend. She's getting married this summer. She asked my wife to be her matron of honor. My wi...

Why do I hate seeing my ex's having a good time and getting on with their lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - Hi guys, I was wondering why do I feel pissed whenever I see my exes having a good time and getting on with their lives while I'm stuck here dwelling on pasts reminiscing, I hate this because I'm the guy, I'm supposed to be having fun whenever ...

He dumped his ex after having sex with her, so I'm scared to lose my virginity to him in case he does the same to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - i have been dating this guy for the last one year,he is wonderful,we get along very well.We have never been intimate.My problem is,he has seen and done a lot of sex before.He dumped his ex after having sex with her..Am afraid to loose my virginity ...

My ex has been telling people that I use her for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

22 March 2012 (M) - Hello. I am feeling very guilty at the moment. I'm going to try and keep this short. I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, this was due to her being abusive towards me, she would hit me and emotionally treat me bad. I loved her very much and...

Where did I go wrong in starting this 'rebound' relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend of two years broke up with me, about 5 months ago now, and I was completley heart-broken. Shortly after the breakup, I hooked up with a co-worker. I told this co-worker from the get-go that I wasn't interested in a long term ...

Worried about my friend's relationship, what do you all think of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - Hi my question is more of your opinions because im worried about my friends relationship. She has always been back and forth running around in circles. She met this guy and was still in love with her ex, blew this guy off three times and he freaked ...