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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

What should I get my Ex Fiancee for valentine's day?

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31 January 2011 (M) - Well i have a question to ask the community i just recently broke up with my ex fiancee i want to give some sort of background we together for 6 years we had our ups and down i was very immature and lied because she had trust issues with me i admit ...

He's back in my life but doesn't want to make a commitment.

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31 January 2011 (F) - Me and this guy is ten years apart I am 37 and he is 27. At first we were in a relationship living together. But I messed up and one of his friends saw me at a rehearsal with my ex boyfriend. Afterwards we broke up and he started seeing other ...

Why does my ex boyfriend keep texting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hey guys, was wondering if you could help me make sense of ex-boyfriend's behaviour. We broke up 3 weeks ago after 2 years together due to us both being unhappy and arguing lots. For me the main source of our problems were his alcohol dependan...

I was unsure about trusting him, so he got fed up of waiting and left me! What should I do?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I REAALLY NEED HELP! I was dating this guy after i broke up with my boy friend...actually; he was the reason why I did break up...It was at a stage when my rel'ship with my ex was almost dead and i met him. At that point of time i was totally...

My ex is ruining my new life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Hello everybody. Here goes. I split up with my ex about 6 months ago. It turned out she was having an affair. I basically lost everything. She now lives with him in our flat, etc. The thing is I'm not bothered about this and I'll tell you...

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

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31 January 2011 (F) - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...

Should I chase her and get her back?..... I need an outside perspective!

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31 January 2011 (M) - I need some outside help in would greatly appreciated it. There is this girl that i dated 3 years back, but I have always kept in contact with her over the years. And now she is gone. i don't know if i should go chase something im not defiantl...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

Do I give my ex an honest opinion?

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31 January 2011 (M) - I need advice, my ex and I remained friends after our break up. I was really in love with her, my life sucked when she broke up with me. I had family issues, school problems etc. I got through it (mostly), and well I don't like to talk about it ...

Are some relationships mendable?

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31 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend just broke up recently because we did not agree on somethings in each others lifestyle (things that can be compromised but we were too stubborn). From the sounds of it, she is taking it as hard as I am (she initiated it). We ...

Last time I checked, friends don't see each other naked on a regular basis.

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30 January 2011 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a year ago and while we had a little rough patch over the summer we quickly went back to being friends and even became better friends than we were before we dated. We had not done anything remotely sexual at all until last ...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

Currently involved with a great girl, constantly plagued by the thought of my ex..

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30 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I am currently 20 years young and Id really like some advice with my dilemma. Basically to cut to the chase, I think about my ex girlfriend an awful lot lately although I have been with someone for over a year now. To shed some light ...

Do you think if he comes nearer he will catch me?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hi everybody, I really thank all of you who dedicate your time to relationship solving and other subjects. Please help me with my decision. My ex-boy friend left me when I was a month pregnant. I took care of myself, and now my baby is 5 months...

Cheated on my boyfriend and left him for another. 1 yr later I can't stop dreaming about him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay so bear with me please it's a really long one. So me and this guy, he was my high school sweetheart. We liked each other for years then dated for about 2 years or more. I cheated on him with another guy and thought I was falling for the other ...

What is my ex BF playing at?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Dear all, Please help!!I split up with my BF and we did not see each other for three months. Anyway,we did see each other last week and he was very lovng towards me. He works nights now, and said' I can;t see yu in the evenings, but can see you ...

Does my ex still like me or should I pursue a new girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I had a few questions. one dealing with my ex and one dealing with this new girl i met tonight. heres the stories: I was talkin to this girl tonight and she stayed around me anytime we ran into each other (we were at a night club) and she woul...

My boyfriend's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now..two days ago i dreamt of his ex (he has been with her for 4 years before they broke up). i dreamt that he was coming back from traveling and i was meeting him at the airport. then suddenly she shows up ...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

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30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

Dear cupid... please shoot a love arrow at my ex

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29 January 2011 (M) - Hey! I guess this seems like, to me, a very generic situation but who knows... every couple is different. I just need some help about this relationship I was in and I need advice. So here is some background info: I have grown up with a fam...

Girlfriend lied to me about her ex!

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29 January 2011 (M) - What should i do....my girlfriend lied to me about her x not being at her bday party?....lets call the girl b and the k....b was having a surprice party that her mom was throwing her and the mom had happen to invite her x....so after the party she ...

My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the ...

Does he need space? What should I do?

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29 January 2011 (F) - im 19 and still new to this guy thing,Ive only dated 4 guys in my life and 3 of them didn't last even a month...But the one that lasted we were together a year and a half...and i loved him to death he was my first everything and even first bf. We ...

I don't get my ex? Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok so im really confused. My ex. He had broken up with me because well ; Him and my best guy friend use to fight alot and shit.. And I never knew who to go with after they got mad at eachother and got into a fight and my friend always took me w...

I had no feelings for him, so why do I feel like my world's come crashing down?

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28 January 2011 (F) - I dumped my boyfriend because i didnt like him but only thought of him as a friend but why do i feel like my worlds come crashing down on me when i had no feelings for him?...

The ex and I both noticed that we don't want to be in relationships with other people

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28 January 2011 (M) - hello there well catch up, i met this girl the most amazing girl i have ever met, funny, smart, beautiful and i love her, she loves me to i know it. we broke up but before we broke up we decided that if we break up and see other people, if we can t...

How do I ask my friend out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I really really like my friend in high school.. she's perfect..everything a guy could ask for.. but idk how to ask her about her bf/ ex.. she hasn't talked about him in awhile and I haven't noticed her with him and she's been really flirty for the ...

She hasn't told anyone we broke up, what does this mean?

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28 January 2011 (M) - what does it mean when you split up from a parter of three years, but they havent told their parents, friends, or even changed her relationship status or pix of the two of you on FB?me and my ex gf broke up and she wants to stop talking for a little ...

I'm going to give him space, but what do I do to get him back?

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28 January 2011 (M) - My ex boyfriend and I were going out for nearly 7 months. he broke up with me last week and we are on good terms. We've agreed to be 'friends'. And he still does talk to me The reason he broke up was because he just wanted to be single. but he doesn...

Should I contact her or should I let a sleeping dog lie.

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28 January 2011 (M) - This is my story. About 16-17 years ago I meet a gal a terrific gal that was getting a divorce because he cheated on her. We shall call her Jill. At the same time strange as it may sound I was seeing a married gal. We shall call her Rose. Well, ...

Boyfriend said he still loves his ex

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28 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend (who is 34) and I have been going out now for 5 years. He regularly tells me he loves me. His last serious relationship also lasted 5 years and he split up with that girl about 18 months before we got together. I asked him today, ...

Do I give my ex a second chance or just push it aside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and like a week ago i poured my feelings out and told her how i felt, her reply was that she was also thinking about us and asked me on a date. I accepted but i had bad luck there was a snow storm and her ...

Am I now the best friend that she can cry her shoulder on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I was just wondering, my ex girlfriend is missing her now ex boyfriend. Well she basically told me she is not interested in dating me after I had brought her out for some fun one day, she is not willing to lose me if the relationship fails (again). ...

Will I ever stop loving my ex?

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28 January 2011 (F) - I'm 19 now but when i was 15 i started seeing a boy, he was a year older than me but i loved him with all of my heart, he made me so happy, he constantly told me how much he loved me, that i was beautiful and special and he never wanted to lose me, ...

6 months later and I thought I was over him, now I don't know what to feel!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly a year about six months ago. There was no apparent reason for me breaking up with him, just that it didn't feel like It used to be. After we broke up, he wanted me back, but I was a complete bitch to him! I...

Help with gf's violent ex partner

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Please help, my “GF” has come out of a very violent relationship of 8 years after a particularly bad beating from her ex-partner (the bruises were awful) she decided to leave him me and her have been getting on well for a long time as friends she ...

One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ...

How is it possible after so many years to be still in love? Especially when we are both happily married to other people!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Hi everybody my story follows: Met my first love 18 years ago. We were both teenagers and we had a very intense relationship for 3.5 years. This relationship was the first sex experience for both of us. To make long story short, she left th...

What do I do with my blast from the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Let me just start off that i met this guy in 2009 on youtube and we used to talk all the time about music and polotics. It was just 2 people talkign about things we loved. He lives in Ireland and i live in Canada. It was obvious we had strong ...

She's putting my business and size out there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - ok well i am a 15 year old boy. i had an ex-girlfriend that i did a lot with. Wasn't much just a hand job a fingering. well she seen my penis. and i am only about 3 inches long. We broke up and now she is putting my business out there. Everyone ...

Help, I'd like to close this dark chapter in my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I recently broke off a long term relationship with a man I was seeing for a while (about half a year). He was the first man that helped me bring my guards down and taught me how to love. I invested heavily into this relationship which eventually ...

He's trying to make me feel bad and down about myself and our relationship! And I'm 8 weeks pregnant!

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant a couple of days ago. I'm over the moon about it and wanna just settle down with my own family! I've never been out clubbing, don't drink, don't have any friends I go to work and literally come home ...

Should I leave my job and move back to my hometown in order to get over a bad breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I suffered a horrible breakup about 4 months ago. My ex-boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me and left me for the other woman and moved right in with her. OUCH. I am finding it impossible to deal with in such a small town. I am looking over my shoulder...

Any idea why my ex-boyfriend's friend is trying to add me on Facebook?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I know I analyze little things too much, but I'm looking for some answers anyway. The ex and I broke up 4 months ago. He was cheating and left me for the other woman. Anyway, after it happened, I blocked him and his new GF on facebook, and de...

He loves me but loves his ex more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - im 17 and i have a bf who im with for 1and half years.yesterday he came over to my house and he told me that he doesnt like me anymore. he says that he loves me but loves her ex more. im feeling so ashamed. what should ido?...

I can't even say "hi" to him without my boyfriend getting angry

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26 January 2011 (F) - Im having trouble with my ex when we broke up and i moved on he didnt wanna know me at all but we would say hello to each other now and again now that ive got a boyfriend he keeps texting me saying hello you i miss your pretty face it was great ...

I thought he was my true love. But his actions since the breakup make me wonder. How has he been able to move on so soon after our breakup?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My ex is 27, 4 yrs older than me. We were together for 2 years, it felt like true love, he always hinted about the future together we had plans made. We didn't see each other for 2 weeks, due to exams, and he barely texted me. Last week, exams over...

Should I be asking so much about my girl friend's past lovers or should I let it rest? It bothers me so much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Ok. I met my sons mom in 2003,.,we now have a 6 year old son together. back in the begining when we first met we had one of those open conversations about the past.The things she told me didnt bother me at first, then because of the timeline she ...