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*saarraahh
writes:im 17 and i have a bf who im with for 1and half years.yesterday he came over to my house and he told me that he doesnt like me anymore. he says that he loves me but loves her ex more. im feeling so ashamed. what should ido?
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reader, ssaarraahh +, writes (11 February 2011):
ssaarraahh is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks kc100.i did feel like crying,shouting and screaming.any more advise?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 I'm really sorry this has happened to you, it must be awful. I'm afraid there is not a lot you can do - he has broken up with you so you have to give it time and try and move on.
It will hurt for a while, break-ups are never easy but with time, you will start to feel better. He is not a very nice person by the sounds of things, you are actually better off without him in the long run. You wont be able to see that now, but with time you will realise he was not the right man for you and there are better guys out there.
So now all you can do is cry if you feel like crying, shout and scream if you feel angry, and just try and let all your emotions out. Spend time with friends and family to keep yourself occupied so you are not thinking about him all the time, and maybe take up some new hobbies to keep busy.
Breaking up is never easy, so dont get annoyed with yourself for feeling sad - he has hurt you and you have every right to be sad.
I am sorry I cant give you anything else more positive, it is going to be pretty rubbish for a while but you will feel better in time.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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