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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from January, 2011)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Try to see him? Or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi..I wrote a question a little bit ago, here's the link for a little background info: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-we-even-still-dating-he-said-he.html It's been two weeks now and things are still weird between the two of us. Bas...

Am I just a spare part in his life now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I split with my boyfriend around 4 months ago. We hadnt spoke in those 4 months, then he text me on new years eve asking if we could talk. He asked me if i was over him and i said no, not completely.. i asked him and he said yes. My heart sunk, so ...

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

Help me sort out this mess...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi well my ex boyfriend and i were really cool after we broke up. then he started liking me again! it got really annoying so i hooked him up with one of my best friends which i think was my biggest mistake. me and my ex realize that we still have ...

My ex and I had coffee yesterday and I'm feeling down and confused. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I realize this will be a bit on the longer side, but I promise I won't ramble on the details and get to the point. It'll be long because its necessary to give a slight overview on what happened to us. Thanks for the patience :) We dated for 2...

My ex boyfriend has become a stalker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - there is a kid that i dated in 2008 - 2009 for almost a full year. 5 months into our relationship he cheated on me with my bestfriend, i didnt know because i never paid attention because i never thought that would happen, when i found out i ...

Will my ex ever stop being mad at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I Would like to know will my ex stop being mad at me? The reason why he is upset with meh because i wrote in my away on aim saying " i got him his shid and now look whats happening " what i meant was that he was acting shady early this morning ...

Am I the rebound? What should be my course of action?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating a man around my age (25) for roughly two months (with some breaks in between because of holidays). We met through a dating site, and he's generally a nice guy, however, he just got out of a 5 year relationship in August, which meant ...

Should I let things go or wait a while then give him a call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - It's been about three weeks since I last talked to my ex. We were trying to work things out in our relationship, but we kept having disagreements. The last day we talked, I told him that I didn't want to go to couples counseling since we weren't ...

Should I block my girlfriend's ex on my facebook... she looks at him at times?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with her ex boyfriend 8 months ago. And coincidentally i realized i know her ex and he is even on my facebook. She blocked him on her facebook to forget about him and move on... now that he is my facebook, she sees him ...

Should I talk to my ex anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - What does it mean when an ex continues to call me weekly even though she broke up with me years ago and does not want to get back together? We were in a very serious relationship for several years. She has another girlfriend now and says she just ...

Brokenhearted and afraid to live my life again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - For the first time in my life I completely opened up to a man in every way because in my heart I knew he was the one for me, I gave him my all. Slowly he began to talk to me mean, he was always late for everything, he never really had any time for ...

Why does he continue to hurt me even though we're broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I broke up a year ago with my 6 yrs fiance which was a distant relationship. He had another girlfriend where he lived and when he came for a visit to make the marriage ceremony he created an excuse and suddenly wanted to solve his family problem to ...

I've tried to be a friend, but I have been played for a fool

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - sorry for the length but please guys can anyone advise. ive known a guy for over a year. I thought we were good friends hes had a lot of personal issues and trauma which ive been there for him, hes borrowed a fairly large amount £400 ? in bits over ...

I don't think he is cheating but somethings not quite right

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I started to date my best friend more than a year ago. Everything has been great except that right before our vacations get gets a sharp pain on his back, and it ended up being his kidney being almost useless and dead so they ended up removing it. ...

I just want him to say he doesn't want me any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I need to get over my ex. I'm not too sure how to do it. It has been a year. He says he loves me but he jus can't be with me because I had a baby by someone else(I did not cheat) however I think if you truelly love somebody you can work threw ...

I am depressed and confused and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm so depressed. i cannot get over my ex who dumped me. my aunt told me that i have unresolved issues that i have to resolve b4 i can move on. the problem is i don't know what it is or how i may go about resolving. help...

Should I talk to him about my sex life (or lack of it) and about my views on my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm seeing a guy who I met at the jive club I go to, he broke up with his ex-girlfriend of 6 years about 8 months ago and she's annoyingly self confident. I'm not. I'm a virgin and have little to no experience with guys. I'm concerned that if our ...

I want my ex back but he tells me to wait until he breaks up with his new girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Im still in love with my ex boyfriend, but he already has another girlfriend and it kills me inside to no that.. I tell him i still love him nd he tells me he does too but for me to wait till they break up, but its hard for me to wait and knowing ...

He suddenly got back with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - So I have a problem that I really need help with... There is this guy, Tony. I really like him. And I thought he liked me... But after hanging out with him for a while he suddenly got back with his Ex. He says he loves her, but I just know shes bad...

So confused, I do still love him, but I love myself too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - To be honest, I do not know what is going on but I will try to explain it. Five years ago, I met this guy and we started dating. This was around 2006. We ended up talking until 2008. At that point we went to different colleges and distance was...