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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I don't like my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend!

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3 January 2011 (F) - hi i have a problem with my boyfriend ex-girlfriend. we have been together for five years and we are engaged. he has got a child with his ex-girlfriend. i rearly don't like her she has cost so much heart ache, she is useing her daughter to ...

Is this all he can offer or should I push him for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Sorry if this long or not a specific question but I just need some advice on what to do and how to handle the situation I'm in.... Met a guy 8 mths ago and fell head over heels and it got intense very quickly. He admitted he had commitment issues a...

Should I take my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for six years and since we have broken up I have dealt with it and decide to move on. I have seen how some guys can be so nice and I am attracted to it. one problem though my ex keeps texting me saying he ...

She wont stop being friends with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So theres this guy I was in love with for like 3 years we were never together but now we kind of went our seperate ways and i have a bf now. The problem is is im still not exactly over him and i still thinkg about him a lotttt. well, my best friend ...

I'm worried about my ex's partying ways.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - The love of my life (6 years) broke up with me a month ago. Apparently she had been cheating on me with one of her friends, and decided to be with the friend. She had also started ignoring me and cancelling our dates to go to wild parties and bars ...

My dreams are taking their toll on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Let me start by giving you a bit of information on my current situation. My ex and i were together (on and off) for 3 and a half years. In June '10 we broke up and a day or 2 after, he got with another girl. Of course i was heartbroken, but after a ...

She broke up with me to fix herself, however long that may take.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - so my story begins when i met my ex gf 2 years ago, i was with her for 2 years in a LDR and few months ago she said that she can't handle a gd relationship for now, and needed us to take a break and pause our relationship untill she fixes her life ...

How do I let her know I still love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I saw myself being together with this girl forever; I even thought about marriage. However, she broke up with me a few days ago... and I still love her and want her more than anything. I think she really is the perfect one for me and I am ...

I know he is the one I want, he knows me the best, but while we were together we were horrible towards one another.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Im confused about matters of the heart. First, ive been with this guy for what would be 2 yrs on the 14th. We broke up. Its been a long time coming but it still hurts to let go. We've both been horrible to each other within these 2 yrs; evrything ...

We are broken up but my ex allows me to sleep with her and hold her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hi... I need some opinions and help. I've broken up wif my gf already. It's something not easy to do. So, I called her up at 3am in the morning after not contacting her for about 3 days. Asked for her to open her door for me. She did, asked me what ...

Why does my ex contact me and then ignore me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I was seeing my ex boyfriend for nine months when I ended it - during that time he told me he loved me and wanted us to go on holiday together this year but also twice he stopped speaking to me for an overall period of four weeks and I never knew ...

Why does he not want kids with me? He has a 5 year old daughter already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He is 24 and i am 19. He has a 5 year old daughter in which i have learned to love. I used to be jealous of their relationship but im learning not to be. His ex girlfriend is not in the ...

Why do guys run when you mention "baby"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - i going to be giving birth in the next month and the father who i was dating for, for 6 years did a legger as soon as i told him he has a new gf now anyways i have to do it all on my own to be honest i don't think i'm ready to be a mam or to do it ...

I want my ex to realize he needs me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So I'm here to just get advice on how to get my ex back... I think I'm making pretty good moves so far lol but sorry this is so long! We broke up three weeks ago after nine months... he made a lot of excuses on why we broke up like he didn't have ...

Why does my ex keep me in her life if she doesn't want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Okay, I am a lesbian and have not been able to get over my first girlfriend that broke up with me two years ago. After we broke up, she would get girlfriends but she always kept calling me and keeping contact. She even knew how hard the break up was ...

She called it quits but is stalking n playing mind games on me since.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Looking for advice about how to work with my exgirl. She called it quits against my wishes but I've survived and am out.but she's been up to no good since we went separate ways. She been playing nonstop mind games and stalking me. She has no idea I ...

If she means nothing to him then why all the secrets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Help! Im in a relationship with a man who has been engaged and he has a child. The engagement ended about a year ago (which is a short amount of time to start dating again) but when we met it was perfect.He opened up to me and i've never let him ...

What to say or do to a woman who walked away but now is back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - My friend and the first love of my life walked away three months ago. She said she needed time and space to sort out her life (she's a single mom). I understood that but in my last email, I told her how much she meant to me and hoped she'd still ...

I am in love with two guys but don't know how to resolve the situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Well my dilemma is, I think I'm in love with two people. I was going out with a a guy for two years and we were going through a really rough patch, but i was still really in love with him, but he dumped me. I was so hurt I didn't talk to him agai...

Son's medical condition goes untreated by his father and father's family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am a single mum no bf with a young son who is ADHD and autistic, and I have full custody and am not involved at all with his dad. My son's dad and his family are really p***ing me off :(. This New Yr I want to change things and think I need to ...