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writes:I had a few questions. one dealing with my ex and one dealing with this new girl i met tonight. heres the stories:I was talkin to this girl tonight and she stayed around me anytime we ran into each other (we were at a night club) and she would put her arm around me. She danced on me while i was just standing against a rail and she also told some kid that came up to her that i was her boyfriend so he would leave her alone. Her friend came up to her and asked her to go dance so before she left she kissed me on the cheek. Now heres where my ex comes in. She just so happens to see me dancing with this girl and talking to her so when girl #1 walks away my ex comes over saying "don't call me again, don't ever text me again" (keep in mind she broke up with me and i haven't texted her in about 2 weeks.) and all this other nonsense. Then she grabs me tight and just holds me and we end up making out. I leave the club with my cousin and his girl and text my ex to see if she is coming over and she just gives me one word answers which were either "nah" or "sry". Throughout the night i caught her watching me and she would poke my arm and say hey, etc. when i walked by. The thing is though i saw her getting another dudes number tonight too and when i walked out the door she was talkin to him so i don't know. I kinda still want to be with my ex but i think thats just cause i don't have anyone else. The things I was wanting to find out were (1.) Does girl #1 seem like she is attracted to me based on what i put? (2.) Does my ex still have feelings for me?
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 firstly when girls meet guys in clubs they only want one thing, so basically its a fling, she just likes the attention, so don't look to much into it. secondly, your girlfriend saw you with this girl and wanted to make that girl jealous and show that she can get you and maybe she was trying to make the other guy jealous. and if she wanted to be with or was interested she wouldn't have given her number to the other guy. meaning she's gonna meet him after. move on, i know its difficult but start meeting girls in other ways and you will soon forget about her and the other girl.
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