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writes:Hi, I'm 18 and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant a couple of days ago. I'm over the moon about it and wanna just settle down with my own family! I've never been out clubbing, don't drink, don't have any friends I go to work and literally come home with my boyfriend! However he doesn't quite understand how I feel and what I want he sort of pretends he doesn't know and is always bringing up how I've had sex with my exs and he wasn't my first just trying to make me feel bad and down about myself and our relationship! I really don't want to get rid of this baby I want it more than anything in the world, I just feel like I can't talk to him about it because he'll just say I'm stressing him out and get in a mood for days I can't take it! I love him so much I'll do anything to make him happy but I can't seem to get my head around what to do! Please help me
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reader, island_babe  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Hun all i can say is du what u want a baby is the most precious gift you can ever get.. i went thru the same thing with you and all i can say is that i REGRET IT big time i miss my baby but pls do keep your child its your choice your body and trust me having two kids was the best thing thats ever happened to me even though the father was a shelfish jerk !! i knw youll make a perfect mother with or without him
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): You need to love yourself as much as you love him if not more. You need to do anything to make you happy. If you can be happy with in yourself. You can be the best mother any child will ask for. Keep the baby with or without him. You will regret it for the rest of your life knowing that you let a guy to influence you to "get rid" of a baby. He is no good anyhow he should not be making you feel bad about your past relationships or your past. The only thing that should matter to him if he really truly loved you is the fact that you are there with him now and are willing to do anything for him. But like I said you need to find happiness within yourself. Do not let him do this to you and your baby.
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