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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Good or bad sleeping with your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - Me my ex broke about 2 weeks now, she was so mad and fierous she dosent want to talk to me. Just last night she texted me saying she wants sex. I replyed no cause I have feelings for you still. For about an hour I texted her ok I'm giving in I want ...

He won't tell his ex about us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for Four months now. Our relationship didn't exactly start in a dream way, since he was at the time in a relationship with another girl when we met. He has since ended his relationship with her to be with me ...

Still in love with my ex but in a 2 year relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I recently saw my ex boyfriend and we both have feelings for each other for 4 years now. Plus he is in the Army. I am in a 2 year relationship with my current boyfriend and he been there for me when I had nothing. What should I do?...

Lost and confused! Double standards?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Alright my dear friends...here we go. so im in love with my first love still. after being broken up for two years we chose to get back together. but since we've gotten back together. i dont feel confident. i feel like he's only with me bcuz im ...

Is it too late? Did I blow my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I've been on and off with my ex bf for 9 months. And last week we were supposed to get back together and talk things through. So he picked me up and we ate breakfast at his place. We weren't talking much, so i decided to talk about issues that ...

Am I over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - hi! well basically, iv been in a long term relationship with someone previously for almost 3 years... and within the three years i have been through a lot with them for example his cheated on me and i stil took him in.. and that has messed me up al...

When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...

This girl keeps coming to me, then going back to the ex, again and again, why?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I need help LADIES please answer this one, as you're the only ones that can... So I've been dating this girl, who is conflicted about her ex, but since I was so persistent, I guess she gave me a chance perhaps as a payback to her ex. My question is ...

How can I tell her she needs to make her mind up without risking our chances of getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - Well me and my ex-girlfriend broke up may of last year 2010.We was together 8yrs got 2 kids and was wanting to marry each other.Not going to get into the reasons we split to keep it kinda short.I have done the no contact with her i have went out and ...

How long have you waited for a lover to come back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I was recently dumped after a 3 month relationship and I was wondering how long some of you guys have waited for a lover to come back? Months, years? ...

After my ex cheated on me it has changed my whole outlook on life, how can I overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I was wondering how you can change the way you feel about something. For example i used to be an all around happy person that nothing ever bothered me i always looked at the positive points in every situation. When my ex girlfriend would say ...

My boyfriend dumped me because he knew I missed my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - To make a long story short: a few months ago I was sooo hooked on my ex and my bf knew it and broke up with me because of my actions. I straightened out, stopped all contact with ex because I felt so miserable without my bf. I missed him so much ...

My ex wants to be friends and is inviting me to her party!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - This may sound really random but me and my ex's have been done for a while. I just had the feeling that i was finally over her but i also have a felling that Im not because i see her every day. I don't know what to do about it and for some reason i ...

She texts her ex in the same manner as she texts me, but cant see that it really hurts me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a fight today and it was because I saw the text between her ex and her. I noticed that she texts him the same way she texts me. She calls him honey and baby from time to time, and something it goes as calling him sexy, ...

How can I get my ex and my best friend together without meddling too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - My best friend in the whole freaking world is being an idiot. :D I say that as affectionately as I can, though there is definitely an undertone of frustration. We are freshmans, and you know, highschool drama and all that. I broke up with Dan...

What does my ex want from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - What does it mean when your ex says she hates you and she tells you she haves a boyfriend but wont say his name. like this Saturday she call me 2 times and i didnt pick up the phone. she was mad because she said her son wanted to come over to my ...

How can I feel so deeply for someone that's been terrible to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Okay here's my problem. There's a boy that I think I'm in love with. I've always told myself that there's no way I could love him because you can't love somebody you can't trust and you can't love somebody that can't love you back. It's so co...

Should I be worried that I look a lot like his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I just saw some photos of my boyfriend's ex on facebook and she looks a lot like me. So much so, that in 1 pic she looks EXACTLY like me - I can't even tell the difference! Does that seem really weird to you? I'm wondering if he cares so much for me ...

After we broke up we were still talking and everything seemed good, but then he told me to leave him alone! What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - ok so me and my ex dated for 5 months we aggreed to dump each other because i honestly have no clue,he..is a person that has problems with expressing his feelings,but when he sis they were always honest every time,anyways after we broke up we ...

Why is it that I feel like I should be with my ex even though I know it would be a bad thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so i have an ex boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. we have been talking since March 20,2008. In the beginning things were so good, which is what made me fall in love with him..but sooner than later things slowly starting ...