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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly a year about six months ago. There was no apparent reason for me breaking up with him, just that it didn't feel like It used to be. After we broke up, he wanted me back, but I was a complete bitch to him! It has been a long time since we broke up, or even spoke, and I thought I was completely over him. But a couple of weeks ago, something made me think over what I had done to him, and what I had lost, and loads of feelings came flooding back. I text him (because we are still avoiding eachother!) Basically apologizing for everything that happened. But I haven't heard from him still. What makes it worse is that I found out he has a new girlfriend, and it makes me feel sick to know that he's doing things with her that we used to do together. I really miss him, but I feel I'm being really selfish!How do I stop feeling like this? What do I do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): I don't mean to sound MEAN, but you got what you deserve....you broke off a relationship that wasn't "bad" by your own admission, now you want him back after you have had time to think about how rude and uncalled for your behavior was. He did the right thing to move on and to be honest, I hope he keeps it that way. You don't toy around with people's emotions--they're heart. I hope you have learned your lesson and never, ever do that again. Move on with your life and leave that man alone please.....you feeling "sick" is your problem....not his.
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