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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How do I make my ex realize that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I am working with my ex whom I had fallen in love with prior to this.We were school friends and recently met up on the internet.We were talking about how men treat a woman when they know a woman is in love with them.He replied to me,I haven't ever ...

My parents will be upset if I go back to my ex girlfriend. What should I do?

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31 August 2011 (M) - Hi there everyone, Me and my now-ex broke early january this year. Our relationship turned to a year last November. I feel that I am not over her. I know I am. The thing is it has been 8 months and i'm still dwelling back to the past just to fin...

G/f talks to ex multiple times a day and now wants to stay at ex's house while doing a course!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Here we go: Dating a correctional officer for 1 1/2 years who is still friends with her ex (also a correctional officer-I am not). She recently moved into an apartment in the city but her in service is closer to her ex's house-it is a week long ...

My ex moved in with his new girlfriend so quickly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Its so hard to explain how I really feel.. I just recently found out that my ex bf of five years, just moved in with his new gf.. We broke like a year and a half.. He's only been with with this girl a couple of months and he's already living with ...

What is he playing at? Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - What is he playing at? should I just move on? There's this guy that I really like. We're chatting and getting to eachother at the moment. But he's putting me off him.. He's playing hard to get, I really hate it cos I like him a lot. We ...

I don't want to have the rep of a girl who makes out with a lot of guys but I'm moving so, I really want to make out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - So there is this guy I like and he likes me. We have hung out a few times but then we both went away for the summer. He is back today and we are hanging out on friday the thing is he has been hinting about fooling around. I would love to make out ...

My lying cheating ex is so ungrateful for all I did for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex a month ago after he lied cheated several times while I was living with him helping him get well after foot surgery he coudnt walk I cooked three meals a day cleaned after him and his cat got his medicine and other errands to ...

I'm devastated. He left me because he is still in love with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hey guys , My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago And I'm absoloutly shattered ..when we got together he had just come out of a relationship of 6 years (I wasn't aware of the duration ) ...he knew i liked him so he asked me out , everything was ...

Is it wrong for me to ask her not to speak to her ex at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - I have been seeing a girl who I have strong feelings for, for a little over a month. I realized her ex was a common friends of ours on Facebook (we all go to the same university) and she told me they had been on and off for a few years and after he ...

I'm stuck in a class with my boyfriend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started dating April 15th. His previous ex he dated for a couple weeks (i believe about 2) in January. Lets call her Ann. Once "ann" found out me and him were dating 4 months later she became really jealous. She wrote on facebook ...

We used to be in love but now its all going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4837 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Alright, so I'm having soo many problems with my boyfriend right now. I'm bored of our sex and he can't really give me an orgasm anymore. I asked him if we could try a threesome and he got really really pissed. He asked who I'd choose and I told him ...

Fiance talks more to her ex than she does to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - Hello i have been with my fiance for 4 years now and we have 3 kids together but the oldest daughter is from a previous relationship and so not biologically mine but i am adopting her. Everything was going great until recently she started talkin to ...

How do you treat someone with a phobia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - hey i need help my boyfriend I mean my Ex-Boyfriend has some psycologic problems he suffer from Philophobia ( love phobia ) he Told me he's afraid when i asked him of what he said afraid to fall in love with u i told him falling in love is not ...

My boyfriend liked his ex more than he likes me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - i feel like my boyfriend cared more about his ex-girlfriend because he got her a ring while they were only lasted 6 months me and my boyfriend have been togeather for 3 yrs and never got a ring :/ i know it is not all about materalistic things ...

I struggle to believe I will find a partner more suited to me than my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I'd just like to know where about's I am in terms of getting over my ex girlfriend. I was with her for 5 months, and we broke up 6 months ago. She's been with somebody new for about 4 months now. I have no interest in staying in contact with her...

Traveling girlfriend's lazy communication is making me nervous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has gone traveling for 6 weeks to central America.We have been seeing each other for 4 months in what has been a whirlwind romance, we have both declared our love and said that we would be faithful. All was well sending emails, ...

My ex told me she's pregnant, but now she's ignoring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend, whom i'm in a good status with, tells me that she's pregnant and it's mine. I believe her. Since that day, every call or text that i've sent out to her has gotten no response. Any theories as to what is going on?...

Do I or don't I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I am a 32 year old lesbian my ex girlfriend 21 we dated for 4 years then she left me for a guy I still love her dearly. She has come back to me twice just after the breakup and then goes back to him its almost a year now bt I can't move on and she ...

He still has a thing for his ex. Can I compete with that and if so how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago through mutual friends, i was automatically attracted to him, we have flirted online and kissed once(however we were drunk). My friend accidentally blabbed to him i liked him and apparently he seemed pretty chuf...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up? My ex left me a yr. ago after 7 yrs. together basically, for someone else although, they did not get together until after he ended it. He also, denies she was the ...

My ex has given me private information. Do I tell this to my friends? Or do I just tell my new Gf? I am worried how my new GF will take it.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hi. So I had broken up with my girlfriend last thanksgiving because she just didnt really respect me. After a party one night i was a bit sideways and she was and somehow post break up emotions led one thing led to another and yeah. Needless...

Why is my ex so interested in me having feelings for this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we were really good together, he split up with me a few weeks ago and said he could do without distractions for a while. Ive only spoke to him a few times since the split and i really miss him. I c...

Is my ex making a mistake by getting married to someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - me and my ex were friends before we started dating.he broke up with his girlfriend cuz they didnt get along.we dated soon after and i got prego.too much stress happened and i left him.he decided i could stay gone and got back with her.we r finally ...

Am I reading too much into my ex fiance's nephew's message on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - Am I reading too much into something that happened today? My ex fiance's nephew posted a message on fb today saying that he missed me and called me Aunt Mary which is what he called me back when my ex and I were together. We have been split for ...

I saw my ex girlfriend again after 4 years... and all the old feelings came back to me!

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25 August 2011 (M) - I saw my ex girlfriend today for the first time in 4 years. The moment i saw her all those feeling came running back to me..we werent together for very long , only round 8 months but we were very close. i cant stop thinking about her!! the big prob...

I'm worried my ex's will live a more fulfilled life than my own and it's getting me down. How do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - I'm worried that I'm not living my life to the fullest and unfortunately the main reason for this is because I tend to compare my life to the lives of my ex girlfriends. Let me explain... I don't know why, but I'm really stuck on the idea that my...

My ex recently broke up with his rebound, yet doesn't seem to want us to be back together again. Do I still stand a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - Please jump to the last paragraph if my background story is too wordy :') I am 17-year old and gay. I was best friend with this guy i just met this year, from Feb all the way to beginning of July. We were best friends and would call each other ...

He's called me his ex's name twice, is he really over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Hello, I would like it if someone could help me out here. Okay, In 2 weeks, I would have been going out with my bf for a year:) We are both each others 2nd serious relationship. his ex, made him miserable - always cheated on him and broke ...

How do you recover when being traded for another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - Hey all, I have a pretty interesting problem. So my ex left me last year and two weeks later was in a relationship with her new boyfriend. Suffice to say that entire experience stung and hurt me in ways that I could never even imagine. Fast forward ...

How do I cope with my insecurities and keep him interested in me?

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25 August 2011 (F) - After a long break up (1 year) my ex came back to me.He was in another relationship at that time. When that girl ditched him he realised my love and came back to me.I forgave him(but not so easily). And everything was going very smoothlyafter ...

How can I be happy for my ex when he's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4837 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - So, i could go into major details, but we'd be hear forever, so i'll put it simply. I went out with this guy when i was 15 and it was my first proper relationship and lasted 6 months until we broke up. I wasn't sure how i felt so i ended it and ...

I love her, she went back to her ex, now she wants to try again. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - So I'll try and make this as short as possible. After a 19 year relationship, my wife and I split up last year. I was't looking for anyone after this happened. A friend oif mine wanted me to meet this girl. I was hesitant at first and finally ...

Why is he giving his ex the time of day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - I need a second opinion preferably from a guys point of view because i personally don't know how to react to this. So here goes my boyfriend and i are very much in love we have just got our own place and ready to move in and start our life togethe...

The more I fall for him the harder it is to cope with his exs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - I have been with a lovely, kind, caring and gorgeous man for 18 mths now. I have children from a previous relationship who live with me, he has a daughter who does not live with him. Our relationship has deepened gradually and he tells me he loves ...

I can't seem to get over my old flame even after a year of no contact!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - 2 years ago i started talking to a guy on msn, and we had such a great connection that we arranged to meet up. I had such an amazing time and we ended up kissing and it gave me butterflys even talking to him. We continued to meet up every weekend ...

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for...

My ex wants to move near by. Is it to be closer to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I need some advice please guys me amd my boyfriend split up 2 wks ago he moved in wth a friend miles away, now today he told me hes moving up the road with a male friend to be closer to work and the kids, im not sure how to take this as we have more ...

My ex kissed another girl. Should I forgive and forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys, basically I have been seeing my now ex boyfriend for 8 months, he is the most caring loving honest person ever. I have trust issues due to my past and I accused my boyfriend almost everyday of cheating on me, fancying my friends and even ...

She is back with her ex boyfriend.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm in my mid 30's and I've been friends with a girl for a couple of years, and in that time she has had a boyfriend for most of that time. They split up about 3 months ago and since then we have grown closer...as friends. Recently our mutual ...

I don't whether to give-up in 'us' or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - I dated my ex for a little over 3 and a half years. I broke up with her because things were not going good. I guess i just needed time to figure out what i really wanted. I told her to move on and she kept trying to get back with me. I love her a...

We broke up a year ago, but I still think about her every single day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Hi I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We lived together for 2 years and were together for about 4. I really miss her and think about her every day. I havent been with anyone since as every time I meet someone I shy away because I still love my ...

Should I tell my ex happy birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I was wondering recently my ex's birthday had just passed and I was thinking about sending her a quick happy birthday email. However my birthday happened sooner then hers, it was in January, and I didn't get a happy birthday or ...

He's got me so why does he still have this other chick around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Me and this guy been messing around for some time and he admitted to me that at the beginning it was only a game but he's grown little feelings for me here and there. He does take the time out to take me out and spends his money on me But I ...

I have to work with my ex and I think he might still like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I need advice on how to deal with an ex who I work with at weekends.I thought when he ended things with me that would be the end of us as a couple but he keeps confusing me by his actions while at work. So basically this is bit of history on us. I...

I want to send my ex an e-mail, but would that be sending off the wrong message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

22 August 2011 (?) - What kind of message would I send if I contacted my ex two months after he broke up with me? We hadn't got back together probably when he called it off two months ago - we were going to meet and discuss things (7 months after our proper split). I ...

Are there any signs that an ex still has feelings for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hi i need some help please can you suggest Things to look out for in an ex that they still have feelings for you Why they rush off one minute and find excuses to stay longer next any comments would be appreciated many thanks x...

Still seeing my ex but thinking about seeing other men, how do I go about this without anyone getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Recently decided to take a break from BF we have been living and dating each other for over 6 years. It was a mutual split but we are still seeing each other and still love each other very much. He has a very big problem with jealousy and cant ...

Does it seem as though my ex wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - My ex and I were going out for just over a year about a year ago and we broke up because he didn't know what he wanted. Immediately he started seeing another girl who people seem to describe as a carbon copy of myself. Lately my ex has been trying ...

Dating a friend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Ok this is a question for a friend of mine. Basically He likes his friends Ex girlfriend. They met up last week and were snogging and chatting loads. they are secretly texting each other and the ex boyfriend doesn't know anything about it. He sti...