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*atiemariex3
writes:Me and my boyfriend started dating April 15th. His previous ex he dated for a couple weeks (i believe about 2) in January. Lets call her Ann. Once "ann" found out me and him were dating 4 months later she became really jealous. She wrote on facebook "Im so happy to see my ex is dating a whore/sex addict!!" and thats not true of me at all. She doens't know me at all. So that shows her immurity but she always tried to contact him, by calling him and asking to hang or texting him. He told me he told her its better they dont talk so the feelings dont come back, well he broke it to me when he first got his bike in late April he did hang with her behind my back and gave her a ride on the bike. But he's told me before he would pick me over her. I realize I'm crazy insecure. But I thought she had left him alone now, and turns out she still texts him for advice. Me and her are seniors in high school, and of course she just HAD to be in 2 of my classes this year, I could only get 1 of the 2 switched so I have to go to class and look at her everyday. Clearly she tells her friends a lot of smack about me because they glare at me everytime they see me and so does she. It's really hard. She has a boyfriend now, and even had one for a while after my boyfriend. It's hurtful and hard. People tell me don't worry because I'm way prettier and better and her, but it's hard when you know there is someone hating your guts for something they need to get over. My friend gave me the advice that she probably wonders "what does she have that i dont" that kept my boyfriend around longer.But to get to the point...how do I handle this girl in my class? I'm nice to her and stuff if we ever have to talk but it's difficult knowing she tried to ruin what I have. And with her constantly talking smack its really hard. What should i do.. :/ advice please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011): Trying to reason with this girl won't work. Being careful to be nice to her won't work. Ignoring her is best.
Take solace in the fact that you are happy with your boyfriend, and she is so unhappy that she has to talk badly about you and won't ever be satisfied with her own life while she obsesses over yours. (Of course, don't tell her that!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011): In a nutshell. My advice to you would be to ignore her. She's clearly jealous that her ex is with someone whose actually decent. Best of luck to ya.
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