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How do I cope with my insecurities and keep him interested in me?

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Question - (25 August 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female India age 36-40, *iley writes:

After a long break up (1 year) my ex came back to me.He was in another relationship at that time. When that girl ditched him he realised my love and came back to me.I forgave him(but not so easily). And everything was going very smoothlyafter that.But now a days he is so busy that he doesnt get time to talk to me. When I call him up he talk to me so rudely that I feel he is getting disturbed. I asked him so many times whether he is happy or not with this relationship,He alwasys say "YES" , he is happy, he loves me a lot.

He doesnt want to talk to me for a long time over phone. But when we meet he kiss me first and always ask me when will I marry him.I am totally confused by his behaviour.He talked to my family and told them that he wants to marry me. He introduced me with his friends and office colleaguse saying that i am his fiancee.

Now a days i m feeling so insecured that if the girl come back he would leave me again. When I talk to him about this matter he always say that he loves me a lot and he would never leave me.Now he is getting irritated by this question as I have been asking since 6 months.

If he loves me why he doesnt want to talk to me?Whats going on his mind...please help I am totaly confused. How to cope up with my insecurities? How to keep him interested in me?

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