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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and this guy been messing around for some time and he admitted to me that at the beginning it was only a game but he's grown little feelings for me here and there. He does take the time out to take me out and spends his money on me But I discovered that there's this other girl that he messes around with and she seems to be head over heels about him. I am too but I don't make it obvious to everyone only him privately but she seems to put it on public display. Now, I don't know if there's any other girls in the picture besides us two but I know at the beginning there were more girls. So I decided to ask him about this other girl and yes I do know her and she knows me, but I'm not sure if she knows about me and him. I asked him if he messes around with her and he admitted to me that he does and I asked him if he really likes her and he said No and asked me where is all this stuff about him and her coming from. And I told him she makes it quite obvious and he said "She needs to calm down cause it's not that serious." And I'm just wondering if he feels that way then why is he still messing with her? He told me that he wants me and I realized that he's still afraid of getting hurt because he couldn't look me in the eyes the first few times I asked him, but he finally did and said he does trust me...so I don't know why he still got this other chick around...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 The same reason why he still has you around: fun, ego and love of variety. He likes to " mess around ", the more the merrier apparently ( you knew that when you met him ) so if you and the other girl are willing to mess around and stroke his ego ( and other parts of his body ) without any committment or obligations, why should he want it to stop ?!
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