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*alfhearted27
writes:me and my ex were friends before we started dating.he broke up with his girlfriend cuz they didnt get along.we dated soon after and i got prego.too much stress happened and i left him.he decided i could stay gone and got back with her.we r finally getting along and they still arent happy but getting married in less than a month.i told him how i feel but never got a response.when we c eachother for our son we talk about random things and smile and laugh and tons of eye contact.he honks and waves when he drives by.i love him and want us to try to b together.i wonder if he still has feelings for me and if he really wants to get married when most people think its a mistake.i also want to know what i should do.please help me cuz im lost.
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reader, chocoholicforever +, writes (27 August 2011):
it's his life and his decision, so you should stay out of it. if it is a mistake, he'll find out sooner or later and then it will again be his decision what to do about it.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 He has his own life and decisions. You are forever linked with your child with him. He has his own mind so knows what he is doing. You should let things go. If he wanted things to work with you, he would because he has his child with you. But he hasn't.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 August 2011):
 sadly while he is your child's father he is NOT YOUR PARTNER and you have no say in his life except as to how it affects your child. IF he wanted to be with YOU he would.
what other people think is not anyone's concern...the only concern is what HE and his fiancee think...
sadly you need to mind your own business where his love life is concerned except for how it affects your child.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 August 2011):
 It's his life let him live it. Just make sure you allow your son to benefit from his father's attention and support. If you feel lost then get busy finding a life for yourself.
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