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*icey67
writes:I broke up with my ex a month ago after he lied cheated several times while I was living with him helping him get well after foot surgery he coudnt walk I cooked three meals a day cleaned after him and his cat got his medicine and other errands to help him recover in the process he cheated on me so I gave him back his care I wrote him a goodbye letter explaining in detail what he done he denies it and I saw statements and credit card receipts with dates and times he was at the hotel he told me his cousin lived with him which was a female come to find out she was is ex gf he loaned me 20.00 why is he so angry? At me the other day I called him and he cussed me out he won't admit to his whorish ways we can't be friends I was his live in nurse/sex partner/maid I was real good to him so tell me why is he so angry and bitter with me? I know noone else will treat him like me he never once said he's sorry or that he loves me or reconcile we were together a year and a half any advice ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011): As already stated, he's angry because he's lost a personal slave and now has to spend the time and effort finding and training some other mug to take your place. He's also angry because in leaving him you put your well being ahead of his comfort and conveience.
You did the right thing. However you made the mistake of calling him and trying to remain friends. If you're prepared to dump a boyfriend who is selfish and deceptive why in the world would you seek out a friend with the same qualities? Pick better friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011): He is bitter and angry that he can no longer use you and regrets that you found out so soon,forget his sorry arse and find a man who appreciates the love of a good woman
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 August 2011):
 Who cares????? He's your "ex-".... so put him, and everything about him, behind you and resume your life...
Good luck...
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (30 August 2011):
 He is angry because his plans to take advantage of your generosity failed. YOU did not fail him. He failed himself.
Good for you that you stood up for yourself and walked away.
Do not worry about why he is bitter. Disconnect from him, go to No Contact Mode and let him figure out his own mess!
Save your good nature for someone else who knows how to express some gratitude.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (30 August 2011):
 Sounds to me as if he's angry because he got found out! He was probably hoping to have his little fling with his "cousin" while having you be there to look after him, his cat, and to cook and clean.....
He's an ungrateful wretch and you did the right thing by ending it.
Incidentally, how on earth did he manage to get out of the house to keep his rendevous if he couldn't walk?? Oh well, you have the proof that he did because you've seen credit card statements with dates and times......
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