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anonymous
writes:i feel like my boyfriend cared more about his ex-girlfriend because he got her a ring while they were only lasted 6 months me and my boyfriend have been togeather for 3 yrs and never got a ring :/ i know it is not all about materalistic things but it just makes me think i always think about it i feel he treated and cared for her more than he does for me some feed back will be nice thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): hey thank you for answering my question, another reason the relationship has lasted is because i go visit him for the past 2 years. we are LDR 1 hour a way he is jobless and won't come visit me. i also feel his relationship with his ex affects things. she didn't put up with BS and i have tolerated a lot of his rubbish, so i just feel he had more feelings for her. Seems to me he only cares when he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): Maybe he felt the reason his old relationship didn't work was because he got too serious too quickly. Maybe your right, but to me it seems like a definite possibility.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): You've got to remember that relationship lasted for 6 months and yours has lasted for much longer so something must be going right. Every relationship is different and he may not want to make the same mistakes he has made before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): could be other reasons why he got her a ring but not you: maybe at that time he was new to relationships and dating and so went a bit overboard doing things he wouldn't normally do. another reason could be maybe the nature of their relationship was that she demanded more displays from him to keep her happy. maybe since they only last 6 months he figured to heck with ring-buying what's the point after all, so that's why he doesn't buy you a ring.
but look, in the end he was only with her for 6 months but he's been with you for 3 years. I think that means he prefers you. and in the end, rings are only significant for engagement and marriage anyway.
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