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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex is ignoring me and I had a weird dream about him. Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Argh - I dreamt about my ex last night (I seriously did not think of him yesterday) although a week before - I had sent him an email sayin i missed his company and was hopin we could talk soon - he read my E-card but didnt respond.I find it funny ...

Her ex is more fun than I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times. she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates ...

I want him back, but he says "forget it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i was in a relation ship with an older man, he was married and he just had a kid. they were not doing so good they were sort of broke up, but stupid me started a relationship with him. we fell in love she found out and instead of just being broke up ...

My kids don't want me to date but to get back with their dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - my ex left me and the kids about a year and a half ago after i found out he cheated on me and i kicked him out.He has been with that girl ever since. I hate her. I miss him the kids miss him and we all want him home. I see a counselor but I cant ...

My ex husband is causing trouble for my entire family and no one can stop him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I was married for a short time 27 years ago. We got divorced,he disappeared, paid no child suppport and I did not look for him, it was done. Three years later I remarried, my husband adopted my daughter and things have been wonderful for years. ...

Am I allowed to love my ex husband again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Okay....I know I am being really really stupid and probably am acting silly, but I really do still love him. Here's my story, I have two kids , and once upon a time I married their dad, but, three years later, we divorced, and he moved to back to ...

How do I ignore this awful temptation to call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - A few month ago, my commitment phobe boyfriend ended up relationship suddenly after he started to mention about marriage. of course I am hurt how did he do. As usual as a commitment phobe, he couldn't end the relationship either coul...

I treat him this way not because I'm arrogant but because of my bad experience with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I had a breakup 2 years ago after having chilhood love (6 years)with a boy who lives in my neighbourhood. The breakup was very sudden and very rude on the ground that he was not ready to wait for me to marry (I wanted him to build his and my career ...

Is she insecure? Jealous ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I received an e-mail from a friend that I had not seen for a couple years , she lives 3000 miles away is married and has a 17 year old daughter. She wrote and said she was visiting soon and wanted to get together to visit . we made arrangem...

Jealous of his past .. does he still love them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - In the beginning, me and my boyfriend started off as friends so we discussed a lot of things with each other. He shared a lot of information during that time about his past relationships. He shared details about the sex they had, the parts of the...

I should not get back with him right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I'm getting confused over my ex boyfriend. We broke up back in April, and got back together for like 3 days in May. Ever since, we've been broken up. During our almost 4 year relationship, we had many problems, because he was jealous of my past. Due ...

Sex with an ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I'm curious about something, and getting different perspectives on it, this is a hypothetical,primarily girls, cause I already know how men think seeing I am one, but can someones sexual ability's be overlooked at the expense of your love for them? ...

Should I wait longer to ask her out again or do it now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I have recently been thinking about asking my ex girlfriend who broke up with me saying she needed space and time to think about 2 1/2 weeks ago, if she would want to, i guess for lack of a better word, go on a date with me. We had a day about a ...

Why did I put up with this for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. For the first 2 years my partner's ex-wife and son lived abroad but have been living in the same county for the last 4. Just before they returned we moved to a different part of the country for better jobs ...

I'm ending all contact with my ex. Is there still a chance he will come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me last February, because he wasn't ready for a commitment, and he didn't know what he wanted. The whole, "It's not you it's me" deal. I was heartbroken because I was happy. Since then we would hang out ...

I keep finding things from his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I snooped in my boyfriend flat, wrong I know but I do not trust him. I found an big folder, the biggest one in the pile. His ex g/f was polish and it had all these polish to English translation. Also There were love letters...One said this "You...

Living with somebody's bad karma

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I feel Like I'm in this incredibly complicated situation.. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and there always has been a presence of a women from his past. I'm in my mid 30's and my BF is in his early 50s. We both been ...

How can I move past this anger and lack of justice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hi, i'm having issues in moving forward with my life after an abusive ex boyfriend. hi, im 18 now, he's a year older than me. about 18 months ago i ended a 17 month long relationship with a boy who for the last 14 months of the relationship turned t...

How do I get my husband to tell his ex to show respect to me n himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - hi guys! To all those who have an extended family... My husband n I don't really have an issues between us except for his ex! The situation is this; my husband has a child with another woman with whom he hasn't have much of a relationship muc...

Will I ever get over this feeling of bitterness towards my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi 4 years ago a woman started work where I work, she had recently become single , we dated for a few months loads of people said we were the perfect couple , I got carried away with it all and fell for her, eventually I heard she was seeing her ex ...

I want to get over this unrequited love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I really like this boy and I've always been there for him. All summer I listened to him talk about how annoying his girlfriend was and how much he missed his other girlfriend when she went home to another country. We have so much in commo...

Sometimes I think I love him and other times I hate him or don't even care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5146 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - So my ex and I broke up in October of last year, we had an on and off thing going on since May. I lost my virginity to him which was a huge deal to me but I can't figure out if I'm attached to him b/c I lost it to him or if I would be as attached if ...

I have fallen in love with my ex wife's cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am a divorced man 38 yrs old with 2 great kids. I have been divorced for 10 yrs. I have recently fallin in love with my xwifes cousin. I feel My xwife has turned my kids against me. We stopped seeing ...

My current boyfriend would be the wiser choice but I am being pulled at by my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy for just over three months now, after having a messy breakup with an ex who I was with for seven months, and only ended the beginning of this year. I thought i had moved on and that i could be happy with my new bf but now my ex ...

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby tog...

I can't stand the sight of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hi all, Me and my ex broke up in November last year, it was pretty nasty and involved him cheating and me walking in on it. Since then I have moved on and dated a couple of other guys etc. However this afternoon I was walking though a shoppin...

Are her excuses lame and is she just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I have been interested in this woman for about two months, she finally got my number and we have been texting for about a month. I told my ex who i had been sleeping with since about a month ago that i was interested in another woman annd now she is ...

Married and 2 years later still wondering if I've done the right thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i've been married to a man for two yrs now n still i'm wondering if i've done the right thing! U c i think i still love my ex to whom i was engaged but he called it off when i was about 3/4 mths pregs with my daughter, he had realised he wasn't ...

Is he cheating? Is she trying to wait for her chance to be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - (OP's suggested title) Hi Everyone,I could really use some help, thanks in advance. One of my boyfriends best friends is a girl who he used to be mad about and once slept with. He told me when we got together (2yrs ago) that it was kind of importan...

He's still very friendly with his ex wife and it upsets me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - We've been friends for a year and start a really good relationship. My boyfriend confides me about his ex wife whom they shared almost 16 yrs. Its been 6 yrs since they got divorced, the ex wife left him without any reasons and anytime he wants ...

Why does he get so creeped out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Hi I have been dating my current bf for a year and 8 months.. He's had more of a past with girls than I have (I was a virgin), he's done it with 6 girls. I ask him questions about his past experiences but he doesn't like to answer them and gets ...

Why doesn't she understand we were both wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years.. We both brought children into the relationship. Things transpired and we both ended up cheating on eachother. Her's was physical, and mine was disrespectful also. She cheated on me ...

Still waiting for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Hello there, my question is: after 3 years of love, we broke up for a year and a half, now we are communicating (MSN) again as friends i guess.. i'm still in love with her, how likely this kind of relations works after a broke up if we want to c...

I let my ex back into my life but he acts like a total jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - This guy and I dated for 9 months. Well towards the 9th month he starts to act odd like he doesn’t want to talk to me so he chooses to ignore me. So I stopped contact with him because I didn’t want to waste my time. Then two months fly by, he texts ...

Have I been had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I went out my ex for 7 years, we had 2 beautiful kids together and yes we did a lot of things to hurt each other that was unforgivable. We broke up 3 years ago but continued to sleep together and spend a lot of time together. we last slept together ...

I want to know more about my boyfriend's past hook ups!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5154 days ago

Two ex's and don't know what to do with them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - I neeed help.. I started talking to my x once more.. And I also talk to my other x Alejandro let's say.. I like Alejandro a lot for a long time know.. The only reason we don't go back is because he is in another state. How ever my other x is wa...

Whyy is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'll try to keep this short. I was seeing a woman from work for about 8 or 9 months. Initially she was with someone else and we were just friends. Her relationship with this other person was pretty unhealthy (sexual assault and aggression towar...

I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex. I really need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - hi... im 16 years old and im having a realy hard time guetting over my ex... we went out for 3 years and i honestly loved him but he left me because i wouldint have sex with him...he said'' its been three years and you wont do anything with me i ...

I'm afraid I'm going to lose my kids again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I'm just praying someone will be able to give me some advice.. This is very complicated so please bear with me. First off I'm a 22yr old mother of 3, my two sons 6yrs and 3months live with me while my daughter who is 3yrs lives with her father. ...

My ex has really messed me up, and used me for sex, how can I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I am feeling really distraught at the moment. I broke up with my ex a year ago now, and I still can't get over him. I even went to see a psychiatrist for 4 months after the break up because I was a complete mess. I feel like I still get upset about ...

How do I protect my daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - I’m busy divorcing my wife at the moment and it’s been an emotional rollercoaster ride from hell – my soon to be ex-wife (38) is a very intelligent, attractive and well qualified individual (two post grad degrees and currently studying towards a ...

I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...

Better to have loved and lost?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Three years ago I fell totally completely in love with this boy. We dated for about 8 months but broke it off because there was a 30 minute distance between us. He dated another girl for about 2 years who broke his heart. but all through these past ...

I know he still loves me and has admitted his new girl is just a replacement for me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago. I talked to him today and he said that the girl he was with is just a fill in and that he has a special place in his heart for me and that I should know he still loves me. I'm missing him like crazy but the ...

Still love my ex but he seems to be with another girl. How do I know? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a few years; I was very young when i met him..learned from my mistakes and really think things can be different this time. We have been talking on and off for about a year. He told me this is hard for him and he buried ...

Should I leave him to sort things out with his ex? or do I stay with him and try to show him how better I am than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - a guy i like recently split up with his gf, me and him got close quickly but nothing has "happened" between us. this week his ex has been txting him loads trying to get back together with him. he's told her that he wants to be single at the moment ...

In a wonderful, new relationship, but I still can't get over my ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am turning to you because I am really struggling to figure this out. Basically I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful man, S. We have been together for one year and he is caring, funny, handsome, and thinks the world...

Dealing with drama because of my ex.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - After my ex left me for his female friend he claimed ! He told Me not to call no more so i say what ever! i havent call him , now he callin me cause she wants to speak me woman to woman that some body been prank callin her and i told him look nobody ...

Jealousy issues due to my girlfriend's ex.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - I have jealousy issues over my GF's ex that I need help on. First, some background...I have been with her for about a year. When we met, she claims to have broken up with her ex, but she still saw him once or twice for sex in a 4 month span. This ...