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writes:I have been interested in this woman for about two months, she finally got my number and we have been texting for about a month. I told my ex who i had been sleeping with since about a month ago that i was interested in another woman annd now she is hurt because she is in love with me, i just wanted to be upfront with her and not hurt her and reamin good friends. anyway I found out the woman who i am after has a boyfriend and they have children together but the relationship was rocky and she told me she has loved me for 3 years, well two weeks ago she broke it off with her boyfriend and we kept texting and organized a night away. Well a few days ago she tells me she can't do this as it hurts to see her daughters eyes every time her dad leaves and she just can't turn off 8 years and she tells me that she does loves her ex but she isn't in love with him so to speak but when she told me she loved me she meant it. The ex is still living in the house although though apprently he has now found a house to move into. I have confessed my feelings to her, I do love her, but I feel the excuses she gives me are lame? After she broke it off, I told I wanted to give her the world and I could make her so happy and I loved her so much and she said I melted her and ever time we spent time together it was perfect for her and when she went home it was back to reality. she seems to have warmed up to me again and hhave seen each other since. I haven't slept with her and really want to.My ex girlfriend who is just a friend told my she is playing me and has no intention of really leaving her ex as she hadn't kicked him him. But I just don't know what to make of it all? Is she playing games, does she want me?thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwthanks for your replies, well the ex boyfriend still hsnt moved out and we still text constantly and talk about how we plan to be together........he and her ex have agreed that he wont move out til july next year so til then we will just take it slow.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Here's the female perspective..Your ex whom you slept with the past month(although it was just sex but know it's never just that) is going to get mad and say those things about the other woman because she wants you back in her bed. The woman your after was already taken, first red flag..then randomly tells you she has loved you for 3 years. Ok, well then how come she didn't tell you a long time ago and is with this dude whom she shares children with? Next, not even 3 weeks and she goes back to her ex 8 years is something you can't just dispose of..big red flag. That's when you should have walked away from this drama. It's true women look at the years invested in the relationship and they think I've been around this long I might as well stay. Her relationship is lacking something and you're offering the world. She doesn't know what she wants but I'll tell you her kids are coming first and her ex will always be around.
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