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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Dreams of sex with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Ok so i keep dreaming about having sex with my ex. The dreams are always the same, we have sex, i freak out and tell him it means nothing and that it feels wrong. Then i go back to my current boyfriend make love to him and everything is right. ...

Videotapes of wife with ex....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I found a video of my wife with an ex, she says she thought they had been erased. I knew they had sex and that my wife wasn't a virgin, so I am not so disappointed by that, but rather in the video he finished by giving her a facial. I always ...

Best friend wrecked my relationship and I need help moving on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I dont know what to do. I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my ...

My ex's parents don't care..should I let them see their granddaughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - just wandering what peoples views are on my situation Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have broken up, we lived together and have a child.. His mother was the guarentor for our house, when we broke up she phoned the letting agent and withdrew h...

My ex and I are cool again...how to take it further?

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30 April 2010 (F) - Hello! Hoping you guys can help me figure out where to go from here. My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago and it was quite rough for me at first but I'm really doing great now! I gave myself time to heal, initiated a little contact and ...

Should I try talking to him about his texts to this other woman or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Okay so, I have already asked readers of this site two questions on this topic. I want to give a brief prologue, about two months ago my bf started getting texts from another woman. When he realized I noticed it he told me that she is a friend in ...

Wife wants me to leave over someting I don't remember doing, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Question, my wife and I have been married for almost 4 years now, we have not been getting along lately, we have had some tension. We recently moved out of state for a fresh start, I have been out of work and just started training for a new career. ...

My Husband's ex wont go away!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Ive been with my husband for about 3 years. Ever since we got together his ex girlfriend had been in the picture. he had told me he blocked her from everything from emails to AIM's. Lat friday we were looking for house (well he was) and he kept ...

No one remembers his birthday, should I greet him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Probably this question has been posted many times but I just missed the chance to read it. Last month, I told my ex that I prefer if we stop communicating. I have always asked him before but he would just pop out again about a week or two. But...

Is it okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back...

Should I try to figure my ex out or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I went nc for about a month. Finally on my bray I answered and we talked. She texted later and wanted to meet up sme time in a week. We met and flirted, touched and acted kinda like old times. Over the weekend her rebound guy came to visit her and I ...

I can't move past the fact he slept with someone else while we were not together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a question about my issue here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cant-let-go-of-a-past-one-night.html I have discovered something else now and I'm hoping some of you can help me For those of you who don't want to read t...

My violent drug-using ex is threatening me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone.I have a trouble with my ex boyfriend.OK! I'm gonna start tell u how we met.I working at 7eleven. I am cashier.He was my regular customer.Last Christmas we're start talking and make the long story short.We were dating after christmas.On ...

Bad experiences with guys, I'm starting to think there's something seriously wrong with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - ok so i know to a lot of people this would sound like a ridiculous question and i would deny it was true if it was happening to someone else but it's not and i'm having a really hard time convincing myself that there's nothing wrong with me. So to ...

I want to keep in touch with him, but I don't know if I should! Things were fine until his ex spoke up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - hi i really need some brutal advice here!!! i met this guy in a pub, he works there, he gave me his number but he said that he is texting his ex but he would like to go for a drink with me at some point (and no he is not a player, a few of my frie...

So if I love him, do I try and get him back? Or is this just a phase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - So here's my story. I started dating this guy my senior year of high school. Then we went to two different colleges and continued a long distance relationship for another 2 1/2 years. The distance sucked, but we loved each other and wanted to make ...

He says he'll come back if I kick my brother and his girlfriend out!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - me and my ex partner got back together five months ago, after seperating two years before when our son was born. the relationship endend badly last time as he cheated on me time and time again and as much as i wanted to be with him i couldnt take it ...

His ex-girlfriend is pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid my bf had broken up with his ex-girlfriend for about four months and we have been in love with him for about five months and then his ex came saying she pregnant and he is the one responsible, she also said that since she pregnant she is ...

How do you know when an ex truly wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - How do you know when an ex really Wants to be friends? We have been talking regularly and she always says yes to hanging out. She mentioned in the past It was her intention, and now a week later says right now were just friends. I did tell her I ...

I feel second-best to his best friend and am worried she'll take him away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - For three years before he met me my boyfriend was in love with his best friend. She didn't feel the same way. He told me about her early on in the relationship, and said they had sorted things out between them and he didn't have feelings for her ...

She's always comparing me to her ex-boyfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Should I end this relationship before we get more attached? My current girlfriend and I have been dating almost 1 year now. Problem is her past. Not that she has a past, but she's always throwing up things in my face. More information, she dated 3 ...

Is my ex-boyfriend trying to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I'm in the process of getting over a break-up. I recently told my ex that being friends with him straight away was not going to happen for me, and that I need time to be just me. He said to contact him when I'm ready but I dunno if I'll ever be....

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my pictures and letters from my former girlfriend who died in my arms, is she in the wrong here?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I have been dating a young woman for a few months. She is very sweet and I care very much for her. She came over to my apartment when I wasn't home yesterday and my room mate let her in. She went into my room and found an old year book I had ...

My boyfriend wants to bring a third!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hello again!This is my second article. Well I am with a guy for about a month and im having a great time, when my daughter lets us alone of course. There is always fantasy when we have sex and he seems to want me alot too. Last time he too...

What do I do now that me and my ex are talking again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok i really need some help here, me and my ex have been broken up since Oct. 09 its a lot more complicated then just breaking up but i'll get to the main point. We just recently after 6 months of not talking or seeing eachother have started at...

How do I get over these dreams of my ex? What do they mean and how can I stop them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 1.75 years a month ago. To be honest, I think we still loved each other (at least I still loved him), but I wasn't really a priority to him anymore. I was always left in the dust, and I don't think he was really ready for a ...

I am trying to get my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am trying to get my ex back. We were dating for few months when i kissed someone else. I came clean the next day and he broke up with me. I know what i did was wrong and i regret it more than anything. I really love this guy and i want nothing ...

He's a colleague to my ex but I do not want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - well i have dated a guy for about eight months and a half,then we broke up, the relationship was so amazing and fair to the both of us since there was nothing complicated until we broke up over a simple thing..let not take this part of my love life ...

I don't want to hurt him, but staying doesn't seem very fair either.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I don't want to hurt him, but staying doesn't seem very fair either. What should I do? Okay, so me and this guy were dating for about seven and a half months before we eventually had some issues and we broke up. Not long after, i started dating t...

How do people get through this heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I am totally broken, can anyone please give me some advice i have been with my fiance for five years, which were the best yesrs of my life, we were supposedly so in love and spent every spare minuite together.i then had two very close bereavemen...

Why did he end a good relationship with me to date women who treat him badly, and then rub my face in his new relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Lately I've been ocassionally talking to my ex via txt. Last time we saw each other (3 mo or so ago) we had a discussion bout us being tired of the dating scene, we never had real probs in our relationship and he made it seem he was open to date me ...

Is there anyway I can help my on-line friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - Im having contact with this girl I met trough the internet for about 3 years or so now, first everything was ok and just for fun.. but I have fallen in love with her.. but that isnt the real problem, the thing is that she might have some mental ...

Ex wants secret meetings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I finished in January and him and his sister put me through alot of things that hurt me and on Easter he texted me sayin he wanted us to meet again but not go steady and we've been meetin since Easter and I don't know wheter am ...

Need advice! He appears to love me, but claims not..., and how do I remain friends? Help appreciated!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Ugh, So My boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke up with me a week ago. I've been either really happy or really upset since then. Everyone keeps telling me that he was the one that made the mistake of dumping me and everything. I don't know what to do,...

I'm married but still talking to and thinking of my ex. Why do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I am 20 years old and married, I have been married for about a year and a half now. I am from Mississippi and joined the army about two years ago and now I am staioned in NC.before I started dating the girl that is now my wife I had a girlfriend ...

Ex texted me acting as though we never split up. WHY?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I have an update to a previous situation with my now ex girlfriend. I'm seeing a new girl, she's more my own age and really nice, we're getting on well and I'm optimistic. There's none of the games that my ex played but I put that down to the age ...

I've not known him long and I don't think I can trust him, but I'm 7 weeks pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - well, in a bit of a mess met this guy not known him long, he said he wanted our own place which we got and wanted a baby, which has now happened.. im now 7 weeks pregnant and he does not want to know, he has 2 children with his previous and has ...

Why was my ex so eager to talk to me but now she has made no more attempts to talk again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I talked to my ex for the first time Friday after almost 2 months since we broke up and a month of not talking even though we were in NC for over 3 weeks. I have some earlier post on this site where I mentioned how she initiated contact with me,...

How can I tell him that I like him as a person and would love to get to know him more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - OK. So good news is, i finally took the guts to end things with my ex-bf in a good way.-Been Four months and i finally decide to do this. Done also, i stopped contacting a guy who's just using me as a booty call. i accepted his flaws and all ti...

Should I forgive my ex and continute to hope she will come back to me one day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I love my ex, we were together for almost 4 years. We were always arguing for probably 6 months (which was 1 of the reasons to me getting depression). The problem mostly was we never gave each other space, especialy her as she in very clingy. It ...

How do I undo the damage I did by keeping contact with my ex wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I must have done everything wrong that I could do in regard to my ex-wife. Even though she is now in a rebound relationship with the man she was secretly seeing for several months. The affair has brought out the worst in me. I know I wasn't the one ...

Is it wrong to end an unhappy relationship for a happy one with an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - if someone (already involved in a long term relationship that saddly brings that person mostly unhappieness) happens to reunite with an ex from ten years ago, found that the feelings for their ex was still very, very strong, would it be wrong to ...

Should I be open about my past or keep quiet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Ok I'm in a major dilemma.. I'm getting married to this really wonderful guy and we have been seeing each other for over a year now.... I have been in a relation before this and have kissed my ex boyfriend but I have not revealed this to my fianc...

Confused and wondering what this means.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me last night that he will not leave me for another woman but will for his son. Then he said I'm honest just don't ask me if I slept with, what does it mean. We were suppose to get closer after his court with his ex nut it's made ...

She, me and him--I don't want to be in a relationship with 3 players!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hands down, my biggest problem with my boyfriend over the past 4 years has been his ex-girlfriend. I want to tell him that I am not comfortable with him maintaining a friendship with her, but I also do not want to control who he can and cannot be ...

Tried to get even with my cheating boyfriend, and now I am pregnant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I hope I will not be judged for asking this question as I made a mistake in trying to get even on my cheating boyfriend- something I will never do again!!!! I am pregnant, my last period was on the 1st of January and I discovered my pr...

Why did I sleep with him when I despise him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - A while ago, I started dating a my roommates friend who I hardly knew. I understand what a mistake that was. We ended the relationship after about a month. We didn't see each other again for a while but when we did, we resolved to be friends. After ...

Why does my ex act angry and hostile?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Ok so i havent talked to my ex boyfriend in months. He contacted me and said he saw a car like mine in his neighborhood he swears it was the same license plate everything. I explained to him it wasnt me i even have proof and i was in a whole diffe...

I think my ex still loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been divorced for 2 years, he is in another relationship and very unsettled, we have an intimate relationship that he "hides" from this woman, we still love each other, am i wasting my time waiting for him to take me back and ...

My boyfriend is boring! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Kay, well i've been seeing this guy for a while and he is lovely. We get on well, he's a gentleman and i love him and i used to love spending time with him. But recently things have just gotten boring. The last relationship I was in was really fun ...