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writes:I am 20 years old and married, I have been married for about a year and a half now. I am from Mississippi and joined the army about two years ago and now I am staioned in NC.before I started dating the girl that is now my wife I had a girlfriend that I cared for a lot but I had commitment issues with her. But here lately even though its been about 4 years I always think about her and wonder if I made a bad decision. I have been caught talkin to her a few times by my wife but I keep doing it and I don't know y,what should I do? What is wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): Your story interests me very much. I dated a soldier and he, behind my back, got married and had a baby. I wonder if i ever cross his mind... If he thinks he made a mistake.I don't have any advice to offer you... Except, being the girl who loved her soldier so much, I am so heart broken. Would I take him back? Would I melt to just hear his voice one more time? Him tell me he loves me? To reminisce in our plans for the future... a future I truly believed in? In many ways, I long for that. In other ways, I am scared to death to hear from him, I don't think I can handle being faced with an option, something to consider... Because although I know what he did to me is wrong, I still love him so much.You had a committment issue with your ex. Who is to say it would be any different? You need to reevaluate your feelings for your now wife and really see it from an outside perspective. Do you love her? Do you see yourself with her for the rest of your life? Or do you still envision your life with your ex?I am not saying it is right to leave your now wife for your ex... But the heart wants what the heart wants.I am curious how this works out for you and how you take the advice from the coming people... please update us, as I wonder about my ex...
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