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Why did I sleep with him when I despise him?

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Question - (25 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

A while ago, I started dating a my roommates friend who I hardly knew. I understand what a mistake that was. We ended the relationship after about a month. We didn't see each other again for a while but when we did, we resolved to be friends. After that, another three or so weeks past and my roommates and I were getting drunk and I got the guy's number from my roommate, called him, asked him to come over, and proceeded to hit on him and we ultimately ended up sleeping together. I remember very little of the evening but have enough short memories to know what happened. After we had broken up, I thought about him often although I know for a fact I don't really want him. He is not the person I want to be with for various reasons and I'm so angry with myself for sleeping with him. I want to know WHY I did this/why I still think about someone whom I really despise when I think about it. Does anyone have an idea?

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A male reader, Kenneth United States +, writes (26 April 2010):

This whole story sounds very stupid. You were in denial. You liked this guy all along or just want to get laid.

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A female reader, It's all be okay United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

Because you were drunk?

Because you were lonely?

Because you wanted to know you could?

Because you wanted intimacy with anyone?

But probably because you were drunk. Don't drink so much in future, bad things always happen.

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