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writes:OK. So good news is, i finally took the guts to end things with my ex-bf in a good way.-Been Four months and i finally decide to do this.Done also, i stopped contacting a guy who's just using me as a booty call. i accepted his flaws and all till one day, he set a date with me and dumped me and planned the date with his gf.-We were both having affairs with each other clearly not happy with our current relationship. Whatever, but im done for my part.So,i have been out and about these days with girlfriends. I met this guy, a good friend of my gf friend. I was with my ex-bf that night and we all went to club and partied all night. So, this new guy, J, was soooo drunk and upon that, i offered him a glass of water. he then accept it. and stick around me.the next thing, he attempted to give me a peck on my forehead, and ex-bf saw it, and it was almost a fight. I said to ex-bf, he was drunk, don't bother him. J was shocked, as that night, me and ex-bf doesnt look that we are together. I went to the loo then, and i saw J. We stopped and both sneak in behind the smoking area as i said, lets go somewhere where bf cant see us. So, he gets my num and i said sorry about the incident.He text me "hi" next morning,-this i know he wasnt that drunk but very sober indeed. i asked if it was J as i didnt get his num. the night before, he got mine.I said to him that i wanted to buy him a drink perhaps for a make up of what bf did to him as my gf said that he felt realllyyy bad about it.So, we met and drink, all our friends went back and J and i went to the same club, same venue where we sneak and make out heavily. -He was cute, i cant deny.and worst, i followed him back to his place for a night swim and back to his crib. and yes.....i stayed till themorning.same thing happen on the second night when we are both out with friends, we left our friends and got a late swim and to his place..was fun!He said to my gf that he thinks im cute. She says he mightlike me.He knows i have a bf, but he kissd me in front of his friends and his frids are like telling me he is a good one and funny is that they asked, u have a byfriend dont u.I only say its complicated. Well, whatever the reason is, J hasnt been texting much, i know he thinks that i have a bf, maybe he just want sex with me.period!How can i tell him that i like him as a person and would love to get to know him more? Im sure he still thinks im attached, thats why he took a step back.no point running after an attached person anyway. Well, im not. what should i do??Should i just wait and see what happens? I dont wanna rush things, even i know i met him twice and sleot with him twice.HELP!!!????
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reader, raiders  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 you have to talk to him and let him know that you want a relationship that you don't want to be his booty call. Be careful out there don't have sex with just any guy that's not your boyfriend. Sex does not mean your in a relationship and guys will have sex with you without having any emotions involve.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Well, tell him you broke up with your BF for crying out loud! However, he was willing to have you cheat on your BF and sneak off with you. It's possible he was more into the sex and intrigue than he was with you.
Don't have sex so quickly with guys. It does not make a relationship, nor does it make one better.
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