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writes:I talked to my ex for the first time Friday after almost 2 months since we broke up and a month of not talking even though we were in NC for over 3 weeks. I have some earlier post on this site where I mentioned how she initiated contact with me, confessed that she missed me incredibly and how not communicating with me has been bugging her like mad. She kept emailing and texting me asking when I'm available to talk and was really impatient to talk with me. I looked at all this as a good sign until we actually did talk.The conversation seemed very awkward and dull. We were both very nervous and tense but regardless I did keep a calm cool attitude and allowed her to direct the conversation. However it dragged on for an hour and she was the one who ended it. I kept it going because I wanted to make her laugh and make it more interesting which I did make her laugh a few times but at the same time I was cautious not to say something stupid. It just felt very different but maybe it's supposed to feel that way. We pretty much just caught up with ourselves, then I grew sad after our conversation. I guess I had high expectations.However it's now been over 2 days since me and her have spoken and she hasn't said a thing since. I haven't contacted her and neither am I going to but why would she have behaved so eager to talk to me and then we talk but afterwards she makes no more attempts at wanting to talk again? Did she just really not like the convo to the point that she completely changed her mind about wanting to talk again? I had the feeling she wanted me back but now I don't know what to think. Could her feelings and intentions change so rapidly? Should I be concerned? I hope it's nothing to worry about.Please tell me your perspectives on this. I really hope she still misses me like she said.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Well, you might not like to hear this, but seeing you probably brought to her mind and emotions why you two broke up in the first place. I'm sorry to have to tell you that. She probably is getting advice from friends of hers too that she's talked to about you.
This relationship just might be in the past. I know it hurts you, and what she just did picked at that hurt like an old scab. I'm sorry. :(
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