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Confused and wondering what this means.

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Question - (26 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend told me last night that he will not leave me for another woman but will for his son. Then he said I'm honest just don't ask me if I slept with, what does it mean. We were suppose to get closer after his court with his ex nut it's made us more distant. Please help.

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A female reader, Si Si Australia +, writes (26 April 2010):

Si Si agony aunt Dear girl, your relationship with this man sounds very precarious. Firstly, you should find out who broke up with who. In other words, was it his ex wife who broke up with him? Secondly, he is more or less telling you in so many words, that he may go back to the ex particularly now they have slept together....The thing about his son is just a way of softening the blow.

Be prepared for anything.The other issue is that if he slept with ex once{as far as you know} what is to stop him doing it again? Can you live with that uncertainty?

This man may need time to sort himself out without you there. Your best chance is to give him space and let him work out what he wants to do. If you let him go and he comes back to you,then it`s love.If he doesn`t then it wasn`t meant to be.

Good luck and happiness

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (26 April 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt I guess it's a diplomatic way to say that he is considering ( or at least not excluding ) getting back with his ex for the sake of their son.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2010):

'I'm honest, just don't ask me of I've slept with'? Sounds to me like something has happened here, most likely with his ex. I think you might be involved in a big mess here, and he has made it more than clear that he will leave for the sake of his son, which again means the ex has been putting pressure on him. I would sit down and really think about this relationship, because he doesn't seem into it at all.

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