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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Does my ex still love me, or is he just after my money?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Hi!please help me,last monday i call my x-bf coz i just try if he answer the phone coz i missed him then he did,he talk that we almost 5 months for being together if we dont broke up...so last tuesday we meet and then i give him a money to help ...

My partner has just walked out and left me with a 4 month old baby!! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I had a great relationship with my ex, after 7 months together we decided to try for a baby, (I have 2 young children from a previous relationship). I fell straight away and we were both over the moon! My ex partner is in a band and they are trying ...

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

I'm feeling lonely but I'm having a hard time moving on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my bf of almost a year back in October. He broke up with me over the phone and it was pretty hurtful. It was right out of the blue. The ngiht before we had been discussing where we were going to go for a weekend away for our 1 ...

Is my ex just being nice or does he want to see me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and ran into him in the mall the other day. There has been no contact between us and at my suggestion we went for coffee. We kept things light and fun and it was good to catch up. The old feelings were ...

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

We broke up, he was abusive, but do you think he has gone back to his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I know it doesn't matter now, because i don't want my ex back because he was abusive on so many levels, but is it true that after u break up they will see their previous ex and possibly hook up with them. He broke up with his ex before me to go out ...

Boyfriend broke up with me then jumped into another girls arms, I can't stop peeking at his emails, am I going mad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - If anyone could offer any advice I would really, really appreciate it...I think I am going mad and I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me via email 3 months ago...we're both doing gap years and he's decided he wants...

I'd like to find that special person, but paradoxically... I'm scared, after my last relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - This is the third question I've posted. I was in a four year relationship which ended nearly 2 years ago. I'm basically over it...but it's taken me THAT long. I believe I've really grown. The only thing is, I've noticed something really strange ...

My bf said his ex was a very nasty person, then resumes contact with her. What does this tell about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - When you date a guy for 1 year and 4 months and he said hes totally into you, but when he starts talking to ex which he said "she was bitch and i never ever liked her." and plus adds her on myspace. what does that mean? b/c i dont want to tak...

My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks ...

A love triangle, how can I get my ex to forgive my betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I have a complicated problem that I need some help with. me and girl #1 dated when I was in college and she broke my heart and ended up having a child. after this, I fell in love with girl #2,we dated for a year and a half and she broke my heart as ...

I left hubby now I want him back but he's with someone else now, is there any hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - i left my husband about a year ago. i thought i was unhappy with our life together and messed up big time. now that i realize my mistake i want him back but i think it's too late. he has been with a woman for around 8 months or so. the thing is he ...

We split up, but she says she still loves me, is there any point in being hopeful we could get back ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Recently, my ex and I called it quits. She decided that after 2 1/2 years of dating that she needed time to herself and that over the past 6 years she's only had a few months of time where she wasn't dating. However, she says she stills loves me ...

First love...Does it ever end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16...

What to do with him...Do you think we are really broken up for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hello my ex and i been broken up for about 2 weeks now and sunday night i went to his house we talked..he basically told me that we're still young and that hes not ready to commit yet.then he said i'd be wasting my time if i waited for him.....

How can we get his ex to leave us alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about ...

I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...

His ex wife does not leave us alone (harassing me, including at work, making my bf feel insecure etc.) What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi I have been dating a wonderful man since September of last year and things have been progressing really well until his ex wife met me. Instantly she chose to take him to family court and refused to let him see his kids. She is now trying to stop ...

How can I tell him how I feel about the "ex experience" without him realising I read his mail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Im in a great relationship but my boyfriend gave me his email password to check something for him in his account.I started looking at his emails from months ago partially due to curiosity and what I found worried me. He has been friends with thi...

Will I ever win my ex bf back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex around 2 years ago this may. However we still keep in close contact and see each other every day. I have been through periods where I've had another love interest and felt I was over him, but at the end I've always gone back to ...

Broke up with my clingy bf 3 weeks ago and he won't leave me alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - i broke up with this guy about 3 weeks ago and he wont leave me alone recently i have got together with somebody else but he gets really annoyed when my ex rings me. he calls me about 50 times in an hour, this was one of the reasons why i broke up...

My girlfriend likes her jerk Ex as a friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Ok, I just want a general opinon from people to see if I'm out of line. My girlfriend of a few years has a platonic relationship with her ex. The ex and I don't like each other because, I feel he harbors resentment for me taking her away and because ...

He cheated with his ex and dumped me because I am too controlling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ok...Well, I've known this guy for about 8 years. We started dating 9 months ago but he dumped me 2 months ago...because *He* cheated on me and had sex with his ex. So after that day I would try to restrict him from going over his friends' houses o...

Can I trust my ex even after she stole from my mum??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - hi, Me and my ex split in October of last year; we split because i found out that she was stealing from my mum. I confronted her and she denied it. She ran off to her mums with our 1 year old little girl and said i couldn't see her again so i w...

What is trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - How do you build trust? Is it just given or does it have to be earned? My girlfriend has cheated on me and i'm thinking about giving her a second chance. But aren't you core beliefs like not lying set in stone from childhood. I'm confused, what is ...

Did she make the right choice taking him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Is there any truth in the saying eopards don't change their sports, once a cheat always a cheat? I now talk to my ex on MSN and she told me now she's back with this guy who she was with before me. I asked her why he hurt her in the first pl...

I'm a single mom, and I need help getting over my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I want to move on helllllllllp! I am a single mum of three girls. A set of young twins and a four year old with special needs. I am finding it tough caring for the children and am still trying to move on from my ex. We split up last year as he ...

I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together fo...

Mind games have me nuts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I started dating/talking to "Bob" although we never labeled it a rel...

Huckabee's all wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - Ok.. This is kind of a touchy question, and I'm not even sure if I should be asking this or not. But I'm going to anyway.. just cuz I have very strong feelings about this. (as would anyone and their religion.) I'm LDS (a mormon) and there's...

Wondering if I'm fantasizing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - My bf and I had been together for about 4 years now. We've known each other for more than that, but only be seriously dating for that time. We've had some really bumps on the road, and I had always been the one trying to salvage our relationship. ...

Arranged marriage ruining my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - i am very sad crying all the tears in my body, didnt realise i could cry that much.. they just keep flooding my cheeks.. i am in love with my boyfriend, in 6months i am leaving him and going back to my own country to get married, arranged...

Changes in our Long Distance Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - .. Me and my gf from Ghana, West Africa have been in communication with each other for fifteen months now. I tried to go over to Ghana, West Africa in November last year. Anyway, when I got there, the Ghanian Government refused me entry and sent me ...

Your points on the happiness spectrum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - What were the most happy moments in your life so far? And what were the most unhappy ones? ...

Life's Great Mysteries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - If we are so Smart and Great why there is Pain Hunger and wars on Earth ?AND WHERE IS THE GREAT LOVE THAT WE ALLWAS TALK ABOUT ?THANK YOU...

What exactly is my ex doing? Playing with my head, being friendly or maybe wanting me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Ok well cut a long story short, me and my serious boyfriend split up just under 5months ago (his choice i was heartbroken). He did some bad things to me since we split e.g got with (snogged) one of my ex best mates and sent me a photo of it, posted ...

He seemed sincere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - A week ago, I met a guy; we were both proctoring exams at our university. We talked a little before the exam, and exchanged a few whispers during the exam. Our areas of research seemed to overlap a little and he said he had some sources I should ...

Will our values keep us apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - Hi i'm 20 and met this wonderful guy at uni. We have been together for a couple of months. Anyway its transpired he is a virgin, weve discussed this and i have told him about my sexual history warts and all. The trouble is he says, not the fact tha...

Death is inevitable, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I think i am depressed. Or maybe i am just feeling sorry for myself. Only i don't know what to do. I haven't had a good few years. I know death is all part of life, they always say you are born to die, but the past few years have been ridiculous....

Career advice needed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - hello,friends. i need help about my career,i m from india now i m 23 years old qualificaton 8th class only, beuse of my family problems, i cant able to stady , now i m faceing lot's of problem in life , i m trying for job but i didnt get and la...

I'm not Asian so could we be compatible

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I have a question about a guy I am interested in that I may be starting to date (assuming he moves things forward with me). He has been separated for three years and his divorce paperwork is with the lawyers. His ex-wife is not contesting the ...

Pregnant, homeless and confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I was 5 months pregnant when my Husband asked me to leave our home because he said he was miserable due to our fighting and bickering. We used to fight about fidelity issues on my behalf. Prior to me getting pregnant, he said he was over those ...

I've scared him off by not wanting to get married so quick after meeting. Did he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend on 27 Oct 2007. He was very loving and proposed to me 2 weeks later. I agreed but then stalled and asked for more time, suggesting we get engaged in a few months. We spent 10 days together at Christmas but I felt it was too much ...

We were going to stay mates after splitting but she doesn't seem interested. Should I let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - Dear cupid, To begin with, I had dated this girl during summer and the fallin year. She goes to a different school than me.[private].Well when we broke up, we promise that we contact with one another.But suddenly weeks later, we both didnt call ...

How do you do the rebound thing? I think it might help me get over my ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - About a month ago my bf and I broke up. We were very serious and the break up was very bad. I've been an emotional wreck for weeks, and cry literally every night. Recently I called to try to get him back, and he told me he's been going to bars, ...

We had to split because he moved away but I miss him. I cant eat or sleep. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - A significent other that I love has moved away. I love him dearly and miss him more and more everyday. A long distance relationship will not work and the move was for their own good. Since the depart I've been depressed and crying everyday. I cannot ...

What should I be doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - I am in university, I am doing a good degree and have good friends and can socialise easily. Yet the only part of me that I'm not happy about is my relationship with women. OK I have friends that are girls but I'm not as close to them as I am with ...

Tormented by love for cousin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - First off I wanna say The bible says nothing about being with a cousin as bad. Actually there are stories of key members being with their cousins. Its bad when you're with a brother or sister, thats considered incest. Anyways I am in severe agony ...

What was my responsibility

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - please can someone help. Today at work I winessed another member of staff lose their temper and pull a little girls arm because the girl said something about her daughter apparently, the children are yr 3's anyways I had other things to do as in I ...