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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok...Well, I've known this guy for about 8 years. We started dating 9 months ago but he dumped me 2 months ago...because *He* cheated on me and had sex with his ex. So after that day I would try to restrict him from going over his friends' houses or exes houses. He said it was just to "chill" with them but...i don't care what it's for. Now he says that i'm too controlling and he doesn't want to be with me, he said maybe in the future, because he's not ready to be in a committed relationship. I told him i'd change and everything if he could SHOW me that i can trust him...but he hasn't. Idk if i should just leave it alone or what.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Hi.
Why on earth are you worried about this two timing, cheating, low down using you person, if he dumped you and he has had more that 1 relationship when you were together why are you bothering,you should be looking out for yourself, get out and find another bloke, there are thousands out there who will treat you a hell of a lot better than he did, goodness sake woman go and get yourself a life.
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (28 January 2008):
 I don't think that you are too controlling... I think that you are smart! You don't want him to go over to his "ex's" place just to "chill"....hmmmm... well he already showed you what he does when he goes over to an "ex's"
I don't mean to sound harsh honey, but I have had this type of experience myself, and He doesn't sound to me as though he is ready to commit to you. Like Waterloo Sunset said "Walk away with your head held high." You don't have to change for him, to become a "Rug" that he can walk all over. Be proud of yourself that you have good morals, and, evidently he doesn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): STOP GROVELLING!!!!You are a grown woman, so stop this now! He cheated on you and had sex with his ex! What more do you want? He is a pig. End of story. Walk away with your head held high and forget this loser. Stop saying that you will change, why? You are you and be proud of it, dont be like you think someone wants you to be. Get some back bone and kick this loser to the kerb. Thats and order!!!!!
take care
xx
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