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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and ran into him in the mall the other day. There has been no contact between us and at my suggestion we went for coffee. We kept things light and fun and it was good to catch up. The old feelings were still there and it surprised me a bit. As we were leaving he asked if I would be going to the pubnight after a rally that we would both be attending. I said I was not sure but it threw me. Do you think he was just being nice or if he wants to see me again. I see posts on here from people hanging on to false hope. I do not want to be one of them.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 Things happened because you make it happen. Just go and see what happens if you are interested in getting back together.
Nobody knows what will happen in the future. It is better to have hope than no hope at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): I do think he wants to see you again.
But after a year apart he prob doesn't want to come across as being too forward.
I think you should def go along to the night with your own friends. If you see him there ye could have a chat and see what happens.
You were the 1 who asked him for the coffee so let him come over to you at the night. He will if he's interested again.
Then let things progress from there. Chat away nicely. Maybe a little bit of flirting here and there...
You'll just have to wait and see how it goes i think..
goodluck....let us know how you get on.
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reader, ive been ther girl  +, writes (31 January 2008):
i think he may still feel the same way about you if he wasnt i dont think he would be asking you if you were going to the pub thing afterwards he would have ust seen u there and talked then
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reader, rk06  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 I think that if you still have feelings for him, you can get him back. You have both had time apart, and you're on very good terms. That is how my girlfriend and I were, we are now back together, and our bond is very strong.
Just go with what feels right. See if the chemistry is still there.
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