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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel I have to read his emails/texts because he was hiding his contact with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Sorry this is long! I have been with my BF for 3 years. He makes me feel so special and treats me so well. Everyone says they can see how much we love each other. That's why I'm confused.. After a year he was acting a bit dodgy when getting t...

Should I get back in contact with my ex even though we have so many differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid: I'm about two months out of a relationship with my girfriend of 1 1/2 years. We have tremendous differences---she wants kids (I don't blame her getting that pressing urge at our age, 42), I don't--I'm a homebody, she's not, she likes t...

My ex-fiance of 3 years still keeps in contact even though she is engaged to someone else, is she just playing me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi all, I am 39, and have been broken up with my ex-fiancee for the past 3 years. We have both kept in contact during that time, even while dating others. She is living with someone and engaged. Yet, still, she will see me, spend time at lunch, o...

I spent 6 months getting over her, then saw her again and now im back at square one! Please help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I'm currently still undergoing the getting over the ex-gf phase. It's been 6 months now since she left me, and during these six months i've been trying really hard to get over her. I've been going to the gym everyday, going out with friends and ...

Im in love with my ex ex again... he wants to make a go of it would this be wise!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Hi all My ex and I are together again... we dated only for 2 months but our relationship didnt work. We started off very fine when we were dating then, but 3 weeks down the line he was emotionally shut, he withdrew from the relationship, bu...

We split 2 months ago, he wasnt ready to settle down, now we are in contact again, I love him but dont want to get attached!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - me again been here before. basically i been split from my boyfriend for 2 mounths after a 2 year and a half year relationship. He wanted me to wait for him till he was ready to settle down, in the end i said i wouldnt put my life on hold for him. ...

Will this feeling of missing her disappear ? it was only 2 weeks ago we split!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi. My ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. It was a mutual decision to split and we both feel we did the right thing. The problem is that i spoke to and saw her for the first time today since we split and I started to get the ...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi Everyone, How can you tell if your g/f is over with her ex... she sometimes says that her ex comes to her once a week, we doing the long distance relationship,we been dating for 4 months now. is that something to be worried about? ...

Is this just my trust issues coming into play or might he be playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Now everyone has heard of myspace im sure of well there is this new guy im talking to and yes i meet him off of there. We went out on two dates and i saw him at his job and he came to mine. we have so much in common and i really like him. I never ...

He was my one true sweetheart but that was over 10 years ago! We are still in contact but hes married, I love him more now than ever, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi,I HAD to talk to someone about this because I am so confused and devastated. I was only 16 but found the love of my life and he had said I too was his first true love and I never stopped loving him. The only reason we broke up was because his mom ...

I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago and now I'm getting itchy! I'm married and he is seeing someone too although he said it's not serious. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago. We had such a great time. He sent me an email afterwards saying what a great time he had and asking if we can have dinner again in the near future. He is dating someone on and off but did say he wants to ...

How has she persuaded him to abandon his son??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - What kind of woman can make a man turn his back on his children and all his responsibilities? I am talking about my ex here. He has been with his new woman now for about 3 years and ever since it's as though he has no responsibilites or care for...

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who ...

He still has pictures of his ex girlfriend up and he won't take them down even although they bother me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend has pictures of his ex girlfriend in his home, both with him and her and her with his kids. i have mentioned on 2 occasions that it bothers me but he said they are just pictures and his kids are in them so he's leaving them up....

Hes been divorced for 10 years but still seems to be obssesed with his ex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - How would you view a man who has been divorced for about 10 years, whose ex-wife calls him about 3 times a day (keep in mind their kids are all mid-late teens so they can call him themselves). He constantly complains and speaks of her even though ...

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?...

I like this guy and have been out with him once, there's only one problem.... the EX!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - OK, so there is this guy that I really like, and I know that he likes me! But there is one little issue, the exgirlfriend! We did go out to dinner once already and had a great time! He is friends with all of my friends and that is how I know that he ...

She's broken up with me but says she still wants to keep in touch but I don't think that's wise. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - can anybody help me pls! my ex broke up with me coming up to a month now cos we were arguing a lot! we got together just 3mths after my dad passed away so I had alot to deal with! I wanted to break up with her first cos I knew it was coming to an ...

Do I wait for her or do I move on? She said she wants to be with me...but is not ready right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have recently come out of a two year relationship, after my fiance found she had feelings for another man and when he returned those feelings she put me to one side and started ignoring me and leaving me alone. We did split up, however every time ...

My ex secretly filmed us having sex and put it online! My new bf now calls me a slag! What can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - hay really need help im 22 and ive just found out 2 years ago some guy filmed me and him having sex and took pictures with out my consent god knows how i didnt see the camra or owt! but now there all over the internet i dont know what to do? people ...

I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...

Am I being jealous and controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Am I being jealous and controlling, and if I am how do I stop? My fiance and I just got engaged two months ago, and a month ago he left for a vacation by himself for two months (his dad and friends are going down two separate weeks). I saw him last ...

My ex has a girlfriend but he's being so nice to me. Does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - My ex cleaned his sick off my car today. However, he said he wanted to clean it inside and out, checking the oil and doing the tyre pressure. He then offered to do my weekly shopping! He's got another girl, but we did flirt and pretended we hated ...

Does he really want me and he's just too scared to admit it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - theres this guy and wev been friends for like 2 years but not like realy close close friends. and well everytime we wld get drunk together we wld fool around even tho he had a girlfriend. and well the first time he told me stuff like he wanted me ...

My current bf doesn't see how I could sleep with someone else when I was in love with him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend at the start of the summer last year because I fell out of love with him... Partially because he treated me badly, partially because I'd fallen for my best friend. My ex and I stayed friends until recently. A li...

We got divorced, but I want him back, How can I make it work ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - me and my ex-husband we got divorced on the phone after a two years spent apart, never seen him once, seperate countries... we come from different religions and that caused another problem, we got divorced 5 month ago after i found out about some ...

How can I get her to fall back in love with me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - how can i make the love of my life of 4 years fall back inlove with me after falling out of love. She really is strong minded and hard to break, help me!...

I love my ex, and know she is being cheated on, should I say something even though she may not believe me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - i posted a question a while ago about how my ex girlfriend was hurt by her new boyfriend and how she came to me for comfort. i also feared that he would do it again but chose not to say anything as i felt my advice would fall on deaf ears. however, ...

Hes seperated from his wife, but often stays at the marital home, am I right to refuse to see him until this is sorted ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hello readers, I have fallen in love with a man who is married, but separated from his wife. He lives with a mate who he doesn't really get along with. He and his wife own a lovely city apartment together and as he works different hours to her, he ...

I am desperate to get my ex back again, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - hi again! can anyone tell me how to get or at least to try get my ex back any ideas?? there must be some way!!plzz help me plz thank you ...

What should I do? Who should I choose? My current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - i need help here.... it all started when i got back in contact with my ex. my ex and me had been friends before for 7 years and then one night we kissed and everything changed and we started dating. i fell in love with him but he just walked away...

She claims to like me but is still hung up on her ex bf! Advice, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - Well, to save everyone from a life story, I'll do my best to summarize the important points. Basically, this concerns myself and a female we'll identify as "Jane." She's a junior and I'm a senior, both in high school, and we've been the best of...

He was drunk when he said he loved me. Can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6515 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Ex drunkenly told me he loved me 3 nights ago. We went out for a leaving do and i didn't drink. My ex kept looking at me all night. I hardly said a word, other than i can do better than him. He was sick on my car and he's coming to clean it ...

How do I know for sure her and her ex ARE only friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - i really need some help, so can someone out there give me some advice. i really don't know who to turn to or what to do... (sorry this is so long) it all started over Christmas, i talked to my girlfriend everyday (we go to school together but live...

My partner had an affair, we have 3 kids together and I just can't get over it, I feel his mom planned it all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend had an affair a year ago..We have just started our 9th yr together and have 3 beautiful children.To say i was shocked and devestated would be an understatement. The woman he was with was an ex..she stayed best buds with his mom. I never ...

I just saw my ex a week ago, he's gorgeous and I want him back.... he has a girlfriend though. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - i about a week ago i saw one of my exs who i had a miscarriage with. But i wanted out and now i have seen him i really love he and want him back, i would do anything. the past couple of nites i havent been able to sleep and i cant get him out of my ...

After puking in my car, my ex told me 'he loved me' but was drunk! I want him back..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - i split with ex 10mths ago and have slept with him twice. I saw him 2nights ago when there was a leaving party. I didn't drink. I spoke to him and said i was sick of the way he treated me. I was better than him and I won't ever let anyone treat me ...

I want to ask him back but I'm scared of rejection.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

23 February 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend who i was in love with nearly a week ago, we were together for 2 weeks. I don't know why he broke up with me, but his friend said that he still likes me but there is something in the way, but if i don't know why then i ...

He just wants to be friends, he needs his space for now he says... just as I've fallen for him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I finally met a good guy to be with, but he had only broken up with his ex-girlfriend just over a month before and said that he needed his 'space' to be single because he wasn't ready yet to be a boyfriend again. Trouble is, it was already after ...

What on earth can I do to put him out of my thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I have been seperated from my ex for over 5 years, for some reason he still is on my mind and i have moved on as has he but i constantly see look-a-likes and i have had boyfriends since him, what can i do to get him out of my thoughts which i do not ...

My ex is dating another guy and I am sick over it! Can anyone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - I can't get over my ex. makes me ill most of the times. Shes always there with her new bf, telling me how much there in love, and I just want to break down and cry. can any one help?...

My hubby worships his ex and I feel threatened! Should I contact her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - My husband has an ex that he worshipped. Even though we've been married for years, I still feel threatened by her. I found her profile on myspace. Why would I want to contact her and should I?...

I just want to meet someone normal!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I'm so confused i split with my ex-boyfriend 3 months ago he was in the navy and he has a lot of psychological problems i.e he got a tattoo saying he's got a small knob on his stomach so i'm well rid of him and i'm moving on with my life but i've ...

We had a short fling but have split up. But I'm not sure I can stay his friend whilst he's with another girl...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - Still in love with friend's ex husband RE: Still thinking about friend's husband (July 29 and March 28). My husband and I separated about 6 months ago. I had a brief, discreet fling with my friend's ex husband a couple of months later. It felt t...

Does he stay with me and be happy in his relationship but run the risk of losing his unborn child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - I have recently started a new relationship with a wonderful kind and caring man, we were only together for a short time when the bombshell that his ex girlfriend is pregant with his second child hit. My partner has told his ex that he will stand by ...

I really don't know how to take this any more, is she taking me for a mug? What's wrong with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - I am married and have been for over 20 years. In that time I have had a few flings, as sex with my wife has always been difficult (she was never that interested). However I decided that for the sake of my 2 children that I would never leave my wife. ...

Has he had a change of heart??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - My ex broke up with me after four months of our relationship.It was very unexpected and it hurt me really bad. He is 22 and i am 24. He said he was too young to be in a relationship and yada yada. Well i slept with him right after our breakup ...

My ex told me I'm bad clingy and annoying, what does he mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - Heres the deal: Im 15 almost 16 and my boyfriends 16. He just told me i was really clingy, sometimes not bad and sometimes realllly bad, to the point where he breaks up with me. We've been dating for 17 months and we've done everything together, but ...

my ex broke things off with me but he keeps coming round yet he's filled with resentment. What does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - My ex broke things off with me 2 months ago, but still wanted to be friends with me. I keep telling him that I don't do friends with exs, but he keeps calling me trying to arrange for us to go out or turning up on my doorstep. I haven't contact him ...

I have mixed emotions about my new lover and ex ! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - Mixed emotions about my new lover and ex what do I do?...