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*aofone
writes:My ex broke up with me after four months of our relationship.It was very unexpected and it hurt me really bad.He is 22 and i am 24. He said he was too young to be in a relationship and yada yada. Well i slept with him right after our breakup only one time and after that i stopped contacting him. We worked together up until last month when i quit and i addded him a line on my wireless account while we were dating. After we broke up,he would come up to me to ask me stupid questions about the phone bill and then walk away-just so he could see me.He even called me one night and I didnt pick up the phone. When i quit my job i didnt tell him about it. Ive been gone for bout 3 weeks now and he called me a few days ago and we finally held a conversation. I agreed to meet up with him.we talked in his truck for about an hour.He told me he misses me and everything but i havent heard from him since,that was two days ago. Why is he being like this? has he had a change of heart?now Im ALL confused.
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reader, maofone +, writes (22 February 2007):
maofone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all of your advise guys!it really gave me some insight!im going to move on...there is some one out there who wants to have a real relationship with me and the sooner i let him go,the sooner i can move on.... thanks
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (22 February 2007):
 I'm all confused too. He may be just as he says, "Too young to be in a relationship" or too immature, take your pick.
He may just be keeping the lines of communication open with you, just in case he wants to be with you (on a sexual basis probably). If he wants to be friends, that's up to you. But at this point, I'd be looking elsewhere for romance. This guy seems too unsure of what he wants.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): all i can say is..forget him.
i mean hes acting so childish about the whole situation hes not even contacting you after saying he misses you. he probably trying to say "i miss the sex i had with you" and probably only wants a physical relationship with you. when he gets back to you.. dont get into a serious relationship with him cos you might end up being hurt
toodles!!
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reader, Odette  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 First I have to commend you on being so strong its not easy when you really care about someone as you obviously did to maintain that distance and stay strong.Break up sex might seem good at the time but emotionally it chips away at your self esteem and why should he have the best of both worlds, best to not repeat that experience as that will confuse you further.
The thing is he must have been thinking about ending things before he did so his feelings had changed before he made you aware of it. He is bound to be missing you as you seem to be a strong self respecting individual, dont allow him to take up anymore of your time by trying to reason the unreasonable move on as you were and be sure of one thing alone that its his loss.
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