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writes: My ex cleaned his sick off my car today. However, he said he wanted to clean it inside and out, checking the oil and doing the tyre pressure. He then offered to do my weekly shopping! He's got another girl, but we did flirt and pretended we hated each other. I still get the good vibes off him. Does he love me? Why do I get the signals. Is he too proud to admit his mistake. I want to marry this man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): If he was sick in your car I should damn well think he SHOULD have cleaned it up! What else did you expect? That YOU were to do it?
As for his drunken declaration of love - its worth as much as a three dollar bill - in other words, NOTHING.
As TasteofIndia says, unless he actually breaks up with his current gf and when sober wants to get back together with you, you MIGHT consider it.
On the other hand, would you really want to get back with someone who is now your ex and who would ditch his current gf for you? Doesn't say much for him, does it?
Forget the "spark" and move on. There's other fish in the sea and more suitable!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Yes, I answered your original question. Isn't this the guy who you decided you were better than and used to treat you like crap??
Aside from that, if he's got a girlfriend I wouldn't screw around with it. If anything, it sounds like this guy is hoping to get a little somethinsomethin on the side, but if he's not willing to sever his relationship for you, he's still not worth your time. If he actually goes ahead and breaks up with his girlfriend for you, perhaps... but until then, forget about him.
As for the drunken I love you... well, he was drunk. Until he breaks up with his girlfriend and tells you he loves you when he's sober, forget about the guy. You want to marry a guy who pukes in your car? I guess he cleaned it. That was nice. But, still... I don't think this guy is worth your hand in marriage quite yet.
xxIndia
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reader, MRL +, writes (26 February 2007):
MRL is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe also drunkenly said he loved me the night he was sick in my car! We were so close and i know there's still a spark. Otherwise he wouldn't bother. Would he?
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