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writes:How would you view a man who has been divorced for about 10 years, whose ex-wife calls him about 3 times a day (keep in mind their kids are all mid-late teens so they can call him themselves). He constantly complains and speaks of her even though its all negative and although she is remarried, he seems to be interested in whether she and her husband are on the outs and keeps asking his kid about them. What would your opinion be?
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reader, mwendwa  +, writes (28 February 2007):
some times when a relationship ends one or both the partners would like to see the other fail, as if to proof a point- you were better when you were with me. in my opinion because it bothers you it is important that you talk about it. even if its a habit you should tell him it is annoying thus he should stop it for the shake of your relationship. otherwise I dont think he cares about his ex so if this is your worry give him more love.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 I think it's all just got to be a habit with him. They're both as bad as one another. Although they're now divorced they still keep in contact, even if it's only to bicker at one another. She seems to be the one that does all the stirring and he's just keeping her going. If she didn't call him then he'd have nothing to moan about! lol
I really don't think you have anything to worry about here.
Eve
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (27 February 2007):
 Who was it that broke the relationship? Maybe he just simply still loves her,he may not be in love with her but still cares for her well being. He may do it so his kids even though they are older,dont see him as a nasty dad?
There are so many reasons but this man sounds good and if he is in your life dont let him go. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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