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writes:Heres the deal: Im 15 almost 16 and my boyfriends 16. He just told me i was really clingy, sometimes not bad and sometimes realllly bad, to the point where he breaks up with me. We've been dating for 17 months and we've done everything together, but sex. Im also afraid of having sex cause ill get too attached!He says that i call too much, that im controlling, i dont let him live, i annoy him.well the calling thing is simple, but i dont know how im controlling. someone help me?or some guy tell me whats bad clingy, whats annoying, and how to stop it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): thank you soo much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007):
Are you trying to change him? Does he have to hear you opinions about his friends and his "immature" behavoir. Do you call him up with a lot of irrational concerns that you dont want to listen to advice on- just want to vent to him at length? Are you alway acusing him of 'being up to something'?
Do you depend on him for your own happiness.?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 By "clingy" he means you're too dependent on him, you don't give him enough space to breathe and he feels claustrophobic around you. Like he said, you call him too much and you try to control him all the time hence you are "clingy" to him, NOT giving him any free time or room to move. "Bad clingy" is when you are never off his back.
What do you do about it? You let him be himself. Be supportive of him but give him his space. Don't call him so often to find out his every move. Give him the chance to miss you. Trust him more and let HIM want to call you! If you continue the way you are and don't give him a bit of breathing space I fear he'll soon be your EX boyfriend.
Eve
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): this is actually the person who posted it. Hes not my ex, idn why it says that.
please helpppp me
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