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writes:I'm so confused i split with my ex-boyfriend 3 months ago he was in the navy and he has a lot of psychological problems i.e he got a tattoo saying he's got a small knob on his stomach so i'm well rid of him and i'm moving on with my life but i've started seeing someone else who is the same age as me(29) we've got alot in common we're born on the same day we both turn 30 this year etc but he keeps blowing hot and cold one minute he says he just wants to be friends but now we're together and he saying he wants to keep it casual i'm so confused i asked if we should stop seeing each other and he said no but he's got a funny way of saying one thing and meaning the other. Also we haven't slept together yet so obivously he respects me.I really like him and don't want to lose him but i don't want to be used i deserve better do i just tell him straight you either be with me or leave me alone? I've had 3 bad relationships in the past and i'm a bit insecure i just want to met someone normal Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice it helped alot x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Three of these relationships sounds like it might be too much for just chance. You might be somehow selecting these guys that you know wont work out.BTW millions of people were born on your birthday- so thats nothing to base a relationship on. I suggest that you ought to break out of your current patterns and start looking for dating material else where. Take an Engineering or weekend MBA class or at the local university (if you suck thats ok- just means that you get to be in a study group)or join a paintball league.
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reader, cheesy_babe +, writes (22 February 2007):
 yes just say to him that he has to make it clear to you wether you are together or not, as you know that you like him but you are getting mixed signals. be preapred though this may not always turn out the way you want it to.don't worry about the last boyfriend, you aren't a loser magnet and i think that he could be part of making you lose you confidence with your new guy. hope i helped some good luck!!!
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