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I want to ask him back but I'm scared of rejection.

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Question - (23 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I broke up with my boyfriend who i was in love with nearly a week ago, we were together for 2 weeks. I don't know why he broke up with me, but his friend said that he still likes me but there is something in the way, but if i don't know why then i can't change the problem, i'm worrying that it may be the age gap as it is 3 years, and thats 1 thing i can never change. We only had sex once, which went terribly wrong and i felt embarrassed to talk to him but then he told me to just forget about it and reassured me. But now hes saying hes got a girlfriend, i don't know whether to believe him because he could be trying to make me jealous. I'm worrying that it may be the age gap as it is 3 years, and thats 1 thing i can never change.

I really want to ask him to get back with me but im scared of rejection, what should i do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007):

i think you should move on and find someone else who would really except you and appreciate you for who you are there are guys out there that would love to go out with you so go out and have fun enjoy life dont be miserable you the only person that can make your self happy

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A male reader, si101 United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

si101 agony auntif he really cares he will be able to talk to you about it with you just get him alone and talk to him but some times its best just to just be friends :)

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A female reader, me616 United States +, writes (24 February 2007):

Oh I am really sorry, give it a try maybe it'll work. But the having sex part is probably the main cause of the break-up that is saying that you are ready for a BIG commitment and are ready for a SERIOUS relationship. So I guess that was the cause. Give it a try, if he rejcts then find another man.

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