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male
age
30-35,
*ncle Stu
writes: I can't get over my ex. makes me ill most of the times. Shes always there with her new bf, telling me how much there in love, and I just want to break down and cry. can any one help?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (23 February 2007):
Hey she's only doing this to make her jealous, actually she's being very spiteful and selfish in what she's doing. She may even be USING this poor guy to make a point! She's not worth it love. If she liked you she'd never hurt you like this.
You stand tall here! Let her see you're strong and that she's NOT ALL THAT!!!! Try to go places where you know whe won't be, you don't need someone like her in your life, she's a user! You can do MUCH better! ;o)
Come on... there's plenty more fish in the sea, bet there's someone out there wishing you would notice her and pining over you.
Eve
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reader, *a.m.y* +, writes (22 February 2007):
She's probably not as over you as she makes out. If she didn't care about you she wouldn't speak to you. I think she's probably trying to make you feel bad. Am I right? The best for you to do is think 'is she losing sleep over this, is she making herself ill with grief?' if not, why should you? It's not been or going to be easy I bet but the quicker you get it out your system the quicker you can move on and she'll still just be trying to make you feel bad because really she doesn't feel that good. Did that help?
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 February 2007):
I know how you must be feeling, i was there once when i was you age. You feel like you whole world has collapsed around you.
All i can say is that although you don't think it now, things will get better. You are still only young, soon you will meet someone else and be really happy again, and forget all about your ex.
Chin up mate,
good luck
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