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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I like him a lot but have no clue what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - So theres this guy I've liked for a year and we're friends. I like him A LOT, but I'm sure he doesn't feel the same. Ifeel crazy though cause he always is the one who makes me smile even if I'm having the worst day. He always finds someway to make ...

Am I gay, bi or straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (M) - is it gay to have a thoughts about a guy but also think abot girls all the time to or am i just looking to experiment. i feel a connection with him we even cuddle every time were alone. but on the flip side girls always shoot me down and friend zone ...

Am I giving him the wrong idea when we kiss and things? How do I tell him I want a serious commitment before I give him my v-card? How do I know he's the right one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - I want to lose my virginity, but I'm afraid. I love this guy but we're not together, ive known him for some years and we recently decided to start talking a few months ago. I knew from years ago that he was the one I wanted to lose it too, but I wa...

I just want to tell him I have a crush on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - Hey guys, so i've had a crush on this guy at school (im also a guy and i am gay) but the problem is i've never had an actual conversation with him. Im also pretty sure hes straight even though he hasn't had a girlfriend. My problem is that im sure ...

Is it normal to be scared of losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I don't really know why i'm scared of loosing my virginity. Is it normal for someone to be scared of loosing their virginity?. Or is it just me actin in accordance to my body's tone? I just need advice. Any comment will be appreciated. Thanks....

How do I approach and initiate a conversation and talk to my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (?) - Ok, let's just make this short. Well at least attempt to make it short?? I have a crush, I see him at breakfast everyday but I don't talk to him at all. I have no classes with him so what's the point. I find it weird if I were to do that, just go ...

Should I even bother trying to be friends with this guy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Helloo. c8 So, turns out I was kinda thrown into a situation. This male once-friend of mine (let's call him Tim) asked me to the dance, and I said no, because I had a boyfriend. I hadn't told him beforehand that I did, because I don't really car...

Why is He Sending Mixed Signals? Does He Like Me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Hey....That guy that asked me to homecoming? He's sending tons of mixed signals. I have no idea what to do. I overheard him talking to my friend that he's gonna ask me out to be his gf at homecoming, but idk anymore. He usually isn't on his phone, ...

My dad doesn't want me to date my boyfriend?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 20. I have been dating him for nearly a year and a half now but my parents never approved. My mom doesn't say much about the relationship but my dad is being stubborn and keeps comparing it to the past/bad ...

Crush admitted that he kissed me only because he was drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - Ok I've been in love with this guy for like 2 years but he's never gown that kind of interest in me, we're just close friends - we can talk about whatever- and sometimes we flirt a little but he flirts with everyone really, anyway we got drunk at a ...

Why do girls go out with swag kids who wear skinny jeans??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 September 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, too make a long story short, i am currently a senior in high school, and i have alot of pride in myself and high standards for myself, i stick out more then alot of other students at my high school, every guy wheres skinny jeans and ...

Boyfriend in the army and I miss him. Do these kind of relationships work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - Well the start of this month I met my boyfriend and started dating him.. I haven't seen him for three weeks. I'm so used to seeing guys that I date a lot. But I hardly see my boyfriend I'm not sure whether to feel fine to miss him or if I am stupid ...

How can you practice kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - Hey. :) So I have a serious issue. I got a date to homecoming and everyone keeps saying the guy is gonna kiss me. Problem is, I have no idea how to kiss. I've never had my first kiss and I'm not one to like practice bc how are you supposed to ...

Is it against the law to save photos from facebook?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - I have taken to saving pictures of girls in my class wearing bikinis from Facebook or Twitter. All I want to know is if it is first of all legal and secondly if its creepy to do so. I've never shown anyone this and nobody knows I do it. I am ...

He opened up to me, And now hes avoiding the subject!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Please bare with me. IM so confused and really need advice from everyone and anyone. I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months. We talked a few years ago as well but we lost contact due to an ex trying to sabotage us. Anyway, back to...

She asked him to cheat but I don't know what to think!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Im going out with a boy who'd ex is also one of my friends. He dumped her after a huge arguement and she recently told me that she still has feelings for him. Just a week ago she wanted to break up with her current boyfriend. She didnt want to do it ...

Date help needed: how do I ask a guy out via text?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Hi. I really need help. I want to ask a guy out (via text, I am too shy to ask him out properly) and I want something cute to say. How can I ask him?...

I don't want to be a third wheel but I don't want to tear their relationship apart either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (?) - So he rejected mean while back. He has a girlfriend now but their relationship is based on possessiveness. They have a strong rope around each others necks. He gives her so much but she doesnt do anything in return. Plus hes been having some ...

I want to lose my virginity but neither have a good place for it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - I am about 17 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like i am ready to have sex with him but i haven't discussed it with him. I feel scared that if he says no that things will become uncomfortable between us and ...

Is this a good idea to ask out a girl to homecoming?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

21 September 2013 (M) - Homecoming is just around the corner and I've been trying to figure out how I want to ask my girl. At my school you can simply just ask. It's got to be done is some special way. The girl I want to ask is a really good softball player and practices ...

Is giving up on my crush the only choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4079 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - I am In Love with a girl in about 3 years. I've tried to tell her my feelings but she refused. Few mouths ago, another boys is crushing on her, and it looks like giving up is my only choice, what should I Do?...

Is the guy I like playing hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - Hello! I really like this guy in my school. He recently found out about my depression I had before. This happened because my friends were just causally talking about it. My friend told her best guy friend which is best friends with the guy I like. I ...

Every time I try to talk to the boy I like he runs away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - so there is this boy i have liked for 5 years i think he is really cute.at school i told my best friend(girl) that i liked him she told him and now any time we walk pass each other he stops and stares at me anytime i walk by him and his friends they ...

How do I bring myself to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I can't get up the courage to ask this guy out somewhere. I guess I'm just scared of rejection. He's a super nice guy and I don't think he would embarrass me or anything, I just can't bring myself to do it. I have social anxiety which I think might ...

Girls think I'm gay because its football season and I don't want to be involved

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

16 September 2013 (M) - all the girls at my school think im gay because they ask me out i say no because its football season theyd get in the way how do i prove im strait. or am i just to in to football and need to get girlfriend. ...

My mother thinks I should use birth control but I disagree

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - Well my mom saw my bf just yesterday but she has frequently heard about him and i that we dating. Today on the radio they were talking about how parents should oversee how their children behave. she brought the issue of taking birth control pills. ...

I have a crush on my teacher, told my friend who told her family. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - I can't tell my friends about anything. I told one of my friends about a crush recently.....she told her entire family. My secrets have gone viral. The trouble is, her family know who I am crushing on....they could tell him ANY MINUTE now! I am so ...

he has a girlfriend who's gorgeous while I'm the ugly loner nerd

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4085 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - My crush go way back from 3rd grade and I like him I know he likes me back cause he flirts with me and won't let anyone ask out oh yeah he's part of the "cool kids" club and me a loner and nerd so basically he has a girlfriend and he was kind ...

How to tell a guy that you want a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I went to a party with a friend, where I was able to meet this guy. We spoke a bit at the party but we didn't flirt. Throughout the entire night, I was attempting to set him up with my friend by trying to initiate in conversation and get them ...

Any cute ideas on how to ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I really like this guy who is 2 years younger (hes 15 im 17) and I think I am gonna ask him out. :) he's a total nerd and I find it stinkin adorable! Think like lenard from big bang theory (if you know the tv show) he's a lot like that. He's short ...

Are we seeing too much of each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4086 days ago

12 September 2013 (M) - I think my girlfriend and I have been seeing too much of each other. We got together at the beginning of the summer and it was great all summer. We didn't get to see each other that often but we texted/talked constantly. Our conversations were ...

I've fallen for him now but it seems he is no interested in me or not wanting to be my friend. Please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - A guy blocked me because he said i wasn't in love with him which was true i called him several times but to no respond, i then sent him an sms he called later saying "lets be real, i was faking, so were u, lets just be friends'. We were friends, i ...

Does he like me or did I misinterpret his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - We go to the same school but we met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks.I'm 17 he's 15.We started talking the first day and before I knew it we became close and he was constantly/a lot of the time around me.A couple of examples(all ...

Do you think that me having a low self esteem is giving off a bad vibe to guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I have never had a boyfriend, never had a guy ask me out, and have been rejected by every guy that I end up liking. All of my friends have had boyfriends except me, and I feel left out. To top it all off, the guy I currently like doesn't ...

I found out he has a girlfriend. Should I confront him or see if he'll admit to it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - about a month ago i met this guy who is 20 and i am 17. we got really well, having the same intrests and all that. so we saw each other a few times but then last weekend he had something to do which i know was true. but since then our texting and ...

Does he like me or sees me as just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - He's the outgoing and pretty nice type with everyone.And touchy too.We met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks, though we go to the same school.I still don't know him that well, but I heard from others he treats girls in a pretty flirty ...

I am feeling very sexually frustrated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 September 2013 (M) - About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend gave me my first blow job. It was great and all but I find that now I am very sexually frustrated. I get turned on a lot and long for her to do it again. But this isn't like the normal horny where you can just go ...

Broke up with ex 4 months ago and still not completely over him. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - I was with my ex for 5-6 months, are relationship was dysfunctional and based pretty much on lies, and even though it was absolutely terrible, i'm still ashamed to admit I am not %100 over him. We have been apart fo...

I'm terrified that I'm going to come off the wrong way or say the wrong thing and someone won't like me. I know it's silly and that not everyone in the world is going to like you but I just worry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - Here's the thing; I'm not exactly what you would call a social butterfly. I am however more like the caterpillar in its cocoon that evolves into a butterfly. By that I mean I'm very shy, but once I am friends with someone, I can talk and talk for ...

Asexual or not, either way help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - I am about to turn eighteen and have been questioning my sexuality for awhile now. I have had only 3 relationships in my life, one i am currently engaged in, and the previous two have ended because i showed no intent on a sexual relationship with ...

How do I know if she wants to hang out every weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

8 September 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I started dating at the beginning of the summer. At that point we were hanging out as often as we could because between our schedules we were only free every couple weeks. Now that school has started again I see her everyday. So ...

Friendship turned sour after our forbidden secret got out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I have a load of regrets. I do a lot of things that I think'll beay.So here we go, problem one: I had/have this friend (let's call him O) who I have gotten pretty close with, and he isn't really the most trustworthy person. But I trusted him. Now if ...

An unexpected crush on my teacher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I don't know how to start but this is my problem. I have a crush on my teacher and I know it's really creepy. (I don't want to but it just happened). Our age gap is seven years. And if you categorize me to stereotypes, I belong at Emo kids, (those...

Is the guy I like gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I think the guy I like is gay. But I don't think he even knows it yet. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing wrong with gay people, but I have this habit it finding/falling for gay guys and I would rather that not be the case with this guy. I have ...

Slept with my best friend's brother -- do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - Okay I'll tell the story: My best friend of 12yrs invited me 2 stay with her while her parents where on a 'romantic break for 2'they wer cool with it and all. I have also known her older brother 12yrs aswell and I'd say we were friends. Anyway m...

I feel like we're not trying as hard as we were at the start of the relationship and I'm worried things will fizzle out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) - You know that saying "Don't stop doing what you did to get her when you finally get her?" I feel like that's what has happened and I'm struggling to fix it. My girlfriend and I started dating at the beginning of the summer and it was great all ...

I've fallen for my best friend's boyfriend. She treats him horribly and he wants to leave her for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - My best friend got her first boyfriend 5 weeks ago. And, unfortunately in that d weeks I've fallen for him.... Not on purpose though! We've been best friend for 10 years but she always made me feel worthless, she treat me like a slave and talked ...

My girlfriend acts more sexual than she is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) - One of my girlfriend's friends is the type of person that likes to sleep around a lot. Every weekend she usually hooks up with someone. When I hear my girlfriend talk to her about it, my gf always seems so happy/proud of her and that it is a normal ...

Am I just someone she wants to talk to? Does she like me? Any ideas of what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) - There is this girl who I have known for a while and we have become pretty close over the last few weeks. We have been fooling around (joking around) with each other during lunch lately. She seems to make any excuse to make some contact with me. She ...

Teenage love, I learned he's a boy whore but that doesn't seem to stop me from loving him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - hi I am a 18 year old girl. I have this problem with this boy. A boy and were talking for a long time kinda on and off, I let people know I was talking to him so everybody wanted to see what he looked like. come to find out he started talking to ...