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writes: Ok, let's just make this short. Well at least attempt to make it short?? I have a crush, I see him at breakfast everyday but I don't talk to him at all. I have no classes with him so what's the point. I find it weird if I were to do that, just go up to him and say "hey" it's pointless because I don't have him for any classes so what's my purpose? I see him when I go to 2nd period and maybe everyday we make eye contact. I know that's not a lot but it is for me, I'm a weenie and can't go up to him so that's probably the farthest I'd get xD and I see him when I go to 5th, when I go to 7th, and after school. My friend always tells me to tell him hey but like I said I'm a weenie. My other friend also told me to pretend to drop a pen and call him to ask if it was his ?? That was the worst idea and I probably won't do it cx Any ideas or tips on how I can approach him or talk to him ? Thanks ??
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reader, SoManyQuestions01  +, writes (29 September 2013):
Drop off little hints here and there, don't make it too obvious. Act interested in him, and if he starts to respond, flirt a little, but not too much. You have to make yourself wanted by playing hard-to-get, but you can't play that game for too long. Basically the point I'm trying to get at is: Flirt with him, but don't come on too strong. Hope this helps, and good luck!
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reader, like I see it +, writes (29 September 2013):
 You're right, trying to start a conversation beyond an exchange of "Hey"s in passing will be difficult when both of you are en route to separate classes.
Can you sit with him at breakfast, or have your group of friends sit with his group and strike up a conversation that way? A group would be ideal; you don't even have to talk to him directly the first time or two, especially if you don't know him well... you can listen to the conversation, participate generally without addressing him in particular, and try to pick out some of what his interests are. Then the next time you can bring one up and wait for him to start talking to you about it.
What about after school? You said you see him then as well. If it's because you're both staying after for the same sport or activity, there's your chance.
Be casual (I know it's hard!) and have fun! Good luck :)
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