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writes:We go to the same school but we met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks.I'm 17 he's 15.We started talking the first day and before I knew it we became close and he was constantly/a lot of the time around me.A couple of examples(all happened there): he would tickle me very often, play with me, sometimes hug me, a few times brought his face super close to mine, kissed my hand one night, touched my hair a couple of times, when in the sea he often tried to get me underwater and our bodies touched a lot, joked often with me, told me I'm beautiful and sexy a couple of times, that my opinion matters to him, lots of eye contact and smiling, would subtly and not so subtly ask what I think about him(his looks and if he annoys me,if I talk to him just because he comes to me).Asked how my love life is a couple of days after we met(he said he asks everyone this,but he didn't other girls in the group) and I didn't answer him and he asked again the next day.He also let me sleep on his chest/shoulder while we were returning home.Everyone there thought he likes/is in love with me due to the huge amount of attention he gave me and and would tease him about it would sometimes confront him in public about it to which he almost always said 'It's not true,I like her as a friend only'' and I would say ''I don't care it's not my problem anyways''.I heard he tends to play with girls like grab their chin/cheeks and play with their hair and I saw him do this sometimes to some girls in our group.But he did similar things to our teacher too and they are related.He says he's a pretty physically touchy guy with people, especially girls(that's his nature) and he's outgoing and nice.After the camp ended he called me one day later and since then he usually contacted me weekly through calls or text.One week after we ended hanging out in the park because he asked if he can join me.He tickled me a couple of times but otherwise it was casual.Then I left for 3 weeks during which I saw he contacted me and we talked again after I returned which was a couple days ago.If we are just friends why didn't he talk at all to other girls from our group with whom he got along(he has all their numbers just like me)?He's pretty busy daily with extracurricular activities(it's the last week of break here) so if he still contacts me I guess I do cross his mind.Was he just friendly all along(like he claims we are friends only)?
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (12 September 2013):
 Only one person knows the answer to this and that's him.
It sounds like he likes you but I only have your opinion on his behaviour towards you compared with the other girls (and I mean that nicely)
You say he asked you a couple of times about your love life but you didn't reply. This might be the problem. He was clearly trying to find out (in my opinion) if you had a boyfriend or were "into" someone but you didn't respond.
He might want to ask you out but perhaps thinks you'll say no if you have a boyfriend.
If you really like this guy, and I think you do, then maybe you should ask him about his love life, ask him if he's seeing anyone! Hopefully you'll get the answer you want and he'll know you're interested in in him.
If he is hooked up already then you can pretend that you were only showing friendly interest.
I hope it works out for you and this advice helps AB x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2013): There's no doubt he's into you- other than the fact he's making it so obvious that everyone can tell it, he STILL regularly contacts you I.e chasing you, even when he's really busy! I'm sure he thinks you're more gorgeous than you know and is sh** scared of rejection... You say he's outgoing but believe me however confident someone can seem on the surface, it's often the case it's just an act... EVERYONE fears rejection, and you wouldn't believe how much so some seemingly confident people do... He seems really into you... If he wasnt contacting you I would say it's likely just physical. But ya obviously reckon him right? So go for it! He's likely intimidated as I say! Play things cool, be nice flirt and compliment him and lead up to asking him out :) There's always a possibility someone will say no... Even if they're really into you. If so it's not you! Brush it off (though I would be very shocked of he did say no ;) ) GL! :) xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2013): I see youve posted on this other website, too (http://www.girlsaskguys.com/Relationships-Questions/890373-does-he-like-me-or-did-misinterpret-his-actions.html)
Maybe you should just ask him when you're next together??
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