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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Could this be true? My friend is trying to convince me that "yes, this guy does love me"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Alright so I have a slight problem. There is this guy that I really like... He and I have just met at the start of grade 10 and We've somehow become really close, we talk a lot, and we walk home together everyday, or when we can. Recently about two ...

Is she already interested in another? I like her. but now I feel lost and have a sickening feeling inside

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - ok, here is my problem. I started college just over a month ago and in my first week met a really attractive, smart girl who happened to be doing the same course as me. We exchanged phone numbers and got on really well together, often chatting f...

After everything why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I was messing around with a guy for about 11 months. He was actually my friend before it began. At the beginning he was sweet, complimented me and all that, but at the same time he was messing around with other girls. I wasn't tripping because he ...

I am really nervous when I talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I am really nervous when I talk to girls... For example when I take it seriously I am having panic attacks, and ? tremble in waves... When I am going for fun, just to say a girl I like her, I say it normally like talking to my best friend... How can ...

Does my friend have an abusice dad? Would I be abandoning her if I went to take my A levels at a new school or is that the best option?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I love my best friend, she's like my sister when we hang out but her parents are so controlling, I feel like she trapped. when we were little my friend discovered she had cancer, we were only about 5 at the time but i remember it very clearly,...

We have decided that we will go back out with each other in 2-3 years. Should I just move on now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Well me nd my bf (now ex) decided to break things off when his baby momma threatened to put him on child support if he didnt go back.And im only 16 and he is 21 so we decided it would benefit both of us if we waited a few years to go back out. Well ...

Solutions please to reduce panic attacks? old school? New school? Or other options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hey, yep its me again so thanks for taking the time to read my question. I haven't been at school for about a year now and now and my family and I are making the necessary changes for me to go back to school. Only problem is many schools round my...

I wouldn't act on it, but am I attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I'll get right to the point here... I'm 16 and have been talking to this girl of 13 for a few weeks. It is purely chit chat, the simple hello and few questions, but as of late I have been noticing myself staring at my phone waiting for her reply. Is ...

Worried about my sexuality!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I think i am bisexual or i could even be a lesbian. I do think i lean more to be bisexual as i do like men but as time has gone on ive been getting more and more put off them. The only problem is, i don't want to be bisexual...

I resent my boyfried for his past experiences!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and My Boyfriend, we love each other so much. We've been together for 7 gonna be 8 months. And we're extremely happy together. The thing is, maybe two years ago, he had sex multiple times with his ex let's say her name is C. A...

Does he have masturbation issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 16 and me and my boyfriend are very much in love and are seirous about our relationship. We haven't had sex but that not an issue, we'd both rather wait till we're older. He said that recently he's been sexually frustrated.- he feels horny all ...

What do I do about my needy boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend just over a year and throughout our relationship he has constantly acted possessive over me and everything that I do. He loves me too much and I don't think it's healthy for either of us. I know he's interested in wh...

I feel like he's flown off and I'm stuck on the ground

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - So, things are a mess with my ex. Help? I'm sorry if this is one huge ramble, I really need to let it all out somehow. I broke up with him at the start of July earlier this year. We'd been together a while, a year and a few months. Each other's ...

I'm not sure whats wrong, could I possibly be pregnant even though I'm on the needle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Uh, i have no clue how to put this. ill just try my best. Lately iv been feelings a bit weird. i feel like im going to vomit pretty much all day every day. I get full off like nothing pretty much, i pee millions of times. i havnt had sex sinc...

Is my proposed celibacy solution workable? And any tips on helping me get over this intense amount of regret/shame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I am 15 years old. I have given two guys bjs, and I am soooo ashamed. I regret all of it, and i feel sick whenever i think about it. I feel like i am a bad kid. However, I am in a relationship right now (although he says he doesn't care about phys...

Mom knows! Isn't she in the wrong for listening to my B/f and I 'dirty talk'on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a while, and we're sexually active. We're both 16, it's legal, I'm on the pill and we use condoms. Until today, neither of us had issues with our parents because we just hadn't told them. Today, my mom saw that ...

Do other think this looks hot on guys? I think shaved legs on men are amazing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I saw a guy at the gym the other day with shaved legs and it looked amazing. He was on the treadmill and I was on the stationary bike, so he didn't see me but I couldn't keep my eyes off of his sexy legs. Is there any other females that like a man ...

Do I wait and see? How do I find out whether or not she is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - I feel I'm inaccurately reading signs she's giving off. I'm not sure whether she is playing hard to get or just isn't as interested as I am in her. How do I go about this? Do I approach her and ask her if she is into me? Do I wait and see how thi...

Does he seem interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - So i'm in this Film Club where we watched the movie "The Birds" by Alfred Hitchcock. While my best friend and I were waiting for this movie to start, my friend noticed the guy I like came in. I could not stop blushing! During the intermission, I wa...

We were good friends. Does she have a lot on her mind maybe, and just doesn't want to talk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have been best friends with my friend for almost a year now. We became really close really fast. We were inseparable and up until about a week ago i thought we still were. we texted every single day and talked on the phone almost every night. When...

Do I need to change my actions? Being nice to socially awkard boys is making them think I like them when I don't at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - So, at school, I try to be nice to everybody and I hate hurting people's feelings. I never gossip or talk behind people's backs. When there is someone sitting alone, I sit with them. If someone looks sad, I smile at them. But these habits are ...

Help! I don't want to lose my best friend over this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Okay so first off let me start by saying that my best friend has been dating her boyfriend for almost 4 years.. and they live together. So a few weeks ago her and this junior were flirting and stuff and they ended up having a thing.. her boyfriend ...

Hould I get back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last 17 months. Just yesterday I broke up with him because I felt I didn't love him enough. He has always loved me like crazy. In fact he was the one to initiate the relationship in the first place. He ...

It's been one month and a half and my ex has contacted me out of the blue - should I ignore it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Sorry it's long but... help? This guy would wipe my tears away and told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex, he's in it for long-term, and he'll wait for me for as long as it takes. We talked everyday. But then... two and a half mon...

How can I make my first time more comfortable for us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Okay lets get to the point: I'm a virgin and me and my long time boyfriend have decided to go ahead and have sex (he's a virgin too). We have almost done the 'dirty deed' but I'm a chicken. I'm scared. I don't really know of what, but I'm scared. ...

Help with OCD paper?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Hi! I'm a freshman in college and in my Psychology class I had to choose a topic for my paper. I chose OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)out of a list of similar topics. It has to be in APA format. Anyways I know what OCD is, but I have no idea on ...

To the eye, does this seem like flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I'm 19, a girl, and I'm gay. This other girl, she's also 19, I don't know if she's gay or not. I'm guessing that she's straight because she's a christian. That breaks my heart so I try not to think about that. Anyway, there's this guy (my goo...

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...

Is he worth the wait to date? He's 17. Or should I just move on? He only wants to talk about sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Ok so there's this guy, I've liked him for about 4 months. His name is X and we met at a battle of the bands back in January. In June we started texting and getting to know each other. (: He turned out to be a really sweet guy, and always said cute...

In love with my brother's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I know I am fifteen and am awfully young to be saying the L-word but I am being completely honest when I tell you this. I AM IN LOVE! Most people would think well thats nice she has a crush but in my case i havent told many people of my crush ...

Friend is making racist remarks and says I don't face reality! I am getting sick of him...am I right to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a friend who is a little older than me, his dad works with my dad and we have become quite good friends. Recently we have been spending a lot of time together and one night when our parents went out for a meal to discuss ...

Given these details, do you think my friend really likes me romantically?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Hey! Well, here's the deal! I really like one of my best friends...? He's really nice, lovely actually, and we have had some amazing times together... Sometimes i think he likes me too. There is a lot of flirting and messing around, annoying...

I need some help to cope with what's happening now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - PLEASE HELP! Okay, well I have been to the doctors about depression and they are just saying it's harmones but I am lower then average. I have used marijuana a few times to make me feel better and use it I don't have a lot. I don't smoke it ...

My girlfriend got into a fight and is afraid she will let me down by not maintaing her self control. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (M) - Last night I was talking to my girlfriend about maintaining her self control (she got into a fight a few days ago and has also hurt a few other people in her past as well). She tells me that she's afraid she can't maintain her self control and that ...

My boyfriend has a timing plan set out for when we should have sex but I'm worried I wont be ready by then!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - I am worried my boyfriend is going to get tired of waiting to have sex. We are both 16. Both capricorns ;) . I love him n he says he loves me but i know how fast feelings can change so far we have been together for 2 months but we have known ...

What to do to stop feeling so lonely? I haven't felt like I've done something fun for a long time. It's getting me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - It's been a while since I've had a good conversation, it's been a while since I was sure I'd make plans and they would actually follow through. It's been a while since I've had this feel as I've started college. Everyone in my class is 2 years yo...

How do I resume the conversation without seeming dull?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (M) - i am a 16 year old dude, and i have a problem. its not anything too serious, but it bothers me so i figure it cant hurt to ask for some help. theres a girl at school who i dont really know, and who ive wanted to talk to since the first day of school ...

A good friend of mine likes the same guy I do, and he asked me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I am in quite the predicament! i'm 15 years old, and me and my friend both like the same guy, M. My friend, T, doesn't know I like M, and I liked him for awhile before she told me she had liked him for a week. It made me miserable, knowing that ...

Will we get together? And if not what should I do about being his "bit on the side"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Me and an old friend have started talking a lot more like we use too. We did stop talking for a bit because we both was busy. we have been flirting like we use too, however he is 2years older than me and he has a girlfriend. I do enjoy spending time ...

First (proper) date. A kiss - yes or no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - Essentially, I met a girl a few weeks ago who I took to straight away. We text every day - pretty much all day (with a few exceptions). We've also been out for a drink (just the two of us) and even though I wouldn't have classed it as a date, I ...

I'm so ashamed and afraid that I have an STD!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - this summer i made a huge mistake. i hooked up with a guy and we both performed oral on each other. he didnt cum though. he had had a few oral sexual partners before, and had said he never showed any symptoms for stds. i have shown none as well but ...

Do I need to explain to her that it will not always be this way? She ends up paying too often. It's temporary.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - So, i'm a teenager, in full-time education. I run a band, and the Band is getting more and more popular by the second, and have just signed onto a label. Unfortunately, this actually means being really busy, and getting literally no money. However, ...

Am I jealous? Or wrong to feel this way? She took me shopping to find a present for her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - So, i'm in an AMAZING relationship with my girlfriend. She makes me happier than anything in the world. However, i get so upset about certain things. For example, she speaks about her ex alot. Like, "once we went to this place and it was grea...

I do have the confidence to ask a girl out. But do you think I sound likable to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I am very nice, really cool, strong, tough, funny, loyal, really sweet, a caring guy. I do have the confidence enough to ask out a girl. I'm not trying to rush in these things, when ever I meet a pretty girl I just smile and be nice. When I h...

Spiders? Heights? I have a Phobia of statues! Any solutions or people with my Statues phobia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Oh hey its me again! Just an odd little qeustion, i have automonophobia and i was just updating my profile and wondered "hmmm i wonder if anyone else has it." So i thought id ask some of you lovely lot and wheather anyone has it. ...

Two guys. Which one? how can I tell the other guy that I cannot talk to him anymore without hurting him and myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Okay so this may take a while. I am 18 years old and I have two guys who I have a lot of feelings for and at the moment I need to decide on one because I do not want to hurt them and date both at the same time. My first guy, (I will call him spri...

If he said no, why did he turn me down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - So a few weeks ago, I asked the guy I like if he wanted to go to this Haunted Factory with a group of my friends and myself but he said no :(. I've liked him for months now, and all of my friends and I were pretty sure he liked me back. We have ...

Which guy should I choose? I like them all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Okay so this is going to be long and I am really sorry for it. Okay so over the summer I ended up breaking u with my ex boyfriend, who is really sweet, kind and funny. I broke up with him because I was constantly mad around him and have no idea...

How can I start showing people who I really am and get to know girls better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I've been living with negative thoughts about myself and what other people think about me for a long time now. Heaps of people have said nice things but the negative stuff always overode this. For example, there are girls that have said this and ...

I like being happy but why do people at school say I'm retarded because I like to laugh?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I'm a very happy person that likes to smile and laugh and for most times no reason I can't help it, I love to laugh and smile. At school people be mean to me and say I'm retarded because I like to laugh and smile. They say I shouldnt be happy that ...