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writes:i am a 16 year old dude, and i have a problem. its not anything too serious, but it bothers me so i figure it cant hurt to ask for some help. theres a girl at school who i dont really know, and who ive wanted to talk to since the first day of school because i think she's cute, and she was wearing a SLAYER tshirt(im a huge SLAYER fan and ive never known any girl to like them). i havent even known her name until today when i found out that we had a friend in common. i added her on facebook and what have you, and had a pretty generic intro conversation type thing. it started off pretty cool, but by the end she would write back like a word or two, then she logged off. basically, it seemed to me like she lost interest pretty quickly. im really not sure how to continue to approach her in a way that isnt dull, because dull wont go anywhere. what should i do in order to resume conversation and not come across as boring/ successfully get her interested in me? thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Well at the end of the day you should never try and be anyone but yourself. Be honest, if you pretend to be someone else you will need to keep up that pretence and that will never work. She needs to be interested in you in order for this to work. Maybe she is just quiet and she wasn't sure how to answer you back. First conversations can always be a little awkward. It takes a while to get to know someone and for things to become comfortable, it is all part of getting to know someone. Ask her about herself, ask lots of questions so you can get to know her, talk about Slayer as you now know the both of you share that same interest. So that is a topic to talk about.
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