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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I'm six months pregnant but not sure who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Okay so before I start, I'm fully aware that I'm a terrible person for the things that I've done. I didn't come here to be judged, I just need advice. I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. In the past, when my boyfriend and I would break up or get into a r...

Husband doesn't please me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Hello! I have been married three years and I hate my sex life. Back in the days we used to have sex every day or so and I loved it- though i never orgasmed. Now I just got bored. Told my hubby I need oral to get off and he said it's not his thing. ...

I'm scared to touch him. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - After 6 months together, my boyfriend and I have already had sex, but I'm still afraid to touch his penis. He gently pushes me to try doing it, but doesn't force me. He will tell me I can't hurt him and he doesn't expect me to know exactly how to do ...

Girls, who do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Question for the girls. You have a choice to go out with one of two guys. One is gorgeous and you find him irresistable but for some reason, which we will leave to the side, he only wants passionate foreplay no penetration. The second guy is ok in ...

Should I get checked by doctor for any STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Please help me. The other day I was "hooking up" with this guy, but we didn't have sex (I'm a virgin). I was curious from never doing it before so I put his penis in my mouth and gave him a brief blowjob, only for a few seconds. I wasn't even ...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't p...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

How do I learn to fancy her again? I love her, I do, but I have stopped fancying her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I adore my girlfriend, we have been together two years and have had an extremely rocky relationship. She's lied numerous times, we have broken up but always ended up back together. We argue, like all couples at some point but my biggest problem ...

I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wier...

How can I talk to my Dad about masturbation? I am trying to give up masturbating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

28 December 2015 (M) - I am 15 and have been masturbating for maybe around a year and I ve really been trying to give it up. I feel really guilty and stressed and I wanna tell my dad but I feel like it would really change how he sees me, since we re pretty much bros I ...

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am ...

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has s...

Lost virginity may wreck upcoming marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I am from Nigeria. and i want to become a virgin again. I don't know if you can help me with what wil make me to become a virgin again? My wedding is coming up and don't want my husband to be mad at me. Please do help me. I do want your reply as ...

Is paying for sex the best option, when a guy is 25 year old virgin, and has a porn addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I have a porn addiction. I watch it everyday, multiple times a day, and of course masturbate like crazy. It becomes a compulsive need to get home from work, or any social gathering and start looking up ...

Online guy is making me confused. I had an accident and I believe he thinks I was lying about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - hi everyone, first thanks for reading my post and marry Christmas and new year. I am trying my luck online dating. it's almost year ago I met a guy through online. we really like each other.But when I told him I don't want sex before marriage h...

Our plans to make friends are attracting the wrong people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - hello dear Cupid my problem is this I just recently graduated from high school and I saved up some money so that I can move in with a friend. we both moved to a college town and we plan to take one year of just working so we can find ourselves ...

Why would a girl ask me if I was gay if I prefer cuddling to penetrative sex? I do have some ED.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

24 December 2015 (M) - I pick up girls quite often. I'm not interested in penetration only cuddling etc(also a bit of ED, but never had much interest in sex). I explain this to them beforehand of course and never was rejected because of it. The girls still seem to enjoy...

My online friend always manages to bring sex toy talk into the conversation. Its beginning to make me feel uncomfortable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I recently joined an online dating forum and have been chatting to a few people including new female friends which is great. The options on the forum in terms of what members are looking for are as follows: Serious relationship, fr...

My girlfriend suddenly wants sex all the time and I can't handle it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years, and we have had a pretty healthy sex life, we used to have it like 3 times a day, but since we have actually gotten serious into the relationship, I don't need it as much, I so we have it like once a ...

What do I do? Find a passionate partner? Or go for a comfortable existence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - I'm in real trouble, I'm in my mid twenties now and final year of uni, I have a brilliant girlfriend of a year and a half. She's really nice and clever, come from a great family very well raised. We would have a brilliant life together if we ever ...

Could you cure an STD without knowing it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Is it possible that you have cured you chlamidya (std) without knowing? so if you had caught Chlamidya and you didnt know you had it and took antibiotics for another reason such as a sore throat, would your STD also go away?...

Can differences in libido be addressed? How? Will these differences affect out relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

21 December 2015 (M) - how important do you think it is to be sexually compatible? i am a very sexual person and my girlfriend seems to occupy the space at the other end of the spectrum my attempts to address this divide almost always leads to fights. iv told her that...

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3264 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He...

We have started living together and I am scared she feels trapped!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

20 December 2015 (M) - Every time I try and initiate sex with my girlfriend at the moment she turns me down, and on the rare occasions we do have sex I feel like a prick and that I've pressured her into it. She says it's ok and I shouldn't feel bad about it- that it's jus...

Should I step back or crack on and see how we go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been seeing my ex for about 3 months now after splitting up in 2008. It was me that ended the relationship as I felt we'd grown apart and wanted different things out of life. We got chatting a good few months ago whilst in th...

I can't imagine trusting someone enough to have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, a virgin, and I believe myself to be somewhere on the asexual spectrum. I have what I believe is a low sex drive compared to what I've heard from my friends. I think at some point I'd like to have sex but honestly it really doesn't matter to ...

Am I a sexual interest or a potential friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

19 December 2015 (M) - There is this married young lady who quite recently joined our workforce. From the first day she's been very friendly with me. I only work some of the day there as I go out every day to other places to do work. When I am in the area with her, our ...

What does it mean when a woman rubs herself during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

18 December 2015 (M) - This is weird. Anyway i just want to understand what it really means when your (a man) having sex with a woman and she rubs on her clit, does that mean u are not pleasuring her the right way so she has to do it herself, to reach organism.. ? No i ...

My boyfriend suggested an open relationship

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - Hi I'm a 22 and so is my boyfriend. One year ago, at the beginning of our relationship I felt loved, wanted and I trusted him. I loved giving bjs, he loved receiving them and we had sex several times a day. Now it's a bit different. He...

I'd like some tips on how to make our MFM amazing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - Me and my gf arranged theeesome with another guy our age, she can be naughty at times. Any advice? We have been together three years and a friend is going to join in. It really turns me on involving another guy. Any tips to make it amazing? I'm 25 ...

The lack of sex in our relationship is taking a toll

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - I am a man in my early 40s in a long term relationship that I have been in for 20 years. We have 2 children, 1 mid and 1 late teens. After the birth of our second child my partner developed a physical problem which meant that sex was painful....

Feeling shattered. Two days ago I saw my wife cheating with another man. What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

16 December 2015 (M) - I caught my wife having sex with another man. She says it was the first time she did this, but she did him with me just 30 feet away and right out in the open when i saw them. He says it was flirting that got out of hand. She says she don't...

I think I'm so bad at sex that I should consult a sex therapist or sex coach! Is it worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid It's embarrassing to even say it but i completely suck when it comes to sex, I can't do anything. Had two long relationship, one with ex bf who didn't care much and we hardly had any and everytime I just lie down and he will do his job ...

Thinking about going to a sex therapist, or sex counsellor. Will it work? Is it worth this effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3270 days ago

I have a feeling my girfriend might be cheating. Should I break up with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - I want to know if my girlfriend of six months is cheating or not. At first, she was all chatty and flirty and quite honestly, all over me. But then she would back off real quick and make some excuse to go home or cut off the date. When I asked if...

Is my Bf's technique the cause of the pain I feel after sex? What needs to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3270 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - When my partner uses his finger (we don't use toys or penis) on me, even when I'm really lubricated and it feels good, it sometimes feels a little torn when I use the bathroom once or twice in the few hours after. It doesn't usually hurt during, ...

Is it bad for me to get mad with him? Or am I justified in feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3266 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my daughters dad for three years. We've had our ups and downs but have managed to stay together for the most part. Well, in July and August we separated due to him being really different so I packed up and left. We were still being ...

Refractory period last for too long, anybody has the same experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3271 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Thi is not a new thing. My husband has always had a long refractory period. The minimum is about 24h. We met in mid-20's and now are in our forties. We're both in good shape, eat well, exercise, still love each other and are very much attracted to ...

Can anyone tell me if my equipment is too small?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

14 December 2015 (M) - I've recently become a little insecure about the dimensions of my penis. Due to various circumstances, I've never been in a committed relationship. Recently however, I had a fling with a female acquaintance who shared with me her very honest ...

He wants more sex but I'm exhausted

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Hi all - I need advice. How often do happy couples have sex? I am in an on again off again relationship with a guy for 3 years. We just got back together in late October - early Nov. Within the last 3 weeks, he brought up that he wants more sex...

How can I get experience when everything seems against me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3271 days ago

14 December 2015 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I've never been on a date. I'm don't have a particularly attractive face, I'm overweight and bald, and I'm an awkward quiet nerd. I was recently talking a girl that I was interested in pursuing a re...

What would be the reason I cannot orgasm with my girlfriend, when previously I could orgasm with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3272 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend (I'm a lesbian) and I haven't had an orgasm while I've been with her but I had them with my ex. I miss having orgasms what should I do? ...

Might it be possible for him to be friends with me again? Or did my cousin say something to upset him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - So in July of 2013 I started working at this new place. And well I became friends with one of my co-workers. He had a family (girlfriend, and 2 kids with a 3rd on the way) well I fell for him. And he knew I liked him. I ended up losing my virgin...

Six months ago my wife started rejecting me sexually. What's going on? Now she masterbates multiple times a weeek

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

13 December 2015 (M) - We have been married twenty year and always had a good sex life so my wife says. Then six months ago she rejected my advances, and started masturbating next to me in bed at night when she thinks I am a sleep. She has always made plenty of no...

Without foreplay I feel pain if my husband attempts intercourse without foreplay. How can I make him understand? I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - I am recently married to my boyfriend of 10 years. We never had sex in these years,only physical intimacy/foreplay. now after marriage he just wants sex, he cant wait for 15-20 minutes of foreplay before sex. foreplay is important to me because ...

Does he just like me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - A few weeks ago, I met this guy and we really hit it off. Great conversation, playful flirting, consistent communication. Had an amazing date, had sex on the first date because we simply couldn't keep our hands off each other. Chemistry off the ...

My boyfriend mentioned an FFM as a 'passing thought' and now I'm worried he's tired of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

12 December 2015 (F) - Just trying to understand where my boyfriend is coming from. When he came to see me yesterday he was mentioning seeing two women together. How he was thinking about why men would find it appealing. He said that men like to see women climax. An...

How do I address the lack of sex and intimacy in our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

11 December 2015 (M) - So I am living in a situation and I will give as much detail as possible so everyone will know how to address it and thank you beforehand I will appreciate the advice. Me and my wife have been married for almost 4 years in fact it will be 4 yea...

Do breasts get bigger by being touched?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - hi....last time i went for a date with my boyfriend and while kissing he alys touches my brest and now i feels like my brest getting bigger so does the brest become bigger when touched?...