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writes:I am from Nigeria. and i want to become a virgin again. I don't know if you can help me with what wil make me to become a virgin again? My wedding is coming up and don't want my husband to be mad at me. Please do help me. I do want your reply as soon as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2015): Fooling a man about who he is marrying is morally wrong. The rest of you may not agree with his priorities. But he is not choosing your spouse for you, he is choosing his own for himself. His life. The only one he gets. Yeah, I know, we are only talking about fooling a MAN WHO CARES ABOUT VIRIGINITY. It's not like this is a real person worthy of basic human rights or anything. But it's still wrong.
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (28 December 2015):
Awesome advice below from female anon on how to begin your marriage on the firm footing of deception ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2015): I wouldnt worry too much about the virginity aspect...if you just lie there like a cold fish and complain if he trries to lift your legs or alter your position he will be getting the same ride.Also if you stay silent throughout the sexand say nothing that could not be consrued as lady like.Finally if you look in horror at his manhood and mutter about it being too big and how it will never fit up there and regretfully moan "Oh mamma , why didnt you warn me about the size of this goddam monster."That should give him a good startup.If he is busy fingering your hymen in the hope that he is a hymen examiner you might as well be aware that he cant tell much unless he's been regularly inspecting vaginas of virgins and if he has you need to know why no one has called the police on his activities and expertise.To remind him of your virginal fragility you had better complain and say it hurt and he scratched you with his finger.I wont give you the full version of how to reprovide the evidence of an untainted virgina and hymen because you are not holding up the sheets for public scrutiny and peace and honour of nations doesnt depend upon the display of a drop of blood and a gush of semen.If he just wants a blow job give him a very unsophisticated version.Be worried you"ll break it and be ignorant of the sensitive spots.If he just rips your clothes off in a burst of lustful passion you had better be a little shocked..yet again.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (28 December 2015):
There are just some things that cannot be undone. This is one of them ...
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reader, Garbo +, writes (27 December 2015):
 You cannot become virgin again. Once your hymen is torn, it's done and there is no going back. In some Mudlim states, doctors perform operations to restore the hymen but it's inconclusive how successful and safe that procedure is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2015): Im so sorry, but you can only become virgin again with surgery, if that,s the part you mean.
Im sorry I cannot help you more than that, but maybe, assuming your soon-to-be-husband wont look directly at that place, I guess you could, uhm, try to make it feel as if it were difficult to "enter"? Im not really sure how to explain it... I dont know how to explain it well, but I really hope everything goes good and better in your weeding!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2015): Oh Honey, I'm so sorry that no one informed you or misinformed you: no one can become a virgin again. Before you panic, I want to be clear on what you did that says you lost your virginity. I am not trying to insult uour intelligence, but I wonder what you mean by virginity. Did you have penis in vagina sex? Was this with your future husband? Or, did someone force himself on you (rape?) If thats the case, I am terribly sorry for you. Its awful to think your future husband and family would reject or punish you. If he doesnt know, I would not tell him. I would confide in a female nurse, doctor, or religious leader
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