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anonymous
writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years, and we have had a pretty healthy sex life, we used to have it like 3 times a day, but since we have actually gotten serious into the relationship, I don't need it as much, I so we have it like once a day now. Anyways, my girlfriend has been dealing with some crazy issues with her sister, and it's taking a huge toll on her, but instead of talking it out, she has became insatiable, ALWAYS wanting sex now. Everytime she sees me it's like we have to have sex now, and I have to work, so working and having sex with her 4 times a day is really wearing me out. It was fun when we had sex just that one time a day, but she has totally sucked the fun out of it, because everytime I come in the house, bam, she wants it, and wants it, and wants it. Now I like sex but I really think this is unhealthy and I want her to actually talk to me so we can work this out, and this can be over. She's also become too kinky, I'm like twice her size, so I'm not gonna choke her, or spit on her or pee on her or any crazy degrading thing like that. I just need help on how to break her down so we can move on from this phase
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 December 2015):
 Well, anonymous female, here's an open invitation to come visit me, any time you are feeling stressful!!!! P.S. It's warm, here in Florida, these days!!!!!
S.O.G.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2015): sageoldguy I suggested that because I'm like that myself! I found it very helpful when I'm under stress but I don't have a high sex drive. lol So people like me do exist!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 December 2015):
To the anonymous female who is listed just below me:
I have lived my ENTIRE LIFE trying to find a woman who dispels her stress by having nik-nik. Heck, I'd be quite content to find a woman who is content to have nik-nik because there is oxygen in the air!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2015): She might be under stress and is dealing with it by having sex. You should talk to her and if that's the reason for her sudden change you both may find another ways that can help her manage her stress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2015): Do you know how many men would love to trade places with you? Have this "problem?"
You poor baby! Lol
I'd be worried if I couldn't keep up to my partner's sex drive that they be looking to dump me sooner rather than later. Ever thought of that??
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 December 2015):
You write: "...but since we have actually gotten serious into the relationship, I don't need it as much..."
HOW IRONIC IS THAT?????? SHE busted her ass.... not to mention that she sold her integrity.... to "land" you... and NOW.... you are content to let her stew in the results of her successful endeavor....
Go to your room and think about this for a while....
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (23 December 2015):
 You know, usually it is men who have the more kinky insatiable appetite, and we just have to deal, occasionally put out more than we feel like.
I suggest you talk about this with her. Come to a compromise. If you stay together there will need to be a balance of when she wants it, and you say no, and when she wants it, and even though you don't feel like it you go ahead.
If you want that is. It is your body, your choice.
If you are now sexually incompatible you may want to split up.
This may pass and the tables may turn
Let the chick know how you feel. Maybe she is doing it because she thinks you will like it, due to misinformation. Let her know kindly.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (23 December 2015):
This is a very diffcult situation for you to deal with,without your girlfriend feeling rejected.However there is 2 people in a relationship and each must respect the others feelings [i am referring to your girlfriend]Because of her problems with her sister[as you stated they were taking a toll on your girlfriend,[1] She maybe be using sex as an escape-whatever issues shes deadling with her sister may have an effect on her-whatever they are.At this point would you consider asking her to go to see a counsellor because i feel you will need all the help you can get at this stageOn the other hand sexuals encounters has to be adgreed on both sides.Kind regards NORA B.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 December 2015):
 The best thing that you can do is be honest with her. It sounds to me like she is using sex as a way to forget about her problems, but that is not fair on either off you.
You need to tell her the truth. Tell her that it is to much and encourage her to open up to you about her problems. Also when it comes to kinky things, just be straight with her and tell her no if there is something you don't want to do.
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