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36-40,
*lue_warrior
writes:I've recently become a little insecure about the dimensions of my penis. Due to various circumstances, I've never been in a committed relationship. Recently however, I had a fling with a female acquaintance who shared with me her very honest assessment of my penis. Although she had no complaints about my length, she did say that my girth left her feeling somewhat dissappointed. My penis is almost 7 inches long but its greater than average length is offset by a circumference that measures only 5 inches. Assuming that I'm ever fortunate enough to be in a real relationship, would I be able to satisfy my partner with my penis? Or is it simply too thin for your average lady? Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2015): I hope you are not trying to seduce the DC aunts by advertising for your size which happens to be the dream size for most women. It is statistically proven that Average size for the Caucasian male is between 5.5 to 6 inches, and since most women say they prefer it a little above that, that puts you in the ideal size position. What else do you want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2015): What a horrible thing to say to a man. It's along the same lines of telling a woman her breasts are too small or some part of her body not good enough. I really sometimes am quite shocked by what people say to each other. Regardless of whether this was just a fling or not, she had no business criticising ANY part of your body.And believe me when i say 7 inches and the girth which you have when erect is MORE than enough. I actually had a boyfriend who had a very large penis, probably 10-11 inches and sex was very often painful, I constantly had problems, infections and soreness. The relationship didn't last long, although his penis size was not the main reason it ended! My now long-term partner is probably slightly smaller than you, but we fit together perfectly and our chemistry is off the scale. I am actually vaginally orgasmic and he seems to to hit my g-spot every time. You are probably above average according to stats and regardless of exact measurements, you will meet someone who will love you and your penis and you will be a perfect fit together in other ways too. Please forget what this horrid woman said and let her go!
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reader, blue_warrior +, writes (15 December 2015):
blue_warrior is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses, everyone. I feel a lot more enlightened now where my knowledge of female sexual satisfaction is concerned. It's also a relief to know that my penis isn't excessively slender. As for why the lady in question decided to reveal her true sentiments concerning my penis, let's just say that she tends to be the very frank sort who dosen't believe in mincing her words.
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female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (14 December 2015):
 And one more P.S. based on your age: porn is NOT an accurate representation of how women enjoy sex. So dismiss that from your self assessment.
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 December 2015):
Your size is perfectly normal.
Please be advised that your average woman's sexual pleasure isn't reached through penile stimulation. She doesn't have a penis, she has a clitoris, which is "wired" like your penis.
Her vagina is not an inside-out penis.
Your question "would I be able to satisfy my partner with my penis?" indicates that you really haven't researched female sexual response in a way that will bring you or your future sexual partner sexual satisfaction.
Here's a way to explain it to you so that you might grasp the intricacies of the female anatomy:
Will you be able to reach orgasm if it was only your scrotum being touched or otherwise stimulated? As in, your penis was being completely ignored other than the random bumps or touches you might experience during the scrotum stimulation.
That you'd be expected to reach orgasm through only your scrotum is a bit of a reach, no?
So, just to complete this analogy, for most women, having only vaginal stimulation is the equivalent of only scrotal stimulation.
You wouldn't want to have your penis ignored and marginalized and taken as an afterthought.
So your penis is the center of your sexual response. I know.
But for the majority of women, the vagina is NOT the center of sexual response.
The center of her sexual response will be up to her to find and convey to you, and in the majority of cases, it will involve her clitoris.
So your penis size, which is perfectly normal, doesn't matter to your average lady. What matters to the average lady is the attention paid to her individual sexual necessities.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 December 2015):
 First, that woman you were with should NEVER have said that. Now all the women you meet and date will have an impossible task of trying to convince your penis is fine. But I guess you nagged her into telling you? Because I can't otherwise understand why she'd "share" this information.
Your size is fine!
But you're probably not going to believe me anyway now, are you?
Womens vagina's are just as different as mens' penises. No one vagina is the same size or shape! You might be too large in girth for the next woman you meet. Or just right. That aside, if you want to pleasure a woman sexually you don't use your penis at all. You use your tongue and fingers on her CLITORIS. The clitoris is equivalent to the head of the penis. The vagina is... less interesting. Sure it can feel great to have intercourse, but it's not going to make us orgasm. Just like I am sure you enjoy cuddling with your balls, but that's not really the way to go if you're trying to reach an orgasm.
Lastly, use GOOGLE! The topic of penis size has been well researched and studies have been conducted time and time again. You'll find statistics there for everything relating to the penis.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 December 2015):
 Average penis girth is 3.67 inches flaccid, 4.59 erect. These figures come out of a research done by King's College in London collecting and comparing the results of 17 studies for a total of over 15000 partecipants.
You are totally normal and very adequately equipped.
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