New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2014, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (3), 2 (2), 3 (6), 4 (2), 5 (5), 6 (1), 7 (2), 9 (3), 10 (3), 11 (2),
12 (2), 15 (2), 16 (2), 17 (1), 18 (3), 19 (2), 20 (1), 22 (1), 23 (1), 24 (3),
25 (2), 26 (2), 27 (4), 28 (2), 29 (3), 30 (2), 31 (2),

Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

He broke things off since he was falling for me and now I might be pregnant! How do I handle this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Hey so I'm 19 and I recently lost my virginity to a 28 year old anyway we were sort of together with no labels for two and a half months. He decided to block and delete me out of his life as he was "falling" for me I know I was used worst thing is ...

My girlfriend defecates during sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my current girlfriend for over 2 years and ever since the beginning she has had a problem during sex. It doesn't matter what position we try, each time during intercourse she poos. I've asked her if she is doing i...

Why do guys string along lots of women at once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi, Why do guys string along lots of women at once? I know this middle aged guy who's about to get married (to his dying fiancé) and has kids, and he has loads of women adoring him at work and is sleeping with many women from work. He's n...

Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender? Will you completely forget or not realize it happened the next day? I feel guilty a tipsy friend came on to me hard. I had zero intentions of having sex with her but it happened. I felt ...

Does my FWB want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Let me start from the beginning, I signed up for a dating site, decided after a few days it wasn't my thing. I later found a message on FB from a guy who found me on the dating site. He said my profile disappeared, so he Googled my email address. WE ...

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant,...

She lied and said she wasn't a virgin. Now that I know she is one, I feel like I can't trust her if she would lie about something that big!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

29 March 2014 (M) - Can I be annoyed at this girl I've just started to date for lying to me about something big like this. She says she did it to protect herself, but I feel insulted she judged me to be like those guys... We got to talking and I asked her how ma...

My boyfriend seems to be touching himself while he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Sometimes when I sleep over at my boyfriend's place and we sleep in the same bed, I think he touches himself or masturbates otherwise while he probably thinks I'm asleep. It somewhat makes me uncomfortable, because it's like "hey I'm RIGHT HERE!!" ...

My boyfriend seems more interested in crossdressing than in me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 2 years and we had sex every day then everything stopped and nothing happened negative between us. I was shocked and beyond upset one day I found erotic pictures of him dressed completely as a woman. He started ...

He's a healthy man of 21 so why is he having erectile dysfunction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We were originally in a semi-long-distance relationship (we'd spend about a third of the year in the same town) but I moved in with him about 6 weeks ago. We've been having sex for over ...

Can I never trust a guy after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. In January I met a guy in Facebook and we both started chatting. After few days of chatting we both exchanged our contact number and he started calling me. After few weeks we decided to meet at one of his friends home. We both wer...

Difficulty ejaculating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

27 March 2014 (M) - So I've had a real issue with ejaculating during any sort of sexual activity with a partner throughout my whole life. I can ejaculate eventually, but it just seems to take a long time (1hr+). For the longest time I was pretty happy about it, I can ...

Should I have unprotected sex to please my guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please can you give me advice - my boyfriend and I have a great relationship, however he now wishes to make love without using condoms. I am not happy with this, as by his own admission he slept with a lot of women in the past . I just want our...

I want a child and can't gamble more time on dating and ending up alone. Should I have a baby with this guy even though he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - I have been sleeping with a guy from work he is 32 years old and I am 38. and it just keeps going on and on and he says that he doesn't not want a relationship and he cannot be my boyfriend yet we spend weekends together and I go to his parents for ...

Sex when on my period?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend won't have sex with me when I am on my period. It's nothing to worry about to have sex on my period - what should I do??? ...

Why couldn't he perform?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

25 March 2014 (?) - I lost my virginity tonight, it wasn't what I thought it'd be like, the guy was drunk. We did it for a little bit and then he started talking just about random stuff and we were just laying there not doing anything. He started falling asleep. When i ...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

It's the perfect relationship, except I don't orgasm easily except with oral, and he just doesn't like it. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship with the perfect man. He is very respectful, sweet, caring, treats me like i am a queen. He is successful, has his head on straight, independent, and I trust him with my world. And of course I am extremely physically attracted ...

Does sex always have to be with someone special?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - Hey, people!!!! Haven't been on here for some time! You seriously can't understand how bored i was. anyway, i've gotta question that's not a problem, but it'd be nice to have some opinions. so basically, my friends and i were having an argument...

I dreamt I slept with my boss. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - My boss is a little bit younger than I am. Before she was promoted we were peers. We get along very well at work and she leans on me heavily since she is a new manager and I am more experienced. I have always been attracted to her but I have kep...

If you don't have dating/sexual experience do you fake it till you make it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - If I don't have any sexual experience, how do I go about in my everyday life meeting girls, faking it til I make it? I see plenty of guts out in bars doing it all the time. It's about time I get in on the action while my junk still works!...

Our friends found out my b/f was a virgin till very recently and now is angry/embarrassed that they know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of four months recently told me he was still a virgin at 26, (he told me at Christmastime) I was shocked, but I told him it didn't matter because it wasn't that uncommon. We talked about it and he told me the reason why he has never ...

I masturbate to photos of girls I know. What do I say if they find out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

20 March 2014 (M) - I am a 16 year old guy. I am constantly on social networking. I've many a time found myself looking at my friend's who are girls pictures. I have a tendency to masturbate to people I know and I never feel guilty about it. Is this wrong? Does this ...

Do you pressure for oral sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Do you or your significant other like to give or receive oral sex? If not do you pressure them (the whole "if you love me" thing") or do you leave it alone? I've been with my boyfriend for some years. I don't get sexually frustrated, but I'm tryi...

We can't have sex unless we are in a certain position. Is it the height difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I have started having sex w a new guy. He's 6'5" and I'm 5'5". For some reason he can't ever get his dick inside me unless I pull my legs up. Why is that? Is it because of the height differential? I don't get it! ...

Does he hate me being on top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I have a new (a few months) boyfriend. We're both 20 and he lost his virginity to me. The first couple of times we had sex I went on top for a fair bit... but since then we haven't, and I've tried to initiate that but he just seems to want to be ...

Will she give me another chance after calling her bad names for going out with other guys

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

18 March 2014 (M) - we met on zoosk and it was fantasic we hit it off TOO WELL and talked for 5 hour a day she called me in the morning and at work and we talked all night. we wanted to wait to have sex but didn't so the 2nd date we ended up in bed... so i went home ...

Am I crossing the line? Why do I feel that I say inappropriate things in class?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - I need opinion whether I say inappropriate things all the time. I have this group of people in one of my language classes. A teacher is a woman in her late 40s, then few guys about the same age and few younger men and women but not by much. ...

Boyfriend got rough and said I made him do it! Am I being used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - Help!!! Boyfriend got a little violet i make him do it. Will men please answer did i? Ok this day was bad i messed up so much. First good sex n blow job so i was thinking we gonna have great day. But right he texted a friend saying he board. Hurt my ...

Boyfriend gone off sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - Me and my partner are both 24, we've been together for 5 years. For the past few months, he wont have sex with me, I try to touch him but he'll push me away, say he's tired, make excuses like 'it's too early' 'later' and he has a headache. I've told ...

Old me vs new me. He loves how I used to look. Should I stay with him, now that he's so critical?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

16 March 2014 (F) - I have had a boyfriend since highschool six almost seven years. We have a daughter together, and in the first 5 years of our relationship I was in shape and fit and he was chunky. Now the tables have turned and he is the one in shape and im the ...

I want my lazy husband to leave my house but he wont go!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - hey I'm 39 years old married to a man who is 36 years old we been married for 10 years and have to children together I had two children's from my own things were good until my husband lost his job since tat he become different he don't wanna find a ...

I love my boyfriend but am attracted to the gay guy at work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I work at a book store near my hometown. I'm pretty shy so it's hard for me to connect with people. It's been a couple of months since I started working there, so it's getting easier. My coworkers are actually pretty cool. Especially one person in ...

I feel slightly embarrassed that he's sexually experienced and I'm not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - Hello there! I've been with my lovely boyfriend for about 8 months now, and we've been friends for years. Recently we'd spoken about having sex... However I'm a virgin, whilst he isn't. We've been doing a lot of oral sex for a while now, so I'...

I just can't help thinking that maybe he was more satisfied with her in the bedroom and now I'm even starting to think he may be comparing us in his head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - A few nights ago my boyfriend and I were talking and just goofing around and joking etc, and we ended up talking about his past sex life with his ex. This is the ex where they lost their virginity's together and the only girl he's ever been intimate ...

When we're apart, I want sex, when we're together, I don't! Is this normal for a pregnant woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

11 March 2014 (F) - I'm 26 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My fiancée and I live in different towns and see each other on weekends. My problem's I always miss our sex during d week (when he's not with me), but when we're together I just loose interest (want no ...

Do men have sex with women they aren't attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

11 March 2014 (F) - This is a question for the men: would you sleep with someone you weren't attracted to? I was recently shocked to find out that a very attractive male acquaintance of mine had a one night stand with a very unattractive woman. This has lef...

He might have called out another name, I'm not sure!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend around 3 1/2 years. Last night we were having sex [Mod note: overly graphic details removed] he was seeing *everything* up close and personal so there was NO way he could have mistaken me for someone else. He was ...

How do I get rid of my desires?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 48 year old woman in a 4 year relationship with a man who does not like to have sex or affection. I love him and for this to work I need help as soon as possible. I desire him all the time. I could see him from across the room ...

I've never had a bj to completion, should I try with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

10 March 2014 (M) - I am a 30 year old straight/bi curious man and I have never gotten a blowjob to completion. The woman has always stopped before I orgasm. I have the oppportunity to let another man give me a bj to completion. He wants to in the worst way and I am ...

He's 22 years younger and wants to date me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - I have just come out of a horrible one year relationship with a guy I really loved but am gradually feeling better. I met a lovely guy who said he was 38 to get my attentional. He is 26. He is good looking fit intelligent mature and a lot of fun...

My boyfriend's friends visit massage parlors for happy endings! Should I worry he is doing the same?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend is not asking for any physical pleasure from me lately and i found out from his friends that they are paying a visit to massage parlors for a quick and fun release from time to time in other words happy endings. I read many ...

I am insecure about my body ........

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - I really need help on overcoming my insecurity and body image issues . I have been married almost twenty years and am now separated . I have met someone and am extremely nervous about getting naked with him . I know he has been with women who have ...

We are emotionally perfect but sexually not compatible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

7 March 2014 (F) - I had earlier posted a question about losing spark with my long term boyfriend. We have been together for 9 years and ever since then he has had insecurity issues. Finally when he moved to another city 2 yrs back , our communication stopped ...

I can only get turned on by my girlfriend?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

7 March 2014 (M) - Hi My problem isnt terrible but I'm worried about it Is it normal to only get turned on by my girlfriend? I can only Masterbate to her. If I watch porn it wouldn't do anything for me it's weird , it took me 2 years of convincng but got her to...

Should I take it personally that he goes limp during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

6 March 2014 (F) - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he goes limp...I have NEVER had this issue before with anyone I have been with. I haven't had many partners, and he is the first and only one who has been with me since I had a child (3 years ago...

Have I lost Mr Right???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

5 March 2014 (F) - Have I lost Mr Right?? Years ago I fell out with him and his family As he never told them the truth. Recently we have been meeting up and having intercourse and floor play. It's just as and when needed. He gets married next year. ...

My man and I have been brought up very dfferently

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

5 March 2014 (F) - I'm not sure that me and my man are compatible. I seen a post on here a while ago about a woman thinking her man was needy and although I didn't agree with all of it it made me think. Me and my man have been friends since school and in a re...

Feelings of guilt over new relationship

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

5 March 2014 (?) - I am a 62 year old retired professional man, and I was widowed a little over two years ago. My late wife and I were married for 32 years, essentially we had a 'good' marriage, and I have one grown up son. Seven months ago (August 2013) I met in s...

I don't want our relationship to be all about sex, but I feel I am making it that way.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

5 March 2014 (M) - Hey well I am a 20 year old male and I am dating a 22 year old virgin and I know she wants to wait and I do too. The problem is I've been wanting to have sex with her lately really bad. I have been pushing for it and feeling horrible. I love her and ...