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writes:we met on zoosk and it was fantasic we hit it off TOO WELL and talked for 5 hour a day she called me in the morning and at work and we talked all night. we wanted to wait to have sex but didn't so the 2nd date we ended up in bed... so i went home the next day and im home for like 10 mins and she called and said she made a date with another guy.. said she was crying when i left cause she loved me and was scared of what we had. But i was really hurt and got pissed. But we talked and i was like go on your date watever. So she did and didn't like him and called me on the way home. I was a mess all day long until that call. So we go out to dinner a week later and it was fun and then we made plans for another romantic meeting at her house and she asks on the phone if there's anything i want to talk about and i said yes is that redmark on your chin from kissing me or from someone else and she flips out and cancels our date and makes another one with this guy ben and tells me that she told ben aboat my chin question. Well i was hip to her now and to protect myself i went out with another girl a couple days before to and when she made the date with ben i said "oh really im a step in front of you i went out on a date the other night. So now she's livid and says to never call her again.18 days go by and she re-subscribes to zoosk to yalk to me and says she's been trying to call but my phone was on the fritz. But by this time i was dating someone else and i tell her that she waited to long and i never thought she would come back to me ....but says she wants to be close friends and wants to go to dinner. So i spend the night at the new ones house and i tell her about it cause nothing happend there it was just a long drive and she put me up in a spare bedroom and we were not together anyway.Well she flips again and says she would have never done that.. and we really get into it and i called her names and she's in no contact mode now. I was so hurt that i rebounded into something im unsure of and i miss her terribly. I sent her emails and all nice ones but i had a bad night one night and sent some bad ones and she gets back to me and says i almost asked you out again with all you nice letters but your last couple tells me you will never change. Never talk or call me again.I really miss her and want her back. Today is day 5 of no contact cause i have been emailing her like crazy... im not allowed to call her! Well i guess everyone will think that this is retarted but its not to me i really suffered a lot with this girl yes im aware that its all really silly sounding but we really connected great in the beginning and we really had something special. I realise now that im a shithead and i was wrong and i really hope that someday i get another shot at her cause i really learned alot from all this and i will not lose my temper anymore and call her anymore names and i love her with all my heart.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 March 2014):
The way I look at rejection is that they're not rejecting me necessarily, there's not something wrong with me, we're just not compatible. You can be the most amazing guy in the world and some women won't like you. Either because they're lesbians or because they prefer flawed guys.
People tend to take rejection as a negative judgment on them and it's really not. Besides, she's bad news.
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reader, tissuetiger +, writes (21 March 2014):
tissuetiger is verified as being by the original poster of the question i guess im just obsessed than....you know you want what you cant have and the whole rejection thing has got me stuck....i cant seem to shake her!!!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 March 2014):
If not hearing from this loose cannon is making you crazy you were probably crazy to begin with.
You guys are perfect for each other I suspect, some people just like drama. I don't know if she'll contact you but you can keep trying.
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reader, tissuetiger +, writes (21 March 2014):
tissuetiger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe still wont talk to me and im going crazy!!!!
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reader, tissuetiger +, writes (21 March 2014):
tissuetiger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDo you guys think i will ever here from her again?
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reader, tissuetiger +, writes (20 March 2014):
tissuetiger is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni havent heard from her yet and thanks for all your help!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 March 2014):
 Drama-llama!!!
Block her number, block her on Zoosk and I agree with Sage.. if you two were 15-16 I could understand all this tit for tat and ridiculous games, but you put 41-50 as your age group? If that is correct, you BOTH need to GROW up.
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reader, llifton +, writes (19 March 2014):
 Wow, this woman is a professional game player. Don't you dare start to blame this on you. She played intentional mind games on you from the start and you fed right in.
This is the type of woman most men would want to run from. She's a nightmare. Don't waste one more single day thinking you did something wrong. She's playing you. And you're letting her. Forget her. You'll never have her and she's only leading with you. Ignore her/block her, etc. Waste. Of. Time.
Good luck.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (19 March 2014):
 If - or when - the two of you get past puberty, I'm sure you'll both have fine adult lives....
Good luck...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 March 2014):
You went on two dates and had this much drama? RUN!
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