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26-29,
*ittlemisshelpful
writes: Hello there! I've been with my lovely boyfriend for about 8 months now, and we've been friends for years. Recently we'd spoken about having sex... However I'm a virgin, whilst he isn't. We've been doing a lot of oral sex for a while now, so I'm comfortable with that. I'm sure he'll take care of me and do it right, but I'm just wondering if anyone had any advice on what I can do to make the process easier and less awkward? I feel slightly embarrassed that he's already experienced whilst I'm not. Any advice would be helpful, thanks!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 March 2014):
 If you feel uncomfortable then stick to the oral sex.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 March 2014):
 Don't be, we have ALL been there. That is the nature of the beast.
You got to start somewhere, yea? Just don't be afraid to let him know if something feels good or not so good. If he needs to slow down.
Most of all (and this is the hardest) TRY an relax and HAVE fun.
I can help to put on some music so you won't feel too self conscious of noises.
AND USE protection EVERY time. Even consider birth control for yourself, while STILL using condoms. Better safe then sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2014): Ask him what he'd like you to do. Also, tell him to show you what he likes the most, and watch him go. Tensions will fall when you take control.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (13 March 2014):
 Don't be embarrassed. Lack of experience is relieved with lots of experience. Practice makes perfect. Et cetera.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 March 2014):
 Well first off you should not feel embarrassed at all. The first time you both have sex will be new to him as well and a new experience so try not to worry. To make things a little smoother make sure that you use a good lubrication and also just try and relax and enjoy yourself. Off course you will be nervous for the first time but you will soon see you had nothing to worry about. Good luck.
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