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30-35,
*aisy93
writes:Hi, I have a new (a few months) boyfriend. We're both 20 and he lost his virginity to me. The first couple of times we had sex I went on top for a fair bit... but since then we haven't, and I've tried to initiate that but he just seems to want to be in control all the time. Then last night I finally went on top and after about 10 seconds he flipped me over and took over.I have no idea why this is, and I'm starting to doubt myself, am I awful in bed? I assume not as I've had relationships before and this hasn't happened... then I thought maybe he just hates it but (soz TMI) he can finish with me on top as he has done before..Can anyone shed some light? I've tried google searching and all that comes up is the opposite about guys loving the girl on top. :( I'm not sure whether to mention it or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2014): My guess is that he cant control himself. If he is premature he might like the control otherwise it might be a quick session and then he would feel bad for it.
maybe talk to him?
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (19 March 2014):
 Sounds like my ex husband.
He's an arsehole.
He does not care about your pleasure.
Get a new boyfriend, your lost self -esteem will take longer to find.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 March 2014):
 men love a girl on top!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 March 2014):
 no clue why he feels that way... you have to ask HIM.
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