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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel ...

Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in ...

Is this a sign he could be bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid i have had other questions about mu husbands sexuality before. But now i need to ask other people. He loves sex with me but it has gotton strange. I wants my to finger his ass. He likes to yell things like " #### my ass harder". We have ...

Would a fleshlight help a 32 male virgin gain some practice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

29 June 2014 (M) - Just a question. i posted earlier about being a 32 year old virgin. And poster Abella gave encouraging advice about it. i know and understand that a fleshlight with a mounting device that helps simulate doggy and missionary - and a mouth mol...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

It's seven years since my wife allowed me to touch her breasts. What might help to help her resolve her issues over this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - How can I get my wife to be comfortable with me touching her breasts? Ever since our daughter was born seven years ago touching her breasts has made her uncomfortable and its distressing me. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong and I do...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I n...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

He hasn't responded since sex in the stairwell

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I recently rekindled with this guy I met once several years ago. I ran into him at a party and there was definite chemistry and the night ended with a sexual encounter in the stairwell. We agreed to meet up later that week. I sent him a text the ...

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned u...

7 years in a sexless marriage. Is it wrong to ask my wife if I can get sex somewhere else?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - I am a 53 yr male with what I would call a good sex drive and I have been in a sexless marriage now for about 7 yrs medical issues.We have been together for 23yrs I love my wife very much and we have a great relationship but I afraid this could do ...

A FWB with a younger lady has turned into a relationship but my friends still tease about her. How do I turn this around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - I want to start off by saying I know my actions were uncalled for and I truly am sorry for the details I shared andhow they effected everyone. I'm 41 years old and this winter I met a 22 year old student and "hooked up" with her a few times. I...

Did something die in him and he's just in it for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I apologize in advance for the lengthiness of my story. I just really need to vent as a sort of closure. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated. I've been seeing a guy for the past 7 months. I know him for over a year as a former cowo...

He's showing no remorse and says my insecurity is the issue. Am I over-reacting over the video?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the past 3 years. Within the past 5 months we have finally decided to get serious. We've been living together for 3 months. In the past out relationship has majorly been unstable because of his lack of ...

Etiquette for sex and periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have recently got a new boyfriend, everything's going well, but I have a question so looking for some advice for people in the same situation. We have a lot of sex, which is great, I'm loving it, especially after having none for a good few years...

He brought an 18 year old home and wanted a 3some. What to do to cope with my bad feelings over this?.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I am dating a guy that I am crazy about, I am not what you would call a woman that has had the greatest track record with men, two divorces and several lost relationship problems in between with men and woman. Needless to say, been single for a wh...

Why does my ex FWB still talk sex when he says he just wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - So yesterday I called a guy out through text that i used to hook up with/have FWB's with about why he is always saying sexual things to me when we are just supposed to be friends now. He has said these things to me almost a dozen times and every ...

I am unable to achieve orgasm with my girlfriend. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - Hi I am 21 years old and just gotten into a relationship very recently, we have had sex 3 times now, and each time I have been unable to reach orgasm, I think I have somthing called delayed ejaculation... When I lost my virginity I couldn't...

30 year old male virgin. Sexually frustrated and have Aspergers syndrome.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a shy and sensitive university-educated 30 year old male who suffers from a mild autism known as Aspergers syndrome. Owing to my social interaction difficulties (I am not socially popular and have no true friends),I have nev...

Can a virgin still get hook-ups?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I personally don't think that sex is all that big of a deal, and I'm not waiting for the "right one" or any of that, but I'm still hopelessly a virgin. Like, I am just so sexually frustrated and taking care of it by myself is just getting old. All ...

Is this retroactive jealousy or is it abuse?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I'm not sure whether my boyfriend is suffering from retroactive jealousy or is actually a bad and possibly abusive person, what do you think? Story - we are 25 and 28, about the same number of partners (+1 for me), neither of us feels insecure, ...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

My husband wants me to act like a porn star and said I've ruined his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My husband told me I was a fat disgusting pig! And he watches porn because I'm boring in bed and I have no ambition. These are things he has never said before to me ,we got into a fight and told me he needed to get things off his chest. I have ...

I am my ex boyfriend's booty call .....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me in February, because "he didn't love me anymore and the spark wasn't there".. He has been sleeping with ALOT of girls, and drinking ALOT! I have been sleeping with him still, but now I'm starting to get jealous and have ...

I have become 'the other woman' to my ex and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm in a situation where I'm the other woman I feel terrible and I never thought I would get into this situation. Basically my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago we have a child together. He came up to see our child and things ended up ha...

The last time I got naked for a man the internet didn't exist ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Ok I need the brutal truth from men. I'm freshly back on the dating scene . The last time I got naked with a man for the first time the internet didn't exist ( at least not like today) and things were different. It seems highly likely that any man I ...

He is pressuring me for anal sex and he is out of my league anyway......

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I have just turned eighteen years old and I have been with my boyfriend for about six months. Recently he's been pressuring me to have anal sex with him. He goes on and on about it even though I've said no several times. He doesn't respect my ...

How do I integrate my fetishes into our sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

20 June 2014 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, I having been dating this girl for quite a while now and mostly everything is going great. However, I am still afraid to talk to her about the sexual fetishes I would at the very least like to try, if not integrate into o...

How do I get my girlfriend to be less selfish in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

20 June 2014 (M) - Hello all, My girlfriend and I have a good relationship and have been dating for about a year and a half. However, things in the bedroom have taken a turn for the worse. Saying that things have fallen flat would be an understatement. ...

I've been faking it for a year and don't know how to tell him, so I'm thinking about breaking up with him so I don't have to explain!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Hi. I need help! Background info: 25 years old, up until very recently I thought that I was incapable of orgasm, I thought maybe something was wrong with me because I've never orgasmed during sex, figured out that I'm pretty normal and can only ...

I feel like we're just having sex for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - Hello! I feel really awkward about this, but I need answers before I go insane. I started dating my best friend, we've been together 8 months, before I started dating him I had a craaazy sex drive, always have had. By anyones standards, th...

How do I tell her without offending her about her wiping issue?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - Hi I just started dating a new girl . The sex is great and we both oral fixated me giving and her getting . There is one problem she wants her anus licked which I usually enjoy doing but there is a problem with this she has a wiping problem back ...

No sex for 7 months and now blood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3801 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - The first time I had sex I didn't bleed. Then felt I had problem and my BF thought I lied. I've had sex several times after then with him. I stopped having sex for about 7 months. Penetration became difficult when he tried, but eventually it ...

I've made the worst mistake ever ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - I got very drunk last night with my fiancé and a few friends. By the end of the night I was pretty inebriated. I often feel the desire to have sex when drunk however she was not interested because of the way I was acting earlier in the evening. I ...

My nude modelling job went horribly wrong, the photographer now has graphic pics of me and I'm afraid of the repercussions

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm almost 21. Yesterday I did a modelling job, supposedly completely professional and artistic in nature. I was made to sign a release but assumed it was okay (I have difficultly reading long passages) and the photographer seemed nice. He asked ...

I don't want a relationship. How do people actually find no-strings sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - Call me Curious, I have been pondering this for quite awhile, males, females: "Am I the only one who wants sex? If not, how come it seems this way even becoming a new adult?" Here's some background, I'm a laidback guy who can get a lady god knows ...

My upbringing makes me feel guilty about using my sex toys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - I was brought up with the idea that sex was dirty, porn was unquestionably wrong, sexual expression was shameful (saying "sexy", for example, was taboo in my household), and sex toys were disgusting. Of course, now that I'm an adult (an open o...

My husband is masturbating ALL the time!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - My husband is masturbating ALL the time. He does it 3-4 times a day during the work week and more on weekends. We will just be sitting there enjoying a movie and I'll look over and he's doing it. We have sex regularly. We've had it four times this ...

Should I have sex now or later?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

13 June 2014 (F) - I love this guy so much and I know he loves me.......we've been dating since November last year(2013), seriously, i can't wait 2 have sex with him ( we're still virgins)... My question is, should i have sex now or later(but I'm afraid, he might ...

My vagina doesn't look so nice

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - Hey guys I don't want him to see my vagina when i was younger i shaved it and i got shaving pimples and i got dark pimple spot and it doesn't look so nice ... what can i do ????...

Trying to spice things up -- how about my cheerleader uniform?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom. i recently found one of my old cheerleading uniforms from high school and discovered that i can still fit into it...and i'm thinking that it might be fun to try a ...

My boyfriend is refusing to get an STI test

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship although we have been friends for many years. We are trying to figure out if we want to move to the same country and make a go of things and will plan to spend a month together soon. My problem ...

I've been having sex with other men with my husband's consent. Anyone else been there, done that? Has it worked out for you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - I have been having sex with other men because it is a turn on for my husband and he wants me to do it. At first I thought that this was some kind of entrapment scheme he was getting me into but I soon found out he was serious. The first few ...

How do I know if I'm having an orgasm during sex? And why is it so difficult for my boyfriend to give me a clitoral orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - Hey! This is a really kind of an intimate question. But I was wondering what female orgasms feel like? I'm sexually active with my boyfriend of 1 year. Masturbating by myself, I find I experience this very intense kind of orgasm that cons...

Why don't I feel close to my boyfriend? I feel distant from him even though we do enjoy intimacy together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - Hi! So I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, and I really like him and he really likes me. Now the problem is, as much as I like him, I really can't feel close to him. Like, it barely feels like we're in a relationship! It...

My 15 year old brother in law has been making odd advances and curious about very personal issues. This is making me so confused. Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - A little background: I'm someone who never thought about marriage because my parents went through a 6 year long divorce and I don't really understand what love is. I ended up getting married because I got pregnant and we needed the insuranc...

What is wrong with this man who 'groomed' me when I was fourteen? Years have passed and he still contacts me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - Hello dear all, Please bear for the long story and please don't mind the language mistakes.. I am a 20 year old female who has met this certain man when I was around 9 or 10 years old because we were both in the same activity. Around the age...

Why is he being so tepid in bed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend since October. We started having sex often and regularly a month into the relationship. He's not that great in bed. I thought this would change as we got closer, playing and developing a sense of what the other likes. ...

Am I wasting my time with this girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

10 June 2014 (M) - So there's this girl that I like and I've taken her out a couple of times now and just when things were looking up, she goes camping with her friends and sleeps with another guy when she was drunk. The next day this guy texts her saying he really ...