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writes:Ok I need the brutal truth from men. I'm freshly back on the dating scene . The last time I got naked with a man for the first time the internet didn't exist ( at least not like today) and things were different. It seems highly likely that any man I meet will be so used to having access to millions of gorgeous naked females every day if he wanted and That seems just a little scary ... So please men tell me , Have you ever been disappointed by a woman's naked body when seeing it for the first time ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2014): OP the internet has changed nothing. We had Playboy, Hustler and porn videotapes, nudity in movies, fashion magazines, and even beaches were we could ogle beautiful women. We've always had access to pictures of beautiful women, OP, we're men we've always done that.
Having easier access means nothing.
OP the last time I was disappointed by a woman's body I was 14 and when she took off her bra her breasts just fell out and to the sides. That was the first time I'd gotten a girl to take off her bra and I'd never realised they didn't actually look like they when outside the bra. That was the last time too.
OP women are the only ones who compare themselves to other women, we don't. We just love women of all shapes and sizes.
Let me tell you a little secret too, we have seen you naked before you take your clothes off. It doesn't matter what you wear, we've seen your body and if we've gotten to the point of wanting to take your clothes off then we've already decided we like your body.
There simply aren't any surprises in that respect to men our age.
So unless you plan on dating teenage virgins who have only ever seen a naked woman in pictures, then you literally have nothing to worry about.
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reader, methuselah  +, writes (22 June 2014):
Hi,
Truth: I dated a 47 year old divorced lady who was 5ft 6 and 200 1b.(her observation of herself)
She had had 3 three children from her previous husband.
I married her.
For me, I enjoyed our relationship so much I wasn't comparing.
Please do not despair, when a guy is interested, he wont be looking and comparing.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2014): I can't speak for all men but the experience of a real woman is completely different from internet. Separate in my mind.
Yes, we have things we like or don't like in women's bodies. And yes the internet does have influence on us. But I think if you are being "ranked" in a guy's mind it will be against other women he has been with in real life, not the internet images.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (22 June 2014):
 NO WAY! I don't think there's a man alive that would ever be disappointec with a naked womsn's body. We men are much more disappointed in our own naked body than any women's
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